Then it sucks even more! It's a shame you don't remember. My life mission is being a little pesky imp that messages website owners and other people like that and educate them about asexuality. February 26, 2023 at 12:34AM

Sounds like a dysphoria-related challenge you are going through. I had a trans-ish (not explicitly identifying as trans but sharing much of the same trans lived experience) friend who described a similar feeling. Myself personally I am enby (male agender), and I care as much about my genitals about as I care about gender-identity, not at all either way. IMO organs are just a part of my body, they dont define my personality or interests or values. February 26, 2023 at 12:34AM

I’ve been talking to this guy for awhile now and we have gone on two dates. those two dates were truly amazing and he told me he likes me. he also told me he doesn’t want a hookup and that he’s done one before and it was not his thing. well here’s the problem- he acts very interested in me in person (very affectionate, sweet, touchy, thoughtful, etc. we literally act like gf/bf in person) but over text, he hardly pays attention to me. he will ignore my messages and text other people (his snapchat score goes up while i’m on delivered) so it has me very confused. before the first time we hung out, he was very flirty and would respond to me super quick over text, and now he doesn’t do that. even after the first date he was barely texting me, so when we hung out for a second time i was super surprised he was acting interested in me. i thought maybe i was getting friend zoned, but when he saw me he picked me up and kissed me and everything was normal. he goes to college almost 2 hours a...

I matched with this girl and we had a great connection. We met up and hit it off like natural. Had a great date, a kiss, hand hold etc. It seems though she is keeping me on a string. Like not letting me too close but then sorta is.. if that makes sense. I am being me and what I said was too much or not enough. She said she liked baby so I said it then I woke up to her being cold and weird and said I over used it..but I don't think I did. Then today we were going to hang out and she cancelled cause it was going to snow. But then turned out to not snow. She hasn't really talked much and seems distant not since that conversation. I want to ask whats up but I don't want to sound weird. And I sent a selfie and got not much back..so I am kinda like eh.. she's really my type and we connect but I am feeling kinda like she's wasting my time or not letting me in.. after we opened up on a lot of things already and said I was respecting her boundaries that many people did...

No shame, no judgement (they don't have to know) Submitted February 26, 2023 at 12:16AM No shame, no judgement (they don't have to know)

Omnisexual is not the same as Pan. Pan lacks preferences while Omni does. February 25, 2023 at 11:26PM