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/u/MusaMaka on What kinds of YouTubers/YouTube videos do you guys watch?

Games, (people like CaptainSauce GrayStillPlays and LaurenZSide) reddit videos (while doing other things) listen to music Political and atheist Youtubers (like Suris and Jimmy Snow <previously Mr Atheist>) Authertube (mainly Alexa Donne and Jenna Moreci) A lot of Cosplayers (Uptown Cosplay is my fav) A bunch of LGBTQ+ creators / commenter And A few random people (like iilluminaughtii pixilocks and iisuperwomenii) November 04, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/Sam-Krasnyy on Aphobes be like... (also thanks to the person who tried to defend me)

I can confirm that it is not something we are taught. Think of it this way, would knowing the difference help in any way in keeping you alive long enough to get to a hospital? Because that is the core of EMT training. Keeping the patient alive long enough for doctors to actually save them. November 04, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/Alita_the_lily on Aphobes be like... (also thanks to the person who tried to defend me)

Can we also quickly talk about how someone who is an EMT (who would have to be legally an adult and out of high school) is lurking on a teenager subreddit? November 04, 2021 at 11:56PM

/u/Reb_1_2_3 on How do i know if i am asexual or if I just never have experienced sexual attraction

In the about section of this sub there is a section in the wiki called experiences. Where regular people describe what it's like to have sexual attraction. Reading that is what cinched it for me, that's what they experience is nowhere close to what I experience. November 04, 2021 at 11:55PM

My girlfriend has a hard time orgasming because it's too intense and building it up steadily seems impossible. Need help :(

So everytime I play with her clit, even with the slightest touch it'll feel really good to her but soon cause these jolts of "pleasure" that are just too intense and not pleasurable. She says it's just not pleasurable to have that roller coaster of sensation compared to a steady build-up which she says is the only way she orgasmed the last time I did it for her. Granted, she was a virgin before meeting me and I'm her first boyfriend so she has no prior experience. I've made her orgasm twice so far but it was on the same day and within 5 minutes of each other; I was just using my finger to play with her clit. That day consisted of lots of foreplay, oral on both sides, and then fingering her clit like I was practically digging for gold (we weren't even having sex then). However, now even the slightest pressure causes those occasional jolts that don't actually feel good when not at her actual climax which I can't even reach because the jolts start s...

Wife wants to buy a dildo.

Hello, I seeking some opinions. My wife has been talking about wanting a buy a dildo. I’m quite conservative and was kinda appalled. I feel like she isn’t as happy about our sex lives as I am. She tried to assure me that wasn’t the problem. She explained her fantasy was to give me a blowjob and pleasure herself, but I feel like that is cheating. Submitted November 05, 2021 at 12:51AM Hello, I seeking some opinions. My wife has been talking about wanting a buy a dildo. I’m quite conservative and was kinda appalled. I feel like she isn’t as happy about our sex lives as I am. She tried to assure me that wasn’t the problem. She explained her fantasy was to give me a blowjob and pleasure herself, but I feel like that is cheating.

Men, do you prefer a pussy that's shaven or all natural?

I'm a woman who's pussy is all natural. I cut them periodically so it doesn't get too long & doesn't make me itchy. As we all know, a woman's pussy in porn is always shaven & so it leads me to ask a question, specifically men, if they prefer a pussy that's smooth as a baby or they're all right with an unshaven one. Submitted November 05, 2021 at 12:52AM I'm a woman who's pussy is all natural. I cut them periodically so it doesn't get too long & doesn't make me itchy.As we all know, a woman's pussy in porn is always shaven & so it leads me to ask a question, specifically men, if they prefer a pussy that's smooth as a baby or they're all right with an unshaven one.

Recently I explained "after-care" to my boyfriend and he got a bit upset

So I explained the term to him, it was a light hearted conversation and I didn't think much of it. Since then I have noticed that he's been particularly good with spooning and cuddling after sex and he will often joke "is this classified as "after care"' and I'll say yep. Happy days. Its come up a few times since, but the other night we had a similar talk and I could tell it was bothering him. He said "you needing after care implies that I'm taking advantage of you or doing something to you as opposed to you wanting it" I said, I don't mean it like that... I absolutely do want it. And we ended up going around in circles a bit. I found it hard to explain why I needed it and he found it hard to understand why he needed to provide some sort of soothing after what he would describe as "love making" which is closeness in itself? Submitted November 05, 2021 at 12:54AM So I explained the term to him, it was a light hearted c...

Ovulation makes me furiously horny

During my ovulation window, I get really really really horny. And sometimes I get so horny, I'm very angry, especially when I have someone I'm seeing somewhat regularly and they don't make time for me. I feel super entitled, in fact I know I am being so. But I can't help the feelings. Like it makes me not want to speak with the people I'm seeing if they don't make that time. It gets so bad, even just for the few days, that part of me wants to go back on hormonal BC, which really dulled me and my sex drive. I love my sex drive so much, but ovulation actually is physically painful for me if I'm not sexual. Masturbation relieves the pain during, but there's no satisfaction like with a partner. And, so, I have to do it for a lot longer. Sometimes it's so bad I masturbate at work (I work alone in a car thats private and all that) 🤦🏼‍♀️ Submitted November 05, 2021 at 12:58AM During my ovulation window, I get really really really horny. And someti...

Is it a friend lunch or a date?

