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My 48M fiancé 46F was looking up past ex’s on FB.

This will be short. We both have some insecurity and jealousy issues and have some rather tight boundaries. It works for us. It’s a very long story but I knew one of her ex’s many years ago from college. I have a high level of disdain for him. It makes me sick to think she was with him. She jokes she can’t say his name around me. Anyway, we hit a rough patch recently. She confessed she thought of breaking up with me. Things seemed better recently. I happen to go on her computer to look something up on FB. She says I can look at her phone or whatever anytime so I’m not doing anything wrong. I see in her search history 2 ex bfs including the one I have big issues with and also a former “best friend “ guy. It’s in my head what her motivation is. Do I ask her about it or I’m I over reacting? Tldr - gf is looking up past ex’s. Not sure if I should ask her about it or am I over reacting. Submitted May 30, 2020 at 12:17AM This will be short. We both have some insecurity and jealousy...

Sliding into dm

Hi What the best way to slide into a girls dm who’s interested in fitness, cycling etc Thanks in advance Submitted May 29, 2020 at 11:51PM Hi What the best way to slide into a girls dm who’s interested in fitness, cycling etcThanks in advance

Inspiring Curiosity?

I have been seeing someone for 5 or so weeks, lots of online 'dates' due covid stuff and now a couple in person. I have noticed though that he rarely asks me questions. He seems like a nice guy but I can't figure this out. Do I bring it up? How do I bring it up? Or is it just a sign that he doesn't care to get to know me since he isn't curious? Thanks in advance... Submitted May 29, 2020 at 11:57PM I have been seeing someone for 5 or so weeks, lots of online 'dates' due covid stuff and now a couple in person. I have noticed though that he rarely asks me questions. He seems like a nice guy but I can't figure this out. Do I bring it up? How do I bring it up? Or is it just a sign that he doesn't care to get to know me since he isn't curious? Thanks in advance...

I Met My Long Distance Girlfriend from Scotland for the First Time (Video)

Glenn (from LA) had the opportunity to visit me for the first time after talking to each other online for almost two years. Ever since meeting online, we have been talking for hours almost everyday. He managed to spend Christmas, New Year's, and my 18th Debut with me. Being in a long distance relationship is really hard, but we are determined to stay strong. We are tested and doubted every day, but we still prove to each other that it’s worth it. That is what makes the relationship so special. Distance is just an obstacle that we both can overcome and we are truly blessed to have each other. Here is my first video how it all started : Please Like, Comment, Subscribe and share to follow our journey! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m054YkaM_Tk&t=113s ​ How would you sustain a LDR? Submitted May 30, 2020 at 12:14AM Glenn (from LA) had the opportunity to visit me for the first time after talking to each other online for almost two years. Ever since meeting online, we h...

/u/Flyaway_Prizm on Maya is going around to LGBT subreddits to remind you that you're valid and need to love yourself!!!!

Naw, my self esteem is fine. I can definitely get behind the doggo superhero, though. May 29, 2020 at 11:53PM

/u/RinebooDersh on Maya is going around to LGBT subreddits to remind you that you're valid and need to love yourself!!!!

Preach! May 29, 2020 at 11:49PM

/u/_EitanDaisy1016_ on Only just found out what I am today and I've made a thing to celebrate.

Congrats on figuring yourself out! Love the flag. Mind if I use it as inspiration for my island flag?? May 29, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/NintendoLasagna on Maya is going around to LGBT subreddits to remind you that you're valid and need to love yourself!!!!

👏All👏Doggos👏Are👏Valid👏 May 29, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/RinebooDersh on Maya is going around to LGBT subreddits to remind you that you're valid and need to love yourself!!!!

Maya is valid May 29, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/gypsyfeather on Hello- I’m a baby witch and I found out this is my card, this is very ironic

That’s very neat. May 29, 2020 at 11:43PM

/u/IsaactheRyan on Subtle pride flags: ace

No sexual stuff? Count me in May 29, 2020 at 11:43PM

/u/upvoteskitties16 on My newest one

I have this shirt too! Nice! May 29, 2020 at 11:38PM

/u/sail4sea on My newest one

I almost thought it was a face mask May 29, 2020 at 11:36PM

/u/NintendoLasagna on Maya is going around to LGBT subreddits to remind you that you're valid and need to love yourself!!!!

<3 May 29, 2020 at 11:33PM

/u/WaywardMasquerade on Maya is going around to LGBT subreddits to remind you that you're valid and need to love yourself!!!!

<3 May 29, 2020 at 11:32PM

/u/stitchitch on Subtle pride flags: ace

Are these specific cities? May 29, 2020 at 11:31PM

/u/nousertouse on Story Time: Just want to get it out there

Thanks for sharing your story! It was a nice read and I'm glad you know who you are and what you want! You do you and be happy! That's all we ever want for ourselves and others. :) May 29, 2020 at 11:21PM

/u/Anor-Vir on Rainbow Nebulae is the name of my first book. It is a Sci-fi novel, where the two main characters are non-binary and ace, focused on their daily lives as black market smugglers and the development of their quasi-platonic relationship as they help each other overcome their traumatic pasts. Chapter1-3

Thank you! I'll be happy to hear what you think of it~ May 29, 2020 at 11:08PM

Counseling recommendations in Seattle/Bellevue area

Long shot to ask - but anyone is from that neighborhood and have any recommendations for counseling? Thanks! Submitted May 29, 2020 at 11:56PM Long shot to ask - but anyone is from that neighborhood and have any recommendations for counseling? Thanks!

Friend of mine recently became friends with a Nice Guy - things escalated quickly

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This kids looks 14

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I got called a “bad boy” for having tattoos?

Is this a thing? I am widowed and still tentative about the whole dating thing. Socially distanced dating is weird and wild. Chatting with a guy and mention that I have tattoos. He starts telling me what a bad boy vibe I have going on. Friend. I have a collection of cardigans to rival Mr Rogers and was officially declared to be Grandpa Friend at 25. My tattoos are religious and literary. I spend 20 minutes a day in prayer in meditation and only eat ethically raised meat. I can’t watch Frozen 2 without getting into Sami mythology and then similarities of pan arctic mythology and then a story about Siberian reindeer herders in the 60s and then a discussion about Stalin era law and... look, I am giant nerd. Maybe it’s a region thing? Re: social distancing, i am in a coastal metropolis and he is in the Midwest. But most people I know have a tattoo or eight. Submitted May 29, 2020 at 11:39PM Is this a thing?I am widowed and still tentative about the whole dating thing. Socially d...

Love and Chemistry

36(f) I was thinking back about the last few times I felt excited about someone, sometimes it’s hard to explain. The topics we talked about were interesting but not exponentially more interesting than what I would talk about politely at a party or work event. There was some physical attraction but it wasn’t like they were a lot more attractive then average either. It’s a mixture of all these things. What was it that makes you fall head over heels for someone ? Submitted May 30, 2020 at 12:03AM 36(f) I was thinking back about the last few times I felt excited about someone, sometimes it’s hard to explain. The topics we talked about were interesting but not exponentially more interesting than what I would talk about politely at a party or work event. There was some physical attraction but it wasn’t like they were a lot more attractive then average either. It’s a mixture of all these things. What was it that makes you fall head over heels for someone ?