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Is it too soon to ask to hang out again?

I (20f) went out this guy last night and I really enjoyed his company. It was a nice evening and I definitely felt some chemistry. I'm a very nonchalant person and wanted to ask him to hang out again today but I dont wanna seem like I'm coming off to strong. I figure were both adults and there should be no shame in asking him to hangout again if we both had a good time the night before, especially because hes leaving back to school in 10 days. Should I just ask him? Btw last night was more of a date and today I'd hope it would be more of a casual hangout. Submitted July 24, 2019 at 11:36PM I (20f) went out this guy last night and I really enjoyed his company. It was a nice evening and I definitely felt some chemistry. I'm a very nonchalant person and wanted to ask him to hang out again today but I dont wanna seem like I'm coming off to strong. I figure were both adults and there should be no shame in asking him to hangout again if we both had a good time th...

Should I ask my crush out? Please read below for info. I know it's long.

Here's the details: We're both in high school, I'm a junior she's a senior. We're both involved in theatre and we hang with the same people. Note that I typically hang out with the guys in the group while she hangs out with the girls so we don't really talk one on one but we do see each other. Her friends have spoken to me and told me that she thinks my body is hot and encouraged me to ask her out. However, she doesn't really seem to like me despite what her friends tell me. Is that her way of playing hard to get or something? Anyway, I also struggle with my self-image, so I don't know if I am that good looking. People have told me I am but I don't know if they're being nice or honest. She on the other hand is gorgeous, so I don't know if I am in her league. So should I ask her out now? Get to know her better ( and risk someone else asking her) then ask her out? Or just bottle my feelings up and forget it? Submitted July 24, 2019 at 11:3...

Was I justified in ghosting in this situation?

I started talking to a guy for a couple of weeks. I like to talk to guys for a while (I'm 24f) before I make a date with them to make sure they're not psychos. Well I'm a virgin and sometimes I tell guys this ahead of time if the conversation calls for it. It's not for religious reasons but I've wanted to wait until I've met the right person. I warn guys sometimes before I even meet them to make it's something they're comfortable with and so neither of our time is wasted. Well, I was talking to this guy for a couple of weeks and we seemed to get along pretty well and than I mentioned I was a virgin. The dude had a super harsh reaction. He also started interrogating me how often I shaved and I was honest and said I don't always when I have no reason too. (Like if it's winter, I might go a while without doing it if I'm not dating someone and working out at home. Like who would care?) And he said there would be an attraction issue and stopped t...

How to transition into hanging outside of work with a guy I like?

I (F, 20) work as a camp counselor and I like the guy (M, 22) who is subbing in as my co-counselor. We talk sometimes and he's really nice and we have common interests but he's just generally so sweet. My problem is that I've always had issues hanging out with people outside of work or school, even just as friends; I get nervous about the change in dynamic between a group setting and being one-on-one. (Probably relevant-- I have anxiety adhd and depression). I'm getting anxious bc I don't know how long he's gonna be subbing and even if he's here for the rest of the time we're working, it's not that long and I'm already starting to like him a lot (which is a problem in and of itself but thats another issue). So, basically I need help figuring out how to gauge his interest, and initiate something to hang out with him outside of work. I really like him, please give me some good advice. Submitted July 24, 2019 at 11:43PM I (F, 20) work as a ...

Am I over thinking this?

I (24M) have been talking to this woman (27F) for about a month. We’ve gone on two dates and it seemed to be going great. But last week she cancelled two dates with me and said she won’t be able to see me this week. Normally I’d take that as a sign and just move on. But each time she’s cancelled it’s been because of her kid, an 18 month old. The first time her sitter was late, the second time her kid got sick and this week she can’t find a sitter. I don’t mind dating someone with a child, and I’ve always wanted to be a dad so if it ever got that far I wouldn’t mind it. But lately I’ve heard from her less and seen her less. Should I be worried or no? Submitted July 24, 2019 at 11:46PM I (24M) have been talking to this woman (27F) for about a month. We’ve gone on two dates and it seemed to be going great. But last week she cancelled two dates with me and said she won’t be able to see me this week.Normally I’d take that as a sign and just move on. But each time she’s cancelled it...

She (18f) said that she likes me (18m)

So I've been hanging out with this girl for a few weeks and I wasn't sure about her feelings for me since I don't pick up on social cues (I'm autistic). I thought she was distancing herself recently so, as a last resort, I asked her about her feelings and she told me that she likes me! ​ Now she wants to meet on saturday and I'm super anxious. Any advice to avoid screwing it up? ​ TL;DR : I like a girl who likes me too. She wants to meet and I want to die. How to deal with this ? Submitted July 24, 2019 at 11:47PM So I've been hanging out with this girl for a few weeks and I wasn't sure about her feelings for me since I don't pick up on social cues (I'm autistic). I thought she was distancing herself recently so, as a last resort, I asked her about her feelings and she told me that she likes me!​Now she wants to meet on saturday and I'm super anxious. Any advice to avoid screwing it up?​TL;DR : I like a girl who likes me too. She wants...

My best friend and I (both 23M) are going on a double date and neither of us have been on one before.

I’ve been talking to this girl (19 F) for a little bit but still getting to know each other and she really wants her friend (19 F) to connect with mine. Any advice on what to talk about and how to act when we’ve never been on a double date before and I really like this girl but I think her friend doesn’t like me? Submitted July 24, 2019 at 11:52PM I’ve been talking to this girl (19 F) for a little bit but still getting to know each other and she really wants her friend (19 F) to connect with mine. Any advice on what to talk about and how to act when we’ve never been on a double date before and I really like this girl but I think her friend doesn’t like me?

