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/u/dasspaceace on Your best responses to being catcalled as an ace

My Mum yelled back to one "I would be bored & you would be confused". August 24, 2022 at 12:20AM

People should not complain about ghosting

I decided to make the mature thing and send a guy I went on three dates a text explaining that I did not think we were compatible because he doesn’t give me enough attention. He left me on fucking read. The least he could have done is say good luck to you too. WTF now I wish I ghosted him. Submitted August 23, 2022 at 11:49PM I decided to make the mature thing and send a guy I went on three dates a text explaining that I did not think we were compatible because he doesn’t give me enough attention.He left me on fucking read. The least he could have done is say good luck to you too.WTF now I wish I ghosted him.

Does anyone think sometimes you see there real colors in dating after you reject them?

I went on three dates with a guy snd he tried to call me earlier so I texted him back just being saying that I wanted to be honest with him, that I didn’t really see a future/connection and I just wanted to be open and honest. I was trying to come up with the right words because yesterday he was telling how much he really liked me and going on so I felt i needed to be honest. After I told him that he goes well, I am not really looking for a relationship anyways and i know you girls need to be in one because your on the clock and thats not something i need to worry about. So I was still the bigger person and said Ok! Well I wish you the best!! But i felt like that was an attack towards me because I am 33? Like i dont know why it goes farther than it needs too! Submitted August 23, 2022 at 11:52PM I went on three dates with a guy snd he tried to call me earlier so I texted him back just being saying that I wanted to be honest with him, that I didn’t really see a future/connection ...

Should I cut my losses?

I (30M) recently met a girl (28F) through a mutual friend. We recently went on a date that started off as coffee, turned into dinner, and then we continued to chat into the evening until I dropped her off at her place. We hit it off really well and I got no impression that she wasn't interested in me. We've been texting each other the past few days, just flirting and laughing, but it was clear we both wanted to see each other again. We both have conflicting work schedules so finding time was proving to be difficult. She told me earlier this week that Tuesday was her day off indicating that she wanted to see me again. I made plans with her and we both seemed happy about it. So far no problems. Then Tuesday rolls around and I'm checking in with her throughout the day, seeing what she's up to and making chit chat up until a couple hours before I get off work. I sent her a text message asking if we're still on for tonight and wanted to know what time I could pick her u...

dating advice/my prob

M26. Single from almost 10 years. 10 years ago i dated for 3 months and it was my first relationship which didn't went well. I was truly happy that I had my 1st gf. I remember those days. But now I find it difficult to date. I don't socialize so I don't have many friends few they are busy. I'm an introvert, who wants to speak as little as possible. Upon that i'm not an native english speaker, all my collegues are I sometimes don't get accents.. some words just bounce over my head. So I can't get into the circle.. I worked at my work place for 7 minths I still feel like a outsider. I think i'm a good looking person. But I never got time to approach girls online/offline. I don't know how other guys approach girls and they get girls..getting girls in the sense i mean getting into relationship. Few friends who are always busy with work. No female friends, my phone is like a dummy. I get calls from my family that's it. I just read posts on reddit.....

Im burnt out. How do you get back into dating?

I (23m) am completely burnt out. Last year around this time, I went on a 2 month long business trip in a different country. My ex gf went to Vegas with her friends during this period. Without warning, she told me she wanted to take a break. She started posting pics on IG and Snap of her at clubs with other dudes. I knew she was trying to make it “okay” to cheat on me. I dumped her and never talked to her again since that day. Blocked on all social media. She texted me every month saying “I don’t know what I did wrong…I miss you…” blah blah blah. I’m not stupid. So I’ve been back into the dating scene for 8 or 9 months now and I’m just completely burnt out. It’s exhausting to have to talk to new people every night, ask the same questions, get the same responses. Im bored with it honestly. It’s not the thrill that it used to be. I just don’t care about dating. Another factor at play is I don’t want to be vulnerable. I do not handle heart breaks well. I was so down the few months afte...

/u/somanypcs on Went from Ace to Not Quite to fully Aspec...it's been a wild ride and I wasn't tall enough to get un but I'm alive

Nice! August 23, 2022 at 11:34PM