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My (20F) boyfriend (19M) comes from a Mexican, very machismo-oriented family (men don’t cry, cook, or clean - only women do), and he’s proud of his culture, as he should be, but it has definitely caused a lot of problems for him. He doesn’t know how to show emotions well and has spent a long time trying to break out of masculine stereotypes. A few months ago, I was painting my nails and jokingly asked if I could paint his toenails since they’re not visible (he only wears tennis shoes). He said yes and discovered he loves how it looks and makes him feel. He just asked me if we could do each others’ nails when I get home from work and I got the biggest grin on my face. I think it’s adorable and I love that he’s not stopping himself from something he enjoys, even though it’s considered very feminine. I love him so much and it’s a nice show of how much he’s progressed in his confidence Submitted March 06, 2020 at 12:04AM My (20F) boyfriend (19M) comes from a Mexican, very machismo-o...

So as a now 40M, it's only quite recently I've actually been 'dating', vs finding girlfriends from friend groups etc So far I've discovered I'm really not very good at it - in the last year and a half I've had a single mutual agreed second date (out of maybe 20+ total), though that didn't end up happening as neither of us were THAT into it, it seems. Pretty consistently I get 'no spark' if I do show some interest in a second date and other cases it's obvious that's the case. I'm not very good at "flirting" with people I don't know. I feel dates tend to be a bit too much just talking about our lives maybe - but never run out of things to chat about and generally I'm good at finding plenty of "connection". ​ Any other men been here and what did you do? Or, for anyone - any general dating tips for what makes you feel that 'spark'. (And yes I know it can be a bit hard to quantify, thus rounding ...

If pegging isnt gay then what about traps Submitted March 05, 2020 at 11:00PM If pegging isnt gay then what about traps

If a guy does something I don't like, then what is the best response? I feel very nervous about this because a guy doing something I dislike is my worst nightmare. But I have spoken to guys who are really into being dominant and it just freaks me out. I never told them I wanted to sub. But I kind of feel like I can't say no, because most men are much larger than I am. It's very intimidating... Submitted March 05, 2020 at 11:06PM If a guy does something I don't like, then what is the best response? I feel very nervous about this because a guy doing something I dislike is my worst nightmare.But I have spoken to guys who are really into being dominant and it just freaks me out. I never told them I wanted to sub.But I kind of feel like I can't say no, because most men are much larger than I am. It's very intimidating...

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TLDR below. Long time lurker that really appreciates this sub, sexually awakened people and mostly positive interactions/wholesome posts! Aaaaand a first time poster that wants some advice on TITLE situation. I tried googling, but couldn’t find anything helpful so here I am. Me and my girlfriend (1 year+ relationship) usually enjoy rough or semi-rough sex that includes me dominating her, tying her up and especially a lot of “jackhammering” (don’t particularly like that term) while we make love (fucking her balls deep really fast for a long period of tome). The sex is great and we both love it and in the future we want to experiment more. However whenever we do have rough (or at least not super slow) sex, she tends to make puddles of piss on the sheets. It doesn’t matter if she peed 5mins before foreplay, the puddle will still be there. It’s not like she can’t hold her bladder during daily activities. I don’t blame her since I can not imagine what it feels like to have a dick going ...

Me and my gf are in a well committed relationship for little less then a year. Myself (22M) her (20-21F) are looking at just some self discovery with each other and ig others too. I've had my fair share of partners in the past but shes new and basically only had me but wants to try new things. I definitely have my concerns with this but still open to the idea. If anyone has any advice I'd gratefully appreciate it. On a side note she also agreed to have a MFF 3some too and for all the people we've asked to join us we also are asking them to be tested as well as ourselves. Submitted March 05, 2020 at 11:16PM Me and my gf are in a well committed relationship for little less then a year. Myself (22M) her (20-21F) are looking at just some self discovery with each other and ig others too. I've had my fair share of partners in the past but shes new and basically only had me but wants to try new things. I definitely have my concerns with this but still open to the idea....

I feel a little silly, and not really as sexy as he thinks it looks but it's my boyfriend's favorite fantasy and I've started to indulge in it. His reactions and how turned on he is really make me feel amazing but I just can't imagine why it's THAT hot and sexy for him? Submitted March 05, 2020 at 11:17PM I feel a little silly, and not really as sexy as he thinks it looks but it's my boyfriend's favorite fantasy and I've started to indulge in it. His reactions and how turned on he is really make me feel amazing but I just can't imagine why it's THAT hot and sexy for him?

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I’m very new to it and have only done so three times up to now with my bf. The first time I was actually surprisingly completely fine and didn’t even gag at all as he lay down and I was knelt next to him. The second time he was sitting up more and I gagged very easily, it was more the taste then the actual dick itself but was a bit of both. Around his tip he was really salty and strange tasting while as the first time he had a little of this but now where near as much it just tasted cleaner and I’m not sure though if it’s just my mouth being overly sensitive to what is a natural taste. He was very understanding about me gagging and smiled and said he liked my enthusiasm and not to worry about it. I additionally too this struggle to make him come with my hands and mouth he’s up to now had to help me out and finish a little himself. Is there anything to help with this I’d love to be able to do what he does to me, he’s amazing and made me come three times in a row!!!! Submitted Mar...

