About 6 days ago (Friday) at night, I masturbated and when I finished I was still like aroused, as in I wanted to masturbate more, but I didn’t. The next day I felt like masturbating and I did, but only to find I was still aroused after that. This kept going on until I started panicking, like why can’t I satisfy myself? So I drank super heavy in the hopes maybe this could help? The next day, which was Monday I still had those feelings. It’s now Thursday and I’ve stopped masturbating for two days, still with the same feelings. What the hell do I do? If I masturbate I’m still aroused after finishing and if I don’t masturbate I’m still aroused. I’m starting to get blue balls and it’s really freaking me out... anyone experience this ev Submitted April 02, 2020 at 11:52PM About 6 days ago (Friday) at night, I masturbated and when I finished I was still like aroused, as in I wanted to masturbate more, but I didn’t. The next day I felt like masturbating and I did, but only to find I wa...

Especially since now everyone is trapped with their family, how would you use a wand discreetly? Submitted April 02, 2020 at 11:53PM Especially since now everyone is trapped with their family, how would you use a wand discreetly?

Hi, I keep kegelling and holding my pelvic floor muscles during masturbation to get a hard on and as a result I feel like I cum way too fast. If I try to relax them and masturbate, my erection isn’t as strong and I just find it difficult to not kegel at that time. How do I get over this? It’s frustrating finishing to fast Thanks Submitted April 02, 2020 at 11:55PM Hi,I keep kegelling and holding my pelvic floor muscles during masturbation to get a hard on and as a result I feel like I cum way too fast.If I try to relax them and masturbate, my erection isn’t as strong and I just find it difficult to not kegel at that time.How do I get over this? It’s frustrating finishing to fastThanks

Sorry for so many posts, I have a little more down-time than usual, lol..... So my question is in regards to being being walked in in or interrupted during sex with their SO? We have 4 kids and a very healthy and active sex life so there were many times over the years we’ve been “caught” by a kid or two, lol. We are lucky enough to have a big enough house where we aren’t living in top of each other (no pun intended lol) but we haven’t always been so lucky as to go unscathed. Once, we were in the pool outback doing some skinny dipping. We thought we were “safe”‘because it was pretty late and everyone was settled for night but we didn’t anticipate our oldest coming home early with a small group of friends for a late night swim. Oooppssss!! We had to hear about that one for a while!! What are some funny (or not so funny) stories of getting “walked in on”. Go.....!! Submitted April 02, 2020 at 11:57PM Sorry for so many posts, I have a little more down-time than usual, lol.....So ...

So I have a question. Long dildos and slinks aren’t they harmful? I’ve watched a lot of porn in those categories lately but it got me wondering; if you insert it anally, won’t it eventually reach the colon? And if it does, isn’t that a very bad thing? You can sometimes even see them poke “out” from the girls’ stomach! That’s not safe is it? I know most pornstars are very trained, especially if they do a lot of anal stuff. I just want to make sure they are okay, and see if it’s safe enough for me to try one day... help please :) Submitted April 03, 2020 at 12:16AM So I have a question. Long dildos and slinks aren’t they harmful?I’ve watched a lot of porn in those categories lately but it got me wondering; if you insert it anally, won’t it eventually reach the colon? And if it does, isn’t that a very bad thing?You can sometimes even see them poke “out” from the girls’ stomach! That’s not safe is it? I know most pornstars are very trained, especially if they do a lot of anal stuf...

I have been seeing my girlfriend way less then usual. We’ve tried masturbating both at the same time trough FaceTime. Although we’ve both found it hot. I’m quite self conscious about how I’m looking in video, and it ends up ruining it for myself. I wanted to expel this feeling by at least knowing what the general public thinks about recordings of masturbation. So: What are your preferences in seeing a male masturbate on camera (eg: angles and stuff) Submitted April 03, 2020 at 12:19AM I have been seeing my girlfriend way less then usual. We’ve tried masturbating both at the same time trough FaceTime. Although we’ve both found it hot. I’m quite self conscious about how I’m looking in video, and it ends up ruining it for myself. I wanted to expel this feeling by at least knowing what the general public thinks about recordings of masturbation. So:What are your preferences in seeing a male masturbate on camera (eg: angles and stuff)

Before I got pregnant in 2017, I had a relatively normal to low sex drive. But once I got pregnant, my sex drive went through the roof. Even though my child is 2ish years old now, my sex drive continues to be at the same level, if not even higher. I have noticed a frequency of sex dreams where I will have orgasms in my sleep. The past three nights I've had this occur, which is unusual even for my history of sex dreams. Hormones are good, and I'm chronically ill, so I shouldn't have this high of sex drive. I usually have sex 2-4 times a month with my husband, maybe more than that. But that doesn't satiate me. Has anyone else had this happen to them? The only thing I can think of is being pregnant did something permanent to my body. How do I work with this? It's not that I don't like it...I do. I just feel like I might be somewhat out of control with my thoughts. Submitted April 03, 2020 at 12:23AM Before I got pregnant in 2017, I had a relatively normal t...

get the purpose of deliberately misinterpreting the request, but sending a pic of a dead animal is pretty creepy. April 03, 2020 at 12:28AM

