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/u/Lavellllan on Masturbation

i tried it once. never again. August 20, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/LazyKyd on Asexuality+?

I could never remember that romantic attraction is a thing August 20, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/doctercreeper on Asexuality+?

All if the above August 20, 2021 at 11:52PM

/u/Cordure on Curious to see how many people here are m-spec (Romantically)

I don’t know, I think I’m only romantically attracted to one person, so gender is.. 🤷 August 20, 2021 at 11:52PM

/u/LazyKyd on Asexual but still masterbate?

Never understood the line of "masturbation"; is it "touching yourself" or "reaching an orgasm" that counts? 'cause I don't think I've ever reached an orgasm but I have touched myself sometimes unconsciously August 20, 2021 at 11:50PM

/u/LazyKyd on Secondary orientation?

I could be bi and beyond since I really don't care much about genders these days; I just don't want physical intimacy outside of my control. August 20, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/pleasestabmethanks on Asexuality+?

I hecked up and somehow voted ace/bi. I am not ace/bi, I am ace/aro. August 20, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/Effective-Struggle-4 on Made a shirt for a punk rock show outta frustration for a failed relationship that I am just coming out of. I know what my boundaries are and I need to set them more strictly and find someone who accepts that I am not comfortable with sexual acts. I can’t wait to wear this on stage.

Please show me the results too btw! I would love to see it! August 20, 2021 at 11:47PM

/u/LazyKyd on PLEASE HELP ME FIND CITIES THAT WELCOME ASEXUALS.

Can't say, it just depends on people really (Asians are pretty indifferent to the notion tbh) while the thing varies in states in America as it is in Canada. Also depends on the person too. You should probably hold off on the asexuality bomb but can use the excuse that you're relationship curious as an excuse (allos do it all the time) so I think you'll be good on that department. Can't help on the race thing sorry August 20, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/no_this_is_pattycake on What are some albums/songs that you wholeheartedly believe are better than sex

Experience is the one that was used in the film Mommy, wasn’t it? Such a fantastic piece. August 20, 2021 at 11:43PM

should i have one last sneaky link with this guy?

so this guy is leaving for college tomorrow so should i have one last sneaky link with him tonight before he leaves? lmk Submitted August 20, 2021 at 11:04PM so this guy is leaving for college tomorrow so should i have one last sneaky link with him tonight before he leaves? lmk

Photographer and model roleplay advice

My wife and I use alternate emails to set up our role play scenarios. This allows us to create characters and narratives with out having to sit down and verbalize prior to which means when the time comes for the roleplay to start we can slip into the character flawlessly without having to watch one another "transition" into character. One of our long standing scenarios/characters sets is a photographer that pushes the limits with his models and a unsuspecting Housewife that won a free photoshoot in a contest. These characters have formed a relationship to which the Housewife recommended the photographer to one of her "friends" for a photoshoot with the photographer (this was hot watching my wife switch personalities for this new character). For tonight we have set-up a scenario where the photographer has reached out to his original client to be the model in a pictorial piece he is calling "the sexuality of the American housewife." What I am looking for i...

I can’t get over this guy’s comment that my pussy was “looser than he expected”

After the first time we fucked I asked him how it felt. I was meant it to be a sexy talk but then he said “looser than I expected but in a good way.” I’m pissed off because I’ve been pretty confident about my hooha. Also the guy has a small dick (around 4.5 inches) so I don’t think it was me. Should I get over it and not feel offended? Submitted August 20, 2021 at 11:27PM After the first time we fucked I asked him how it felt. I was meant it to be a sexy talk but then he said “looser than I expected but in a good way.” I’m pissed off because I’ve been pretty confident about my hooha. Also the guy has a small dick (around 4.5 inches) so I don’t think it was me. Should I get over it and not feel offended?

I need a good Railing. *Moans*

I want to get railed and have multiple orgasms. That sounds fucking amazing. Can't stop thinking about it. Submitted August 20, 2021 at 11:33PM I want to get railed and have multiple orgasms. That sounds fucking amazing. Can't stop thinking about it.

could i be pregnant

last Friday i had a one night stand and on Monday (he was wearing a condom and there was no leaks after checking the condom) i was urinating frequently but on Tuesday it was back to normal so i just brushed it off, last night i was over at my friends house when I got a metallic taste in my mouth and i passed out on her arm (i feel i should point out that i barely ate yesterday i had Boba and i had my first meal about 5 minutes before passing out). this morning i was looking at why i got a metallic taste and its one of the symptoms for pregnancy. could i be pregnant? ​ edit: if you need anymore info just ask :) Submitted August 20, 2021 at 11:37PM last Friday i had a one night stand and on Monday (he was wearing a condom and there was no leaks after checking the condom) i was urinating frequently but on Tuesday it was back to normal so i just brushed it off, last night i was over at my friends house when I got a metallic taste in my mouth and i passed out on her arm (i feel i s...

Help!! He either goes soft seconds after or he doesn’t finish..

