I’ve been using dating apps primarily to find potential partners and I feel great about my profile and my interactions with women I meet there. There will sometimes be people that are super attractive I match with, and if we have a good back and forth and talk for a day or so go on a date- and I’m always worried that they’re too pretty for me, and that my profile is TOO good such that it misrepresents how attractive I really am. Like I’m a catfish. And each time I go on a date with someone I’m worried about this with (it’s gotta be like half a dozen or so women so far) they’re not interested after the first date. OF COURSE there’s nothing wrong with that, but it mentally reinforces the notion that I’m not attractive enough. It happens so much that when I end up planning on going on a date with someone I feel I’m not good enough for I end up feeling really really bad. Like, I want to just tell them I’m not interested and move on. I don’t want to lead anyone on and have them be disappoi...

Matched with a woman on a dating app. Turns out she lives in Florida and she's hot. OK instantly I'm like "nahh, scam" and I even told her that: "Usually out of state and attractive means scam on this app". Of course she says she's real and wants my number. So I say "OK if I give you my number will you get on a video call?" She agrees. OK hmm still think it's a scam but I go forward and give her my number. Long story short: she sent me an Amazon OTP code so that she could use that app to video chat. Then I give her the code and she says "go ahead and click on the link in your email". The email says "Change your Amazon password" or something. My response (to the woman): >"Change your Amazon password"? lol fuck you and block. Then I got another text that said something like "This is Daniel from Amazons. Please respond so we may secure your account" (it really said Amazons). Blocked that one to...

So a little context, when I met him we were both in a relationship, he broke with his girlfriend first and after that he started talking with me a lot for a whole month, and I caught feelings for him so I broke with my boyfriend too. The thing is the night after my break up, i slept him. And we have been doing that ever since, we have talked that we like each other and don’t want to be a rebound so we are gonna wait.(but still f** around)but I like him so much and i want to be with him. I’m a little scared because when he was with his girlfriend, everytime they were tired of each other they will give themselves time for screwing whoever they want for a month but he says she was the one that propose that arrangement. Plus he says she is crazy. Any advice ? Submitted January 06, 2022 at 03:25AM So a little context, when I met him we were both in a relationship, he broke with his girlfriend first and after that he started talking with me a lot for a whole month, and I caught feelin...

I can rationalize that sometimes people just aren’t a match but it really hurts my feelings when things seemed to be going well and the guy seemed super interested and then they just lose interest or start only talking infrequently/only about sex or coming over instead of going on dates. How can I not internalize that this person chose to court and date people and had relationships with them, but then met me and decided I wasn’t interesting enough or worth anything more than just limited contact or sex? I know I’m an attractive, kind, and decent person who has their life together. People generally like to be around me but I can’t find a man who wants to be with me and like me for anything beyond sex or the bare minimum. Im not jumping into the sack with these people and do not prematurely make them the center of my universe. I have a life. I think we have a good back and forth going but I can’t get to a place where someone wants to be in a relationship with me. Admittedly I don’t d...

This is from the David G. Myers Psychology textbook (thirteenth edition I believe). We're using it for my AP psychology course January 06, 2022 at 12:57AM

Sometimes, a gal wants to choke on one, it's been months and it's so hard . Advice? Xx Submitted January 06, 2022 at 01:16AM Sometimes, a gal wants to choke on one, it's been months and it's so hard .Advice? Xx

This is probably the best description I have ever heard I'm fucking dying 💀💀💀💀🤣 I always just assumed it had something to do with being Autistic & just awkward as hell 😭😆 January 06, 2022 at 12:13AM

I saw a post like this and it said would you marry a asexual and I said no because I’m also aromantic January 06, 2022 at 12:12AM

I called myself demi for about ten years straight after that lol January 06, 2022 at 12:08AM

that's SUPER close. January 06, 2022 at 12:08AM

Really? Let’s connect then! I’m very close to Cherry Hill! January 06, 2022 at 12:06AM

I meet a great guy and we went on a few dates but weren't able to see each other over the holidays and I ended up scaring him away for being more fast paced than he was comfortable with things moving. He was keen to see me again but I was feeling to anxious so wanted to sort things out via text which ended up reaffirming that I wanted too much and him saying we should date anymore. He says his feeling havent changed but it's not compatible. I am willing to take thing's slower but have I already taken it to far.... We've also had quite a deep conversation since then too which has probably just reinforced it more Submitted January 06, 2022 at 12:16AM I meet a great guy and we went on a few dates but weren't able to see each other over the holidays and I ended up scaring him away for being more fast paced than he was comfortable with things moving. He was keen to see me again but I was feeling to anxious so wanted to sort things out via text which ended up reaff...

why is sex the only difference between relationships and friendships with some ppl January 05, 2022 at 11:52PM

i understand it but it makes me cringe, i can't do sex talk no no January 05, 2022 at 11:49PM

Yay!! Congratulations! Also, I wish I had that much style lol I now need to find a way to coordinate an outfit with all the ace flag colours. January 05, 2022 at 11:41PM

There’s a list of ace groups, though I’m not sure if it’s up to date or how many of them are in person given covid. January 05, 2022 at 11:40PM

Its good to feel proud January 05, 2022 at 11:39PM