I'm not trans, but as an aro ace, I sympathize with the feeling that your relationship prospects are essentially (or at least feel) non-existent. What I do instead is focus on enjoying my life for what it is, rather than agonize over the things I probably won't ever have anyway. September 04, 2019 at 12:01AM

You are apart of it because you're asexual. It doesn't matter that upur heteroromantic. For example, biromantic heterosexuals are part of the LGBTQ+ community even though they're heterosexual. Anywho, you're valid September 04, 2019 at 12:00AM

While I am happy and comfortable being aro ace I dislike the massive, often impassible gulf that it creates between me and most other people, and I dislike how it forcibly curtails the kinds of experiences that I can have and the future prospects that are available to me. September 03, 2019 at 11:59PM

Wtf thats so me September 03, 2019 at 11:57PM

Women, do you lurk on questionable dating sites for sexual pleasure? Do you ever seek anonymous sexting partners? Have you ever just decided to hook up with a stranger online? It seems like 90% of dating sites are men. Help, how do I find casual sex. I'm not a virgin. I'm not ugly. I just don't want to date anyone. I just want sex. Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:12PM Women, do you lurk on questionable dating sites for sexual pleasure? Do you ever seek anonymous sexting partners? Have you ever just decided to hook up with a stranger online?It seems like 90% of dating sites are men.Help, how do I find casual sex. I'm not a virgin. I'm not ugly. I just don't want to date anyone. I just want sex.

It literally causes pregnancy. It's like poison to a woman if she doesn't want to be a mother. I kind of hate that about my orgasm bleh. Women don't need men to orgasm at all. The only need is if she wants to get pregnant. It feels weird, am I the only one? My orgasm is dangerous and ruins lives. It's hard to be sex positive when my orgasm is a life destroyer (please don't make the predictable joke). Not getting a vasectomy until I have done having kids. Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:12PM It literally causes pregnancy. It's like poison to a woman if she doesn't want to be a mother. I kind of hate that about my orgasm bleh. Women don't need men to orgasm at all. The only need is if she wants to get pregnant.It feels weird, am I the only one? My orgasm is dangerous and ruins lives. It's hard to be sex positive when my orgasm is a life destroyer (please don't make the predictable joke).Not getting a vasectomy until I have done having k...

I was blown away when she mentioned it to me! The problem is she wants it to be natural, as in no dating sites/tinder. How would I go about setting this up without the internet? Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:14PM I was blown away when she mentioned it to me! The problem is she wants it to be natural, as in no dating sites/tinder. How would I go about setting this up without the internet?

I'm talking like once it goes past like the 5 inch point, the sensation becomes kind of painful like it's pushing against something different. Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:17PM I'm talking like once it goes past like the 5 inch point, the sensation becomes kind of painful like it's pushing against something different.

I (18f) love my boyfriend (18m) so much. We've been together for nearly two years and he was my first time having penatrative sex. The issue is I can't orgasm with him, I don't feel awkward or self conscious but I don't think I'm ever going to get there. We are a pretty strong couple, he is very kind and empathetic so most of the time we communicate great but not so much about sex. Honestly I just feel unsatisfied and I know it's for a mixture of reasons. My sex drive is really high and his isn't. He also works long night shifts and I don't see him as much as I used to, most of the time he's too tired for sex so I just blow him instead. I feel like there's so many things I'm dying to try but he's had so many partners (been having sex since he was 11/12 which I think is pretty fucked up). Occasionally I'll build up the courage to ask for something kinky in a non-sexy environment and he says he's done it before and would be ...

Sometimes it happens and I want to badly. Do other females feel the same Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:19PM Sometimes it happens and I want to badly. Do other females feel the same

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My partner and I used to use paper towels for all of our clean up, but a few months ago I bought some bambooee towels because we were using so many paper towels and I cannot recommend them enough for cleaning up after sex. Honestly they're great for pretty much anything you would normally use paper towels for, but they are very strong, reusable up to 100 times (I haven't had any tear or break down yet) and super soft (especially after you wash them)! They also plant a tree for every roll you buy and bamboo is much more renewable than paper so all around I like them better than paper towels! Just thought I'd share, they're much nicer to my lady parts than paper towels ever were! Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:29PM My partner and I used to use paper towels for all of our clean up, but a few months ago I bought some bambooee towels because we were using so many paper towels and I cannot