I’m not a gamer, no interest in anime. Probably a little socially awkward but only because of mild social phobia August 10, 2021 at 11:51PM

Nah I feel like there’s no need to be part of that group let the aro/ace be their own entity. Beside I’d rather not be part of a group that accepted pedophilia as an orientation August 10, 2021 at 11:50PM

This is the realest shit. August 10, 2021 at 11:49PM

Since there's a spectrum on how Asexuals feel towards sex, it's not fair to say "this joke is not Asexual". Yes, it's for sure not a universal truth/feeling we all have towards sex, but for both those that agree and find this funny (if they agree or not), are most certainly not any more or less Asexual than anyone else. It's unfortunate you had a negative experience involving this specific joke, but OP isn't that person (to my knowledge), and it's not wise nor fair to lash out at them as that other person did to you. Honestly, this joke seems very lighthearted. Haven't seen OP say anything gatekeeper like, or express any Ace elitism in the comment section. So, it's all good here. 👍🏼 August 10, 2021 at 11:48PM

Is there an option for all? Lol August 10, 2021 at 11:47PM

Shoutout for Rehoboth August 10, 2021 at 11:46PM

i was joking but jesus fuck you've beaten dark souls August 10, 2021 at 11:40PM

Thanks, I was just curious what the specifications were August 10, 2021 at 11:38PM

I feel this about it's not about the lyrics for me I just like the vibe August 10, 2021 at 11:38PM

I mean AAHLN+ sounds weird mainly because it's not the term we use - we do have a short hand term to refer to people of racial minorities, it's POC. The religion one, however, doesn't really make sense because we haven't ever needed to make an acronym for a community of people who share an experience relating to persecution/discrimination for everyone of *every religion* - yeah, religious persecution does exist, but we've never had a reason to make a community where everyone of every religion has faced persecution from a specific party because of their religion. My comment above isn't to say that I think LGBTQIA+ is a bad acronym - I actually like it, so I never knew about this dysphemistic phrase you're using here. My issue only lies with allies who claim to be a part of the community and not whether or not someone should or shouldn't use LGBTQIA+, as well as people arguing over linguistics because they don't understand that context is important f...

I remember the shock of catching my father masturbating once. The most asexual seeming guy in all of history. Doesn't even care for his daughter, doesn't care for anything but his "art", so any form of interest seems offplace with him. Afterwards everyone teased me as if it was funny. Another time I was staying as an exchange student with an English family. I shared the room with an Italian girl and we both often heard...noises...from downstairs. So happy that I wasn't the only one to feel disgusted in that moment. August 10, 2021 at 11:37PM

As long as the primary color is black, people will get it's an ace ring. Aside from that, there aren't any rules. My ring has a shiny rainbow going around both sides of the ring. August 10, 2021 at 11:37PM

This is going to sound crazy I'm a male looking for a way to kill my sex drive. Is it possible to take something like a medication to stop this or would I have to commit to a surgery? I dont like sex or being attracted to women anymore it just makes me feel guilty. Nowadays whether it be the internet or real life, around every corner there is a woman talking about how much men suck. Things some have said include "I hate all men", "I wish I wasn't attracted to men" and after hearing so many of these similar claims I just dont think the same anymore. There are so many stories of shitty men sexually harassing, catcalling, and being sexist towards women. Makes me uncomfortable that I'm even attracted to women as if there is nothing good about men. The idea of sex seems so degrading to me now. I have turned all of this hate and put part of it into myself Is there any methods that will kill/stop sex drive and attraction? Or atleast maybe something that will t...

So it’s been a while since I’ve been on the horse so to speak, and I’ve put on some weight in the past year. I’ve developed some discolouration from “chub rub” and it’s making me pretty self-conscious. Is this a turn-off or something i should try and rectify in the next few weeks (bleaching creams maybe?) before I hook up with someone? I just don’t want this guy I’ve been talking to for months to finally go down on me and be turned off by these dark marks on my inner thighs. Any advice appreciated, thank you ETA: this guy really loves going down apparently, and I really want to enjoy it and have him enjoy it too (so then he does it more!!) Submitted August 10, 2021 at 11:20PM So it’s been a while since I’ve been on the horse so to speak, and I’ve put on some weight in the past year. I’ve developed some discolouration from “chub rub” and it’s making me pretty self-conscious.Is this a turn-off or something i should try and rectify in the next few weeks (bleaching creams maybe?...

After years of really unsatisfying sex and mismatched libidos, my wife and I (both late 20s) have finally gotten to a good place with sex, and I'm over the moon for it. I'm also very cautious with bringing up some things because I don't want to be ungrateful (just to preface). Since she's opened up more, sex has been great. Handcuffs, leg restraints, pet play, etc. Some of it admittedly not my thing but I do for her anyway. One thing she does a lot of recently is calling me daddy. Don't get me wrong: absolutely here for it. But the last couple weeks it has...somewhat escalated. Quick preface: when she gets really into it, she opens up a lot. She's talked about wanting to fuck women while I fuck her, wanting me to fuck her in front of her friends, or online or something. Everytime I've brought it up outside of sex (as it does interest me) and she embarrassedly brushes it off and says she never said it. So I now tend to ignore that. We had the house to our...

