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A conversation (about penis size) that I had feared my whole life finally happened, and it went wonderfully

Hey! Some context, I (male, 25) was a part of an immature group of guys growing up who would tease each other a lot. They picked up that wasn't very confident about my size down there, and as guys do they just made fun. It traumatised me a lot, and while no woman any had any comments or issues and it never affected my experiences, I was always waiting for a woman to call me out, ask about it or just reject me because of my penis size. I was on a second date recently, and it was going really well. We were having drinks in a bar and she started flirting pretty heavily. She asked for 'a preview', explaining she meant for me to describe my dick size to her. It finally happened, argh! It didn't help that she had previously told me she'd only dated one dude and was gesturing to a tall pint glass about his size, I guess cause she expected me to be similar? Idk, that was weird. Maybe it was the liquid confidence, or the fact that I've been doing lots of therapy and...

Question about first dates!

What’s your opinion about women making the move to kiss during the first date if the timing feels right? I already like this guy, and I’m more of the one to make the first move and don’t really like waiting around when the guy will. I think it’s so awkward knowing that the standard is they kiss you goodbye at the end of the date. Please give me your opinion! I’m a 25F if that helps. Submitted January 16, 2023 at 01:10AM What’s your opinion about women making the move to kiss during the first date if the timing feels right?I already like this guy, and I’m more of the one to make the first move and don’t really like waiting around when the guy will. I think it’s so awkward knowing that the standard is they kiss you goodbye at the end of the date. Please give me your opinion! I’m a 25F if that helps.

/u/cripplinganxietylmao on I'm asexual but I'm going to have to distance myself from the ace community.

Attention January 16, 2023 at 12:18AM

/u/Ormandria on Ignoring the ace phobia, how can you think the only difference between romance and friendship is sex?

No kidding. And that definitely puts the movies Maleficent and Frozen in a very different (and in Frozen’s case, very disturbing), light…. January 16, 2023 at 12:18AM

Am I expecting too much if I expect the guy to talk to me over text or call in between dates ?

If we are meeting once a week, is it too much to expect from a guy to continue communication on texting/calls in between dates ? After only first date where both have stated their intention of something serious and long term. Submitted January 16, 2023 at 12:11AM If we are meeting once a week, is it too much to expect from a guy to continue communication on texting/calls in between dates ? After only first date where both have stated their intention of something serious and long term.

How do I ask her out

I like a girl I don't know if she likes me back she only snaps me before she goes offline and if she does like me how do I ask her out like is it hey do you want to be my girl freind that just seems childish how do you say it Submitted January 16, 2023 at 12:12AM I like a girl I don't know if she likes me back she only snaps me before she goes offline and if she does like me how do I ask her out like is it hey do you want to be my girl freind that just seems childish how do you say it