Really really considering leaving my husband

I'll try to make this short. My husband and I have been married for 13 years. When we first started dating he seemed like the person I was looking for. He was caring like to go out and ha have a good time, would do projects around the house to be helpful.

Since our marriage I've come to realize that we are completely opposite in the following ways : 1. He recently told me that he d does not mind if I cheat on him. - I would like him to care if I were sleeping with other men.

1. He is in my opinion completely addicted to video games,he plays at least 6 to 9 hours a day. -I hate them, I feel they are a complete waste of time and feel spending more than 10 hours a week playing them is rediculous.

2. He will only bond with our son over video games, movies and cartoons. Even though he played sports all through his youth and was a star athelete.

3. I would like him to respond to my sons requests to play sports, workout (which my husband will do on his own but refuses to include my son) and just do anything outside.

4. He refuses to make any decisions. Any decisions that do not have to do with him specifically i.e. His job, if he works out or his general hygiene. -If I had a dollar for everytime I've heard "is up to you" or "whatever you want". I feel absolutely forced to make every decision for our family and thus bear All responsibility if things go wrong. -If we have an argument, we just stop talking and he just waits until I'm not mad anymore. He refuses to resolve anything and I'm Tired of having to make things right all the time or resolve every situation.

I have brought all of this up to him multiple time a and get nothing. He is not a bad man, i just feel like we are never going to sync up..... But i also know that because I make All decisions... The kids would blame me in the end.

But I'm miserable 90% of the time.

Submitted April 05, 2019 at 06:42PM

I'll try to make this short. My husband and I have been married for 13 years. When we first started dating he seemed like the person I was looking for. He was caring like to go out and ha have a good time, would do projects around the house to be helpful.Since our marriage I've come to realize that we are completely opposite in the following ways : 1. He recently told me that he d does not mind if I cheat on him. - I would like him to care if I were sleeping with other men.He is in my opinion completely addicted to video games,he plays at least 6 to 9 hours a day. -I hate them, I feel they are a complete waste of time and feel spending more than 10 hours a week playing them is rediculous.He will only bond with our son over video games, movies and cartoons. Even though he played sports all through his youth and was a star athelete.I would like him to respond to my sons requests to play sports, workout (which my husband will do on his own but refuses to include my son) and just do anything outside.He refuses to make any decisions. Any decisions that do not have to do with him specifically i.e. His job, if he works out or his general hygiene. -If I had a dollar for everytime I've heard "is up to you" or "whatever you want". I feel absolutely forced to make every decision for our family and thus bear All responsibility if things go wrong. -If we have an argument, we just stop talking and he just waits until I'm not mad anymore. He refuses to resolve anything and I'm Tired of having to make things right all the time or resolve every situation.I have brought all of this up to him multiple time a and get nothing. He is not a bad man, i just feel like we are never going to sync up..... But i also know that because I make All decisions... The kids would blame me in the end.But I'm miserable 90% of the time.