I 23F have been seeing this guy 29M for 2 months now. So far it’s been good & we’ve done a lot of stuff together. He has really been putting in a lot of effort into me and taking me places, spending on me and spending lots of time with me. I wanted to plan something for him or take him out on a date or something. Men , what are some things you would like a woman to do for you that you think all men would love? I thought of a sunset picnic where we can eat, play games to get to know each other more & paint together . I also thought of just taking him out to eat … This weekend I’m giving him a massage, facial and I’m gonna make him dinner. Any ideas please??? Submitted August 31, 2022 at 12:10AM I 23F have been seeing this guy 29M for 2 months now. So far it’s been good & we’ve done a lot of stuff together. He has really been putting in a lot of effort into me and taking me places, spending on me and spending lots of time with me. I wanted to plan something for him or ...

so basically i’ve been talking to this woman for a couple of weeks, we had dinner a week ago and she brought her 2 year old kid with her. i did not mind at all since we were just having dinner. but a few days later theres been sexual advances and i suggested we should get a motel room since non of us cant at our places. she agreed but says she has to bring her kid even thought we are supposed to have sex i said it wasn’t a good idea and that we should work something out for some other day without her kid but she insists she cant any day unless she brings her kid. her idea is that the child will nap while we do it so i just declined and said we would talk later. what should i honestly do or should have done? Submitted August 31, 2022 at 12:05AM so basically i’ve been talking to this woman for a couple of weeks, we had dinner a week ago and she brought her 2 year old kid with her. i did not mind at all since we were just having dinner.but a few days later theres been sexual adv...

God, I feel you so much. When I was around your age I would be soooo bothered by the social norm of having a bf, that I didn't stop to ask myself if I even wanted one. But since no one attracted me - I just didn't find the right person to date. Long story short, now at 26 I can confidently say, I am very much on the ace spectrum, and all I have ever done is kiss a few guys. Don't shut down to experiencing new things, but do remember, your feelings are valid and you don't need to push yourself to anything you don't want. August 30, 2022 at 11:28PM

I think sex talk is to teens as butt jokes are to middle school lol. I never got it either August 30, 2022 at 11:28PM

MEEEEE!! August 30, 2022 at 11:26PM

There was this one dude I was talking to and we were becoming friends and everything was nice then he said "I love you" but I was like "ok wtv" but then we ended up texting again a few days later and he said that he would get me pregnant, so I blocked him. August 30, 2022 at 11:26PM

Where can I find the FAQ 😭 August 30, 2022 at 11:25PM

I believe there is an exact description in the FAQ of how sexual attraction feels physically, but it's important to note libido ≠ attraction. You can feel the physical need for sex without having anyone around. If someone specific makes you feel that, tho, than it might be sexual attraction. (And as for genitals, from conversations with allo people, most of them also find it to be the least attractive human feature, so not necessarily xD) August 30, 2022 at 11:24PM