I (26M) had been chatting online with a cool, interesting woman (27F) for a couple days. I really liked that she would write long, thought-out answers to my questions, and I’d do the same with her. So I asked her out and she said yes, and we got drinks the next day. She looked even better than her photos and was as interesting and pleasant as she seemed online. We had moments of laughter and some deeper conversations that definitely showed some differences between us about interests and her having more relationship experience than me. We got multiple rounds of drinks and she seemed to be having a great time. 4 hours of constant conversation later she said she needed to get home, so I paid the tab (she was very grateful) and was prepared to say goodbye at the sidewalk. She asked if she could walk me to the subway and I said of course. On the way, she was complimenting me (about my interests, my appearance). She told me she had a great time and asked me to text her when I got home. I

<Chef's hat Symbol> Please Don't do anything to the Chef <Giancarlo Esposito's famous pose> You don't have sex because you can't, I don't have sex because I don't want to, We're not the same. <Marlon Brando from Godfather> Saw enough tits and dicks Show me you're memes And finally the most hard hitter. <Steam Engine> I don't find people attractive, Don't want any sex. But trains do excite me. Careful with this one tho, your number of friends will grow exponentially. January 05, 2023 at 12:31AM

So i met this girl on tinder. And i have to say she is absolutely adorable. She sais she is looking for friends and a relationship. We do have the same interests, love the same music. I wanted to invite her for a first meet up and a concert. She responded with. She wants to go but she doesnt let ppl invite her. I rly wanna ask her out on a genuine date but idk how. Any advice please? Submitted January 05, 2023 at 12:11AM So i met this girl on tinder. And i have to say she is absolutely adorable. She sais she is looking for friends and a relationship. We do have the same interests, love the same music. I wanted to invite her for a first meet up and a concert. She responded with. She wants to go but she doesnt let ppl invite her. I rly wanna ask her out on a genuine date but idk how. Any advice please?

I’m (M) probably overthinking this, but I’ll be 26 next month and I’ve been with one woman, from 2016-2019. At that time I had turned 19 a day prior to calling it official and she was a couple months short of 18. She was a Christian saving herself for marriage and I (at the time had no religious beliefs) did not care and was willing to wait despite her being my first (and still only) girlfriend. A year and 10 months in she decided against her original belief and I made sure she was completely positive it was what she wanted. I was 4 months short of being 21 when we lost our virginity together. Well now almost 26, and my only relationship ending just before Covid locked us down, I’ve noticed I’ve become even more introverted than I already was. Going to clubs or parties I stick to my friends. I’ve tried dating apps and when the odd match comes in I either don’t message, they message first and the conversation is so dry I know there will be no connection, or I assume she’s waiting for

A note about Bojack - It is set in LA (well mostly) which is kind of known for having a lot of "queer" people (Hollywoo and all lol) Not like San Francisco or anything, which is more of like a "historically queer" city - but more accepting of out of the ordinary-ness Just a bit of nuance from a dumb American ;p <3 January 04, 2023 at 11:28PM

I apologize. That was a needlessly shitty comment. I had a long day and need a nap. It is good for you to find a way to express yourself. January 04, 2023 at 11:28PM