We were at the beach, my bathing costume was wet with sea water and we had normal sex with a condom. After that I remove my condom and put my costume on, so did here. After 15 minutes we did sex again for like one minute but this time without condom and I didn't ejaculate, we stopped because it was risky. Could the sperm from before ejaculation be still alive and thus cause a pregnancy? It happened 2 hours ago Please give me your honest opinion Submitted August 10, 2021 at 11:38PM We were at the beach, my bathing costume was wet with sea water and we had normal sex with a condom. After that I remove my condom and put my costume on, so did here. After 15 minutes we did sex again for like one minute but this time without condom and I didn't ejaculate, we stopped because it was risky. Could the sperm from before ejaculation be still alive and thus cause a pregnancy? It happened 2 hours agoPlease give me your honest opinion

tried to have sex. He got the tip in for a minute and i’m not sure how much farther than that. He couldn’t go all the way because it hurt me too bad. Am i technically still a virgin? or does it count even if just the tip went in? lol. Submitted August 10, 2021 at 11:42PM tried to have sex. He got the tip in for a minute and i’m not sure how much farther than that. He couldn’t go all the way because it hurt me too bad. Am i technically still a virgin? or does it count even if just the tip went in? lol.

as a guy for me its not a big deal. Met this girl in bar and went back to her place, she said she was on her period but she was so horny and sexy I couldn't resist and we both didn't mind it so we had sex. I am wondering how girls look at a guy who doesn't mind period sex? should I mind the next time if something like this happen? Submitted August 10, 2021 at 11:46PM as a guy for me its not a big deal. Met this girl in bar and went back to her place, she said she was on her period but she was so horny and sexy I couldn't resist and we both didn't mind it so we had sex. I am wondering how girls look at a guy who doesn't mind period sex? should I mind the next time if something like this happen?

So I’m ftm, I’ve been on T for a long time and had top surgery, the only thing that hasn’t changed is my genitals. I don’t plan on getting surgery because it looks scary and expensive and I don’t think I really need it with the level of dysphoria I feel around it, like it’s not crippling or anything. However the dysphoria is still very much present and I haven’t been able to show my boyfriend that part of my body yet. I’ve done things for him, like go down on him or give him handjobs, but I’ve never been able to go all the way. It makes me feel really sad and guilty. I’ve been really interested in cunnilingus and watch videos often and it looks like it would feel really good but I don’t know how I’ll ever be able to let him do something like that to me. I’m just so embarrassed and ashamed of my body : ( Does anyone have any advice? Thanks. Also I apologize for the long post. Submitted August 10, 2021 at 11:48PM So I’m ftm, I’ve been on T for a long time and had top surgery, t...

I (29m) cannot say no to sex no matter how hard I try. Once someone shows the slight bit of interest in having sex with me it happens, whether I’m in a relationship or not, whether I hate that person or now, even if I’m not even attracted to the girl I still have sex with them. It’s ruined tons of relationships for me and my self esteem is so fucking low. I’ve tried being mindful and aware to say no, but I physically cannot do it, once I’m touched or sweet talked…. I’m theirs, they own me. Hate I have zero control over this. Submitted August 10, 2021 at 11:49PM I (29m) cannot say no to sex no matter how hard I try.Once someone shows the slight bit of interest in having sex with me it happens, whether I’m in a relationship or not, whether I hate that person or now, even if I’m not even attracted to the girl I still have sex with them. It’s ruined tons of relationships for me and my self esteem is so fucking low.I’ve tried being mindful and aware to say no, but I physically can...

I am eighteen years of age, and confess that I have never kissed anyone before, nor have a even hugged the opposite sex. This is because I deliberately choose not to behave sexually, as sex is too distracting and irrelevant to what is important in my life. My plan was to hold out on the idea until I became older, because sex with teenage boys must be dreadful. I'd rather have an experienced lover. Should I ever have sex? Is it even worth it? Note: I have orgasmed before, but all it did was make me feel guilty and ashamed. I don't want to feel ashamed again. Submitted August 10, 2021 at 11:50PM I am eighteen years of age, and confess that I have never kissed anyone before, nor have a even hugged the opposite sex. This is because I deliberately choose not to behave sexually, as sex is too distracting and irrelevant to what is important in my life. My plan was to hold out on the idea until I became older, because sex with teenage boys must be dreadful. I'd rather have...

If a girl told you she’d been raped and she’d been crying when she told you, would you ask for sex the same night that she disclosed it? Like would you initiate anything? Submitted August 10, 2021 at 11:50PM If a girl told you she’d been raped and she’d been crying when she told you, would you ask for sex the same night that she disclosed it? Like would you initiate anything?

So the first kink - heels. Always loved them on women, hot AF. My wife rarely wears them irl now unless it’s a special occasion but has a few bedroom pairs and is happy to indulge me. Secondly - fantasising about her past. We’ve shared vague details of our previous sex lives and it’s always got me going. Mostly I’ve fantasised about potential casual sexual encounters in her clubbing days but recently she admitted she had an extra guy to add to her number she never told me about - a one night stand more recently when she was 25 (3 years before we met). This turned me on like mad and I feel I need to know if she enjoyed it, how they ended up in bed, how they fucked and how they came. Mixing these 2 together, she’s told me she wore heels in bed once before we met. As she has played down a little bit of her sexual past (I did with mine too as liked her I didn’t want to seem promiscuous) I expect there may be a couple more times. I know she almost bought Louboutin stilettos once too whic...