It was added in early July August 14, 2020 at 12:03AM

“We goin to da moon cuz u allos couldn’t behave” August 14, 2020 at 12:03AM

Can you imagine introducing yourself as female and someone saying "but have you had your hormones checked?". They didn't say being female was a problem. They didn't ask your opinion. They just told you basic information about themselves. Now imagine you get asked about your hormones every.single.time you introduce yourself. Especially in something as vulnerable and personal as being asexual. August 14, 2020 at 12:03AM

Trans women are women, pass it on. August 14, 2020 at 12:01AM

So would you say you have gyno attraction with aesthetic platonic and sensual stuff if you don't mind me asking? August 14, 2020 at 12:00AM

I totally understand where your coming from. I had the same though process when i initially identified as ace. August 13, 2020 at 11:59PM

I had the same reasoning when i finally realised i was ace. I decided to do full bloodwork to see if i was not low on my sex hormones or something. Turns out i was 100% fine and was really just not interested in sex. I can understand the persons reasoning. But to call this aphobia might be pushing it a little. August 13, 2020 at 11:56PM

Yay! Glad to help! August 13, 2020 at 11:56PM

As a more sex neutral, or even slightly sex positive, ace, it depends on the specifics of the conversation. If it’s personal views, I can at least contribute with aesthetic attraction. If it’s regarding experience, I’ve got nothing and really don’t even try to participate. If it’s about kinks/fetishes, I can actually contribute a fair bit. For whatever reason, I’m fairly knowledgeable on them despite having absolutely zero interest in them. And if it’s sexual jokes, I have absolutely no problem with them and can even be the one initiating. With all of the euphemisms, it’s an absolute gold mine for wordplay. August 13, 2020 at 11:55PM

You just want to live a quiet life August 13, 2020 at 11:54PM

Wow! That’s exactly how I feel too!! Except for me, I don’t get crushes very often and my crushes on girls stay for like 6-9 months I would say but for guys it gets less intense after maybe 3 months. August 13, 2020 at 11:52PM

Me too, I can 100% recommend it to everyone. Honestly just watch all of Edgar Wright, I can't think of a single movie he has made that I would call bad. August 13, 2020 at 11:49PM

i’m not aromantic (at least not to my knowledge) but most of the time i hate romance in media or between other people for some reason. When it’s between me and my boyfriend, it’s great! But when i see it in stories or people out in public it just seems so unnecessary and gross. (less gross with people out in public but i can’t stand it in media) Maybe i am on the aromantic spectrum, who knows but i totally understand where you’re coming from! :) August 13, 2020 at 11:49PM

AAAAA! THIS is exactly what I was looking for! Thank you! Lately I've been feeling a lot of instances of aesthetic attraction towards women and nonbinary peeps. Previously I was "into" males and masc. trans people. I don't know why it switched. August 13, 2020 at 11:48PM

Yeah, if the situation's pretty calm I do that too. It's pretty weird, because they don't know I'm aroace, so they must be as confused as me in those moments, ahah August 13, 2020 at 11:44PM

Legit. I wouldn't say my love language is gift gifting in general, but when people buy me little trinkets randomly that they just say reminded them of me? Literally the best thing ever. Like, I just occurred to you? You just thought of me without prompting? Mind blowing. August 13, 2020 at 11:44PM

I have so many questions August 13, 2020 at 11:44PM

I do that when my friends go into detail and explain things August 13, 2020 at 11:44PM

Nah I just get really embarrassed and start saying things like " WHY " August 13, 2020 at 11:43PM

I realised i was AroAce 6 months ago. Coincidentally it was around the start of Aromantic spectrum awareness week August 13, 2020 at 11:42PM

People who didn't do a traditional wedding or a celebration, did you or your spouse regret it later? How did your families/parents react? Was there drama, or did things turn out better than expected? Submitted August 13, 2020 at 11:48PM People who didn't do a traditional wedding or a celebration, did you or your spouse regret it later? How did your families/parents react? Was there drama, or did things turn out better than expected?

https://ift.tt/33ZcIrs Submitted August 13, 2020 at 11:59PM https://ift.tt/33ZcIrs

She's 29 and I'm 30. Dating for 3 months and officially exclusive for 2-3 weeks. This week she's either shown me some SERIOUS red flags, or I'm overreacting. 1.) We had a date night scheduled for friday, which we set up last sunday. Yesterday she cancelled and asked to reschedule for saturday. This was fine, but she didn't tell me why she needed to reschedule, and when I said "yeah that's fine. everything cool?" She responded saying she "forgot" that she had told her sister she would babysit for her friday. This is already a little bit sketchy to me, but on top of that, this is a woman who TOLD ME she writes everything down on her calendar. So she really forgot completely AND didn't see it on her calendar from sunday all the way to wednesday? Not impossible, but seemed unlikely to me. 2.) After the rescheduling yesterday, she sent me a snap a couple hours later. I responded to the snap saying something that (I thought) was funny, an