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/u/Acceptable_Table on Am I the only asexual who somehow hates how this sub indirectly antagonises allosexuals and the lowkey sex negativity?

What if he just found out? It’s not always a lie. If you really can’t stand being with him, just because of that, do you really love him? He’s just a replaceable guy. January 12, 2021 at 12:03AM

/u/sneakpeekbot on Anyone else gets really uncomfortable when inapropiate scenes happen in TV Shows?

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/u/bakinggaddict on Anyone else gets really uncomfortable when inapropiate scenes happen in TV Shows?

Absolutely! My favourite kdrama’s which include very little to absolutely no romance include: Sky Castle - The best kdrama I’ve ever watched, I’m yet to find one which is on par with this one. This kdrama portrays the extent Korean parents are willing to go to in order to ensure their children fit societal standards in terms of education and getting them into the top universities in Korea. The premise may sound so boring, but it’s executed amazingly and is so so dramatic. Each episode leaves you wanting to watch more. (However you may find the beginning of the first episode boring). Signal - this one is amazing! I love it so much. It’s come and about a detective from 1989 who is able to communicate with a profiler from 2015. Allowing them to solve and prevent crimes. There’s very little romance, but no focus on it. While You Were Sleeping - I really love this kdrama. The first episode itself is almost like a movie and one of the best pilot episodes I’ve ever watched. There is ro...

/u/stumbling_disaster on Am I the only asexual who somehow hates how this sub indirectly antagonises allosexuals and the lowkey sex negativity?

Because in my opinion, it means you didn't tell them about your true sexuality before entering into the relationship in the first place, just like the gay man. If I was a sex repulsed asexual, it would've been on me to disclose that to my partner. They should be aware that sex is off the table before there is even a chance to fall in love. I could never be with someone who wasn't affectionate with me. It's the main way I feel loved. If my partner won't kiss, cuddle, or even hug me, I would feel absolutely rejected and it would be no different than having a roommate. January 12, 2021 at 12:02AM

/u/Azrael_042 on Anyone else gets really uncomfortable when inapropiate scenes happen in TV Shows?

I don't know what kdramas are, but I can recommend some mystery/crime shows if you want. I don't know how prevalent they are outside of the US though... January 12, 2021 at 12:02AM

/u/Leebledeeble on Watching porn out of curiosity

I've never seen a bernini up close, I'll have to give it a look! January 12, 2021 at 12:00AM

/u/AMarmaladeSandwich on Questions on "sexual desire" and the boundaries of the label of asexuality.

It’s not the best terminology, I’ll admit. Still, we’ll try and work with what we’ve got. So, first bit. - When I say cognitive process it’s because I screwed up and what I actually mean is conscious process. Oh well, word mix up are how we got here in the first place right? So to reiterate, you can want to have sex (be horny, feel desire for sexual activity,) and you can want have sex with someone and become aroused by them specifically (sexually attracted to them). So that’s the difference, it’s between wanting the person, or wanting the activity. For ease, just Chuck out the phrase sexual desire and use libido instead, they’re talking about the same thing. The cognitive/conscious thing is about how you said you do feel innate, subconscious desire for a person, but you don’t see yourself having sex with them because of what appears to be some form of sex repulsion, forgive me if I’m wrong there. So you do sound like you feel sexual attraction, it’s just that you consciously decide...

/u/Azrael_042 on Anyone else gets really uncomfortable when inapropiate scenes happen in TV Shows?

I identify as Grey ace, but even then I don't care about them (but I also don't watch many rated R shows/movies) January 11, 2021 at 11:59PM

/u/oliviaocampo9999 on Now I'm hungry

I've also heard it's a great workout January 11, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/Emma_Christine19 on The Burger is truly the height of human civilization

Oh, no. Omg. I read it as vegan sex. Oof. Idk what I was thinking. January 11, 2021 at 11:56PM

/u/Acceptable_Table on Am I the only asexual who somehow hates how this sub indirectly antagonises allosexuals and the lowkey sex negativity?

If he’s gay, he doesn’t like her. But an asexual person can like a woman. If the woman leaves a man that loves her because she can’t have sex... that’s what I don’t understand. Because I would never leave a person because he or she does not kiss or hug or hold hands with me. Who cares? We’re in love. January 11, 2021 at 11:53PM

/u/ElyontheRaccoon on So happy I started reading this comic

Which comic is this? January 11, 2021 at 11:51PM

/u/Alice2002 on pls send help

Asexual doesn't always mean Aromantic so, Two Asexuals sitting on a tree K-I-S-S-I-N-G January 11, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/ThatRWBYFangirl on Is it wrong for me to take lewd photos even though I identify as asexual?

I want to treat them like royalty :) January 11, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/MountainsDoNotExist on pls send help

Why does this subreddit always show me posts I reblogged on tumblr. How do you know???? January 11, 2021 at 11:40PM

/u/Malta_4of7 on Thought you guys would appreciate this

I eat sour cream AND noodles in my chili. Mwahahaha! January 11, 2021 at 11:38PM

/u/ehelinek on Are there any other adult asexuals who've never had or want to have sex?

31, aroace, can’t tell if I’m personally sex repulsed, or sex neutral but touch averse, but regardless don’t see any scenario occurring where I find out which it is. And it was so emotionally freeing once I realized I didn’t ever have to! So yeah, never have, likely never will. For me, one of the joys of this community is that there’s so many different ways to be ace. And I like to remind myself that if there’s vocabulary to describe something, it’s because enough people have had that life experience for there to need to be words for it. So there’s definitely lots of us who are in the same boat as you! January 11, 2021 at 11:35PM

/u/IndigoWolfhard0242 on Anyone else gets really uncomfortable when inapropiate scenes happen in TV Shows?

Can you recommend me some kdramas that are mystery/crime/thriller? I tolerate romace scenes but prefer it if there weren't any. January 11, 2021 at 11:33PM

/u/EleventyTwo-- on Just Another Cyberbullying Post

That was about 40% of our conversation too. January 11, 2021 at 11:32PM

/u/romanator25 on Hi!!

Makes sense, I relate to that very much, I have never had the feeling or the urge to even try masterbation. Took me probably longer than it should for me to learn that apparently that wasn’t the common thing lol January 11, 2021 at 11:29PM

/u/Cakeyplane on Watching porn out of curiosity

I watch porn for two reasons: 1. Needing to get references for art. The only commissions I seem to get are erotica based so I often have to use porn to try and understand what someone with a Fetish might find enjoyable, as well as screen shot references. 2. Nostalgia for bondage stuff. I don’t really do sex these days but I still enjoy doing parts of bdsm, and when I miss the days I used to explore and act on that I just watch porn instead of actually going through the hassle of sex. But honestly I don’t really tend to watch it though. When I don’t need visual references I just read my porn. It can be a tad bit more enjoyable when I just remove the physical human beings and Just allow myself to enjoy the concept of sexual action. January 11, 2021 at 11:29PM

/u/AwesomO4K00 on Hi!!

I have sexual attraction, very much, crazy sex drive and stuff, that’s really the masturbation that I don’t understand. There’s just no point to it for me.. January 11, 2021 at 11:27PM

/u/leonissans on big ace vibes from your local discord server

I mean, cfast is expensive and so are tilta cages, but you can get a few inexpensive RF lenses, and vintage is always an option, and I guess yeah gimbals help but you don't need onr January 11, 2021 at 11:27PM