I don’t know what I should do argghhhhh, please help .

Hello my fellow redditors, summer has just arrived and I’m in a bit of a sticky situation. Before school finished I kind of sorted of got to know this girl. Before knowing her I sensed her looking at me on more than one occasion (like a week beforehand) I didn’t really get why. Anyhoo, when we actually spoke for the little while we did she kept laughing and giggling and the conversation flowed great. As I got home I followed her on insta and got followed back, I was wanting to talk to her then and there but I felt too shy and so I left it. Later, at a party I spoke to the girl a bit more, same way as last time, and again some laughs, but I wanted to, “play it cool” and didn’t want to seem like a desperate creep so after a while I kind of just left it. This girl has had like a FWB with her ex and during the party, she was making out with him, which made me think she was still interested in him...? It’s been 1-2 weeks now and I’ve been itching to ask if she would like to hang out over t...

That really sad moment when your dad has a lady to text and you got ghosted cause your crippling anxiety makes you make really dumb decisions...

No text found Submitted July 24, 2019 at 11:54PM No text found

Polyamory Problem. Primary Partner (28F) doesn't like Potential Boyfriend (24M) that I'd(29F) like to date

My situation is about my primary partner and a guy I'd like to potentially date. OK so Primary Partner, Potential BF and I all dated as a triad for 4-5 months but my primary and I have very different tastes in people and while I had chemistry with him, she didn’t. We broke it off with him because of these differences. Months later primary decided to change our dynamic and trying being in an open relationship instead of looking for a third to complete us. The change has been a bit hard for me to settle into. Potential BF and I got back in contact with each other. And it’s even more evident that we have a lot of chemistry and the traits that my partner found undesirable weren’t as big of a deal for me. We started with just a friendly catch up, then mild flirting and the like for almost 2-3 weeks and we agreed to go on a date. The date itself was a bit of a flop but he listened to my concerns with grace and didn’t push when I said we wouldn’t be in contact again. The problem is ...

My 19 y/o gf still busy with snapstreaks

Is it weird I find it childish Submitted July 25, 2019 at 12:08AM Is it weird I find it childish

What to do for a friendly outing?

Okay, so, I would like to eventually ask a coworker of mine out somewhere. We've known each other for about a month so I wouldn't call what I want to do a date since I've pretty much come to like his personality and his mature yet playful demeanor. This outing of sorts would just be for us to get to know each other more. Our work shifts are, sadly, too different for us to REALLY talk to one another and I think some sort of outing would help, you know? Where we live there are way too many restaurants and not many adult activities to pursue. My original idea was to ask him if he'd want to have lunch and or go to this beautiful park near our workplace but I recall him saying he wasn't an outside person, so... I haven't had the (lady) balls yet to ask for his number, either...my social awkwardness gets the better of me sometimes. Guy: 23 Me, female: 19 If any other information is needed please go ahead and ask! This is my first time on Reddit so please be gent...

She (19F) said she would date me (19M), but ignores me when I ask her if she’d like to hangout

There’s this girl I’ve been very attracted to for quite some time, however she was in a relationship. While she was in her relationship we still kept in contact as friends. Recently she broke up with her boyfriend and we’ve been talking even more. Last night we were texting and she told me that she would definitely date me. So tonight I took the initiative and asked if she would like to get dinner together one night, and she opened the message and didn’t reply. Did I ask her out on a date too quick? Should I panic? Thanks! Submitted July 25, 2019 at 12:11AM There’s this girl I’ve been very attracted to for quite some time, however she was in a relationship. While she was in her relationship we still kept in contact as friends. Recently she broke up with her boyfriend and we’ve been talking even more. Last night we were texting and she told me that she would definitely date me. So tonight I took the initiative and asked if she would like to get dinner together one night, and she ...

What does this compliment mean?

This friend of my coworker just said to me “you should smile more!” whilst I was walking by her (I’ve only met her once before). Either i’m good at noticing that she was flirting with me or i’m just dumb lol Submitted July 25, 2019 at 12:11AM This friend of my coworker just said to me “you should smile more!” whilst I was walking by her (I’ve only met her once before).Either i’m good at noticing that she was flirting with me or i’m just dumb lol

What is worst? Being short or being ignored by your lover. Being short is kind of crime in our society especially in the love field. People always makes jokes.90 percent girls don't look at you.You will get rejected maximum times.Life will be sucked.Its fucking not okay, it's hurtful.

No text found Submitted July 24, 2019 at 11:23PM No text found

Neckbeard pours his heart out to a Twitch thot

https://ift.tt/2LBYjJh Submitted July 23, 2019 at 04:40PM https://ift.tt/2LBYjJh

Sure sounds like an awesome personality!

https://ift.tt/2Z9kIAN Submitted July 24, 2019 at 11:20PM https://ift.tt/2Z9kIAN

This conversation felt neverending, and by the time it was done I felt just as crazy as he sounded

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Bruh.

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Told him I wasn’t into feet stuff and I wasn’t interested... lol

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The current UK PM of the nice club at the moment.

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/u/Eudemon on I can already see people offering this as a "cure" for us (◔_◔)

This could be the new meme for us, instead of eating cake. lol July 25, 2019 at 12:00AM

/u/Alex_Candlestick on I can already see people offering this as a "cure" for us (◔_◔)

I mean I’d rather eat some almonds than have sex. July 24, 2019 at 11:56PM