Do you think someone’s a red flag if they have too many internal issues? Submitted September 17, 2022 at 11:52PM Do you think someone’s a red flag if they have too many internal issues?

He ended things with me last week because he ‘noticed’ we wanted different things. I took it graciously and thanked him for his honesty. Last night, I was drunk and conjured up a message to just imagine sending it “not gonna lie miss the sex. Happy for no relationship or funny business”. But then surprise, i accidentally pressed the send button and off it went. Worst part, I haven’t got a response yet. Now I don’t actually want to be a fwb thing. The message was just a drunk thought, but I didn’t actually want to send it. I have 0 idea how to go on from here. I removed him from all my socials after we ended as well. Do I just leave it or do I apologise? Submitted September 17, 2022 at 11:53PM He ended things with me last week because he ‘noticed’ we wanted different things. I took it graciously and thanked him for his honesty. Last night, I was drunk and conjured up a message to just imagine sending it “not gonna lie miss the sex. Happy for no relationship or funny business”. B...

Met this girl in church. Had so much to talk about. But then she in the sense ask me out to join her and her friend for a movie. But due to military service I had to raincheck. Was told it’s okay next time. So a few days later I realised I was free so I asked her if they were free. No reply till now. And I didn’t spam. Fast forward apparently my cell leader got informed by the girl’s side cell leader. And told me not to be too on the ball and persistent? Also asked if I was open to a relationship and told me some girls are more shy or this is their first time. But damn like the convo was going so well that it’s now on my mind (two, coming to three weeks now) that this awkwardness hasn’t been solved. But tbh Dk if we ever can take things to another level. Especially so with how compulsory Military service has made studies push back two years behind her. So when I’m in University she’s probably long gone…but yeah that’s the long short. Now Dk if can even continue as friends. What ar...

Is she trying to let me down easy? Hi, I matched with a girl on Tinder the other day I’d like to meet. We have exchanged numbers and texted for a few days. I asked her if she wanted to go out sometime and she replied. ”Yes, I would really like that! But I have like zero time in my schedule until October”. Am I reading too much into this? Wouldnt she make time for me if she wanted to go on a date? What do I reply? Should I ask for a specific date? Submitted September 17, 2022 at 11:57PM Is she trying to let me down easy?Hi, I matched with a girl on Tinder the other day I’d like to meet. We have exchanged numbers and texted for a few days. I asked her if she wanted to go out sometime and she replied. ”Yes, I would really like that! But I have like zero time in my schedule until October”. Am I reading too much into this? Wouldnt she make time for me if she wanted to go on a date? What do I reply? Should I ask for a specific date?

Hello, I’m (f22) needing some help planning a movie date. I’m overthinking this and trying to plan this out to be perfect, I need some ideas. I have never done this before either. I’ve been kind of but not really seeing this guy (m24) for the past 2 months, nothing official and I have reserved tickets for us to see a movie this Saturday. We haven’t been able to go on an actual date and I’ve asked him to be available this weekend, but have not told him what we’re doing. He’s opened up to me about how in previous relationships he was the only one planning things and said people didn’t make him feel special. I never hear/see women planning dates and I haven’t been on a date since 2019 so I’m a bit lost. I know guys go to the girls house, knock on the door, and maybe bring flowers. Is that something okay to do or is it a bit weird? I think it’d be sweet, but what kind of flowers???Movie starts at 7:15pm and that’s all I have planned. I have a hard time eating out in public, however I can ...

Let’s say she paints or plays an instrument or can breakdance. Or would you find that threatening? Submitted September 18, 2022 at 12:14AM Let’s say she paints or plays an instrument or can breakdance. Or would you find that threatening?

USA, acceptance for anything lgbtq is hit or miss here but more than anything I think a lot of Americans don't know what being ace is or they don't think it's real. America is a pretty "provocative" place where lots of people are very open about their sex lives so much so people don't think it's possible to not want it. September 17, 2022 at 11:22PM