When people say you're not old enough to know, as if they found out they were straight only once they were twenty. April 03, 2020 at 12:17AM

I hate men, as a man, a bi one at that. April 03, 2020 at 12:14AM

also sensual attraction! April 03, 2020 at 12:11AM

I’ll be back mark my words! April 03, 2020 at 12:11AM

...or you're also kinky and into it, no allo bro~ April 03, 2020 at 12:09AM

That's kind of what I am experiencing too! I considered myself straight for a long time but now I'm not so sure. It's only been a few days since I told myself I might be aro/ace but even now I'm still confused. Like you, I was mainly attracted to one gender, guys (rarely to girls) but it was more of an aesthetic attraction or something like that. I never experienced a full crush or sexual attraction yet. I'm 20 with no experience, the thought of having sex with someone doesn't disgust me, in fact I'm curious about it but I really can't see myself doing that I guess? I was (am) always waiting for the moment I'll stop being a "child" and be a grown-up that have the need to have sex with a partner So yeah, I can relate to some of what you experienced and that's kind of a relief for me. I really don't know where I stand under the aro ace umbrella yet but it's nice to see someone like me April 03, 2020 at 12:07AM

I'd say, in ascending importance: -acts of service (gifts kinda go here) -physical touch -quality time (words of affirmation kinda go here) I def couldn't date someone who was touch-averse or couldn't put up with my skewed ideas of what "quality time" looks like :/ April 03, 2020 at 12:07AM

Maybe it's like...they can imagine how a situation might be perceived sexually, even if it isn't? It's very unclear.... Honestly that kinda just sounds like normal social awareness and not anything to do with orientation tho._. April 03, 2020 at 12:01AM

To me, If you really want to talk with her, try becoming friends first by sparking a conversation or asking questions about thing you share etc. if you two are already friends with one another just try not to rush anything and be as casual as you can. Make sure she knows that she has a friend before she has a partner. Besides that I really wish you the best of luck dude. April 02, 2020 at 11:58PM

This doesn't sound like it has to do with being trans This doesn't even particularly sound like it has to do with being asexual It sounds like you have a phobia. Unpacking your phobia doesn't mean that you will then have to enjoy sex or drugs or any of that shit if you still don't want to. But it does mean that you'll hopefully get to the point where your distaste for these activities will stop eating away at the rest of your life. I'm willing to talk in PM ofc as (foremost) an asexual who will not just tell you that sex is "normal" but also as someone who has seen friends' lives be corroded by phobias and then come back when they get the mental help they need. I can also potentially help with strategies to screen therapists to find ones who take asexuality seriously. edit: oh also pls don't kill yourself, there're hotlines (the Trevor project even explicitly supports ace identities) and forums for help in dire times. Again, from exper...

Here! Still slightly questioning myself with it though... pretty sure I am but I’ve had two sexual relationships and I did have a sexual attraction to them at first but overtime I lost that and grew a strong romantic attraction to them. Ultimately me never wanting to have sex with them hardly ever (with the first about a year went by without me feeling any sexual attraction towards her) ruined the relationships. It was devastating and until pretty recently I had the thought “it’s all my fault, what’s wrong with me? Why didn’t I ever want to have sex with them? “ etc. that was all with in the past few years and it took a toll on my mental health. I haven’t come out publicly and still am questioning if I’m 100% asexual or not, but pretty sure I am. This feels kind of relieving knowing I’m not the only guy in this community, since men are stereotyped as horn dogs wanting to fuck anything that moves lol. I’m glad after those bad experiences I discovered what asexuality is and hopefully in...

Damn, maybe I should something similar next time a guy dms me a pic of his bulge. April 02, 2020 at 11:38PM

Cupioromantic is a very real and very valid term much like grayromantic. It's reasonable to want to be able to feel those feelings of love or desire to have someone to care about, even if ultimately it's just not you. April 02, 2020 at 11:38PM

If it’s making you uncomfortable then I wouldn’t consider it normal or healthy Not to entirely disagree with you, but there are definitely normal, healthy physiological processes that can still feel uncomfortable while we adjust to them, so it's not quite as clear-cut as "if you don't like it now, see if you can return to what you're used to"... April 02, 2020 at 11:35PM

I really like this guy. I’m 35 he’s 45, we’re both working professionals. I like him a lot, we met a few time through work and been messaging for about two weeks. He’s great and I’d love to go out with him, but we had to put proper dating on hold because of the pandemic. Anyway, he kinda slowed down with his messages and stopped messaging first a couple of days ago. I’m anxious because it happened to me so many times before and I never know what it means and how to react. Does it mean he’s busy with work? He lost interest? He really doesn’t have time? Is he just being used to me messaging more? On a scale of 1 to 10 how bad would it be to ask him what’s up, if the distance keeping has only been going on for 3 days yet? Please help, I’m very immature. Thanks. Submitted April 02, 2020 at 11:33PM I really like this guy. I’m 35 he’s 45, we’re both working professionals. I like him a lot, we met a few time through work and been messaging for about two weeks. He’s great and I’d lov...