Ok so there is this girl in my class and I want to ask her out and I think she has a crush on me and might be losing interest but im worried if I ask her out now I won't see her all summer because I a going away and my last day of school is Friday. should I wait until the beginning of next year or should I ask her out now just call and text her over the summer if she says yes? Submitted June 10, 2021 at 12:15AM Ok so there is this girl in my class and I want to ask her out and I think she has a crush on me and might be losing interest but im worried if I ask her out now I won't see her all summer because I a going away and my last day of school is Friday. should I wait until the beginning of next year or should I ask her out now just call and text her over the summer if she says yes?

I'm allo and my relationship with my ace boyfriend has been one of the best I've had. Turns out that being understanding and respectful of someone from the start and having no intention of "fixing" or seducing them makes him really happy?? But yeh, such relationships are possible. So good luck, you'll find it. June 10, 2021 at 12:06AM

Made by SculptRenaissance on etsy :> June 10, 2021 at 12:05AM

awww cute! i wanna buy a flag i can hang over my bed, but i would have to come out ;_; June 10, 2021 at 12:05AM

Of course it is! It doesn’t matter how you look. June 09, 2021 at 11:58PM

I love it!!’ 😍🌈🖤 June 09, 2021 at 11:53PM

non-binary more specifically a crisis June 09, 2021 at 11:53PM

Link please!!! June 09, 2021 at 11:50PM

yes i definitely think i am asexual, i just don’t wanna get detached from being a lesbian, because indentifying as that is important to me and something i’m very comfortable with. thank you though! i will take a look at those (: June 09, 2021 at 11:47PM

thanks!! imma look that up :) June 09, 2021 at 11:44PM

the way you dress has nothing to do with the amount of sex you want or the amount you have. dress how you feel the most comfortable. if you like to look hot, go ahead!! it doesn't mean you want sex, it means you like that style and you feel happy and comfortable dressing like that 😊😊 June 09, 2021 at 11:43PM

I would color the whole bottom of the shoe to make it stand out more, not sure if your out yet, just throwing out an idea. June 09, 2021 at 11:40PM

The way you dress does not have any influence on your sexuality. Dress whatever way you want. It's nobody elses business beside you. If you wanna dress up in, i dunno, high heels and and a short skirt or show some cleavage or wear a lot of make up (just taking some stereotypes here) do that. You're gonna be fine :) Other peoples expectations of you should come from your actions and words, not from a piece of cloth in a certain shape. Just be you and be confident in who you feel you truly are <3 ​ EDIT: a word June 09, 2021 at 11:36PM

I Understand. And I think it's fine. I also like dressing up Cute (like cartoon or anime) Not the same, but i sorta understand. June 09, 2021 at 11:31PM

Thank you so much for this perfect design June 09, 2021 at 11:30PM

Absolutely. June 09, 2021 at 11:24PM

I sit there and observe them like animals in a zoo June 09, 2021 at 11:23PM

I had already told them what it meant but I wish I did say that I need to learn from you guys lol UPDATE: My Nana said to my Mom, "We can't take any more of her drama or we'll end up in the hospital!" June 09, 2021 at 11:14PM

Honestly i'm annoyed by mine. I have a fairly high libido and i frequently want it to just go away so i can focus on other things for a while. As other posters have said, a lack of a partner isn't a problem. I can get all the release i need on my own. It's just finding the time and privacy to make that happen that takes a while. June 09, 2021 at 11:13PM

Just tell them that the asexual flag represents a group of people who refrain from sex before marriage, just like the Good Lord intended. See how they try and argue their way out of that one June 09, 2021 at 11:13PM

That’s totally fine too! Physical and romantic attraction aren’t the same as sexual attraction, and it’s totally possible to have any combination for of different kinds of attractions. From what you’ve said so far, I would think you definitely fit the description of asexual, though ultimately it is up to you if you think the term asexual applies to you. With that said, back when I was struggling to decide if I was asexual, something I found really helpful we’re some of the resources linked to in this very subreddit. For example, there’s this page talking about what asexuality is in general, and especially this one that explains what sexual attraction even is. Before I read that second one, I didn’t really even know what sexual attraction was and how it was different from other types of attraction, which led to a whole lot of confusion. Hopefully they can help you too. June 09, 2021 at 11:10PM

I'm in the same situation, almost to the letter. When I talk on this sub, it's usually to draw attention to that distinction, actually. June 09, 2021 at 11:09PM

I think they're confusing transphobia with freely expressing you're in the community even though they do agree with that statement about sports n trans people🤦🏼‍♀️ Luckily I don't have to ride with them or see them if I choose not to and even if I should have to they'll probably mistake the chain for my air purifier since they don't look too closely at my necklaces anymore June 09, 2021 at 11:07PM