Went back to my old job pre Covid So about 2 years since the doors temporarily closed. Now back open with all the same staff. I look a lot different from 2 years ago. I am healthier and way happier. Anyways, a guy coworker, now working together never really worked close before. (Different locations) Before of course no interest on his part bc 1) I was overweight/bloated/a mess and 2) he didnt ever have a chance to work with me so never got to know my personality Now, hes offered to teach me how to drive a few times. I never followed thru on my end Two days ago he mentioned going to a restaurant which I was unfamiliar with. Casual conversation. Today, I asked if he went to said restaurant recently. He said no, then asked if I would like to go with him next week. I said sure. But... is he asking me out on a date? Or just as friends? I cant really fathom anyone really seeing me as being attractive since i was so unattractive before. Surely, in everyone else's mind, I still look the s...

They Lose Interest As Soon As We Start Texting

What the heck am I doing wrong? Why do these girls match with me on dating apps only to almost instantly lose interest as soon as we start texting? I always start with a “Hello, how are you?” She goes “Fine, you?” Me: “I’m fine too, hey, tell me a bit more about yourself”… From here on the woman starts giving cold uninterested replies or full on ghosts me. WTF?! I mean if she wasn’t interested in the first place then why match me back?! Submitted November 05, 2021 at 12:11AM What the heck am I doing wrong?Why do these girls match with me on dating apps only to almost instantly lose interest as soon as we start texting?I always start with a “Hello, how are you?”She goes “Fine, you?”Me: “I’m fine too, hey, tell me a bit more about yourself”…From here on the woman starts giving cold uninterested replies or full on ghosts me. WTF?!I mean if she wasn’t interested in the first place then why match me back?!

Don't want to put her off if I tell her my size

I don't want this post to come across crude or horrible in anyway and this is a really serious post, I'm not trying to impress anybody or big myself up, this is a genuine post I want advice on. So I have recently started to date this girl, we hit it off from the start and we have both been honest and open about our relationships, she openly told me she has only been with two guys in which the sex she didn't enjoy because it was painful, so I asked why? I was thinking they must of been huge, but she said they wasn't, she does get wet but it's always really tight So I was lost for words at this point and I didn't know what to say, she keeps trying to come onto me but I'm a little put off now incase we get into it and she doesn't enjoy it, have you ever experienced anything like this where its painful? I haven't showed her my P yet and she doesn't know the size I'm worried because I'm "Well blessed" so to speak and her ex was ...

Why does this girl never allow me to pay for us?

Is this a sign she’s not romantically interested? She paid for me more than once and I wanted to pay for her food to show her that I appreciate her. But she says she likes paying for her own stuff. I’m not mad or opposed to this or anything i’m just confused on what it could mean, besides that she’s an strong independent woman. Submitted November 05, 2021 at 12:15AM Is this a sign she’s not romantically interested?She paid for me more than once and I wanted to pay for her food to show her that I appreciate her. But she says she likes paying for her own stuff.I’m not mad or opposed to this or anything i’m just confused on what it could mean, besides that she’s an strong independent woman.

Hitting up an old hookup

I (F20) broke off this friends with benefits (M20) situation probably almost 2 months ago. I’ve just been feeling a little…frustrated and was wondering if it would look bad if I hit him up again. Like you think he would take offense to it? We still go to the same gym and we end up ignoring each other now, which isn’t hurtful but just rude to me. I’m between thinking I may have hurt his ego or he’d happily oblige. I’d like outside opinions nonetheless. Submitted November 05, 2021 at 12:15AM I (F20) broke off this friends with benefits (M20) situation probably almost 2 months ago. I’ve just been feeling a little…frustrated and was wondering if it would look bad if I hit him up again. Like you think he would take offense to it? We still go to the same gym and we end up ignoring each other now, which isn’t hurtful but just rude to me. I’m between thinking I may have hurt his ego or he’d happily oblige. I’d like outside opinions nonetheless.

To my fellow black men, got some things on my mind

Why is it that the more darker side of us (being a thug, gangsta, criminal) more attractive to our women? It's like being raised to be the opposite of that makes us invisible. I've been in a professional career for the past 6 years (I'm 28) and I fought hard to get out of the messed up environments a lot of us come from. I was always told we live on the hood, of course a majority of women are gonna go with that type of guy, if you are not that type of guy, get out of here, relocate, get a career that's professional, and not only will your life change, but your dating experience as well. So I was like okay cool, all the girls I liked back home, every last ond of them and I literally mean every last one, went for thugs, gangsters, drug dealers, killers, I mean as hood and street as they could get them. My das was that type of guy, which is why I've grown up without him, he's still currently in prison. He told me to be better, do better, he did his dirt and he...

/u/rslashdepressedteen on Aphobes be like... (also thanks to the person who tried to defend me)

I'm sure an EMT would have better grammar than that. November 04, 2021 at 11:55PM

/u/sug4rbyt3 on I think this accurately describes my flavor of asexuality

Never seen a meme so relatable in my life until now 😂 November 04, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/bryant_modifyfx on Aphobes be like... (also thanks to the person who tried to defend me)

If you want people to take you seriously, you need to be educated on the topic. Read more, talk less. November 04, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/sundr3am on Aphobes be like... (also thanks to the person who tried to defend me)

Obviously what he said is kind of silly but seriously, guys. Going into his DM's to call him names? We're better than that. November 04, 2021 at 11:53PM

/u/CardsAlltheWayDown on What kind of Asexual are you? ♠🖤🖤🖤♠

Biaesthetic - I experience aesthetic attraction to both men and women, and some enbies Toric - Nonbinary attracted to men, I use this for my romantic orientation Aegosexual - An asexual microlabel where there is a disconnect between the person and their sexual thoughts. For instance, they might fantasize, but they themselves are excluded from it or the fantasy holds some degree of unrealism. Basically, aegos enjoy thinking about sexual situations, but generally have no desire to engage in them. ​ Nice to meet you too! November 04, 2021 at 11:53PM