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I need advice I’m a 36 yo Male I live alone in a building with 7 other apartments and all of the neighbours are nice there is one who is a caring person and would go above and beyond for her friend she is definitely my type but she is a hard woman to spend time with. I’d love to spend the night with her and show her a thing or two but I’m not sure how to broach the question she is around 10 years older then me and has a son too any advice or tips?? Submitted March 05, 2020 at 11:36PM I need advice I’m a 36 yo Male I live alone in a building with 7 other apartments and all of the neighbours are nice there is one who is a caring person and would go above and beyond for her friend she is definitely my type but she is a hard woman to spend time with. I’d love to spend the night with her and show her a thing or two but I’m not sure how to broach the question she is around 10 years older then me and has a son too any advice or tips??

Last week, my boyfriend of 5 months told me that he doesn't care whether or not we have sex. He's bi btw. I asked him if he was asexual but he said no. I'm trying to wrap my head around this but I can't understand what he means. If he isn't having sex with me, then where is he getting it from? It's stupid but I feel like he doesn't desire me sexually and I no longer feel attractive to him. However our sex life hasn't changed. He still seems like he's enjoying himself (he always ejaculates when we do it). And I still get orgasms. But it seems like he's doing this more out of obligation rather than actual desire. I have a higher sex drive than him btw. He's often said that he "cares about me immensely." He said that if there was a dial, with one end being sex and the other end making me happy, that it'd lean more towards the happy end. I've noticed that he follows quite a few lewd models on social media because "he li...

Throwaway account here so I don't get snooped on for sharing my question. Last week I messaged someone from reddit after a comment they made that I read on this sub thinking nothing more than it was gonna be a bit of messaging fun, however, one thing led to another and we happened to live in the same city in the UK and I was really intrigued! Especially by what he wrote in his comment, he seemed to know exactly what he was talking about. Half of me was thinking is this guy actually like this? Is he what he describes in his comment? Now I have met people off of tinder before but not on a whim like this. So fast forward through some private messaging on here and texting we met up for a drink at a local cafe place for the sake of meeting in a public opening at first, got chatting about a few kinks, likes and dislikes in the bedroom and finally got to his place and it was ON. And oh my god I have never been taken like that before in my life! I felt ravished unapologetically, it was j...

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Hey guys, So I met this guy online and he and I have been getting along really well, it's purely sexual, and we have exchanged nudes and discussed other things. He has the same kinks/interests as me and I really want to meet him, however I have 0 self confidence having been bullied through all of high school, and cannot cope very well with the idea of meeting up with him in person and him just rejecting me because I don't look like I do in the selfies I take. The only male attention I get is from creepy perverts randomly feeling me up or saying things and the odd kidnap attempt (only two). I feel really comfortable with this guy sexually, and trust him (the things I'm into require trust), but I can't overcome the fear of me being really unattractive to him. I look in the mirror and I like the way I look, I feel confident, but I hate seeing myself in any pictures, unless I take them. I cannot imagine what it would do to my already dodgy self esteem issues if he did re...

Pretty open in the bedroom any ideas to keep things interesting? Check out our videos and let me know xx Submitted March 05, 2020 at 11:45PM Pretty open in the bedroom any ideas to keep things interesting? Check out our videos and let me know xx

Like, I see so many guys who don’t use condoms in ltr’s their girlfriend is or isn’t on birth control. And they “pull-out”. I know condoms suck. Most of the feelings gone, but how can you like pulling out? I literally don’t get it? For me it’s one of the best parts of sex, I can’t imagine getting deep in, passionate fucking and then just stop and pull out and masturbate somewhere else. Plus when you cum your dick gets really sensitive and what better way to enjoy that sensitivity than your loves beautiful love tunnel. I mean it’s incredible. It’s good that you’re doing something to avoid pregnancy though. All I’m doing is eating my girlfriend out after I cum in her (she has an IUD lol). But push comes to shove, I would rather wear the dreaded condom than pull out. I just can’t do it. Submitted March 05, 2020 at 11:46PM Like, I see so many guys who don’t use condoms in ltr’s their girlfriend is or isn’t on birth control. And they “pull-out”.I know condoms suck. Most of the...

I (F18) love foreplay before sex so I'd love to add some special foreplay before giving my boyfriend head. I already do some but I want more ideas or tips to make my boyfriend even more excited for the act. I'd appreciate any advice from receiving or giving ends. Tysm :) Submitted March 05, 2020 at 11:47PM I (F18) love foreplay before sex so I'd love to add some special foreplay before giving my boyfriend head. I already do some but I want more ideas or tips to make my boyfriend even more excited for the act. I'd appreciate any advice from receiving or giving ends. Tysm :)

I want to try something extra cheesy with my gf before I plow her. Submitted March 05, 2020 at 11:50PM I want to try something extra cheesy with my gf before I plow her.

I feel like should start this out by mentioning I’m really shy and have a lot of difficulty opening up about some of my kinks/ fantasy’s. And I am probably totally overthinking this. I’ve been a friends/ flirty with this guy for about two years and we seem to be into a lot of the same things sexually but we’ve never actually hooked up. Recently things have heated up and we’ve been sending a lot more flirty messages and pictures and we may actually hook up this weekend. He knows that I really enjoy giving blowjobs but he doesn’t know that I have a bit of an oral fixation. Honestly the thought of being in bed watching Netflix and sucking his cock turns me on so much. Any tips/tricks/suggestions are greatly appreciated. Submitted March 05, 2020 at 11:52PM I feel like should start this out by mentioning I’m really shy and have a lot of difficulty opening up about some of my kinks/ fantasy’s. And I am probably totally overthinking this. I’ve been a friends/ flirty with this guy for a...