Me(21F) and my fwb(21M) had sex 4 times. The first time I supposedly finished (now I’m not sure) him off by riding him. He was incorporating his fingers when I did that. Looking back I think he went soft and wanted to finish me off with fingering. Second time I was trying my best to suck him to cumming (went on for about 30mins. couldn’t feel my face). He kept saying I was “too good” and asked me to slow down. I stopped completely because he was pushing my hand away from his penis. He did not cum. Third time I rode him and he gave me multiple orgasms. However he went soft after like 30mins and did not cum. 5mins later dick revived and fucked me to orgasm again. He thrusted really hard and seemingly came but I’m honestly unsure. Last time I think he went soft again (missionary) and attempted to finish me by fingering me. He’s your typical athlete guy but due to lockdown here in Australia he couldn’t maintain a healthy routine. Idk how much he watches porn or masturbates. Also don...

Is Casual Sex Okay?

Okay so I’m curious..I know men are typically the ones that are okay with casual sex…but how do they genuinely feel about a woman who is okay with casual sex with them with no emotional attachments? Women, how do you feel about casual sex? Personally, as a a women I am totally fine with it with only 1 partner. Submitted August 20, 2021 at 11:42PM Okay so I’m curious..I know men are typically the ones that are okay with casual sex…but how do they genuinely feel about a woman who is okay with casual sex with them with no emotional attachments? Women, how do you feel about casual sex? Personally, as a a women I am totally fine with it with only 1 partner.

What is the male equivalent of experiencing a “big dick”?

So I (20M) and SO (21F) were talking about past experiences and it eventually came across that my SO has experienced a few larger members than I (decent slightly above average), which is fine—people are born luckier than us and she’s allowed to have her past, but when I asked her what it was like, she said “it was fun for the novelty”. I can unpack that in many ways that could really hurt my self-esteem… but What do you guys think it means? If women (or LGBTQ+ that like dicks) are able to enjoy a large member as a novelty and then settle for something that won’t make sex a hassle, then what would the equivalent for the other sex (men) be? What is there something to experience at least once which supposedly should feel better than normal but isn’t a relationship dealbreaker? Submitted August 20, 2021 at 11:47PM So I (20M) and SO (21F) were talking about past experiences and it eventually came across that my SO has experienced a few larger members than I (decent slightly ...

Pain in head whilst masturbating

(17M) Earlier whilst i was masturbating i had suffered painful migraines in my head. I had to stop eventually because it got too painful.. It isn’t the first time i’ve had this and i have these very rarely. Someone explain? Submitted August 20, 2021 at 11:48PM (17M) Earlier whilst i was masturbating i had suffered painful migraines in my head. I had to stop eventually because it got too painful.. It isn’t the first time i’ve had this and i have these very rarely. Someone explain?

Guys, do you get turned off if you saw that your girl has a hemorrhoid?

I guess a hemorrhoid would be visible during reverse cowgirl and doggy style. Do you get turned off by it? Submitted August 20, 2021 at 11:49PM I guess a hemorrhoid would be visible during reverse cowgirl and doggy style. Do you get turned off by it?

Need to explain something to my partner.

How do I tell my partner that I want to be stepped on and kicked without the misconception that I like feet. I don’t like feet, I’m just a huge masochist and I like that a position like that would put all of my partners body weight on me, causing pain. I don’t like the concept of feet really, they don’t turn me on, but the concept of being kicked does. I also like being bitten, choked etc. but I don’t want any confusion. Anyone have the same thing? I just want someone to blunt force hurt me and being kicked seems most efficient and long lasting for the type of pain I’m going for. Submitted August 20, 2021 at 11:49PM How do I tell my partner that I want to be stepped on and kicked without the misconception that I like feet. I don’t like feet, I’m just a huge masochist and I like that a position like that would put all of my partners body weight on me, causing pain. I don’t like the concept of feet really, they don’t turn me on, but the concept of being kicked does. I also like be...

Went to a hooker, didn't finish

So today i had my first experience going to a hooker. Now as some might relate, being circumsised makes your dick less sensitive. Which is far from a problem if you have sex with your partner or anything like that. But if you're like me and couldn't get any girls due to COVID and wanted to break the dry streak, you could go to a hooker. And so I did. Knowing I'm circumsised and hookers requiring their clients to wear a condom, I went to a petite girl thinking the tightness of her vagina would kind of counteract the unsensitiveness (if that is even a word). Well, 45 minutes of pounding and €75 lighter, i couldn't finish which really sucked. Afterwards I went home, watched some solid porn and finished the deal as to not go to sleep with a full sack. Now as for sex workers etiquette, I don't know if you're allowed to bring your own condoms. If so, i would highly recommend to use one of those ultra thin ones for my circumsised brethren. ​ TL;DR I'm circums...

Are powdered finger condoms safe?

I just bought a box of finger condoms/cots and they are powdered a fair amount. The brand is Calapro. Are powdered finger condoms safe or do they need to be rinsed prior to insertion? What even is the powder? Submitted August 20, 2021 at 11:55PM I just bought a box of finger condoms/cots and they are powdered a fair amount. The brand is Calapro. Are powdered finger condoms safe or do they need to be rinsed prior to insertion? What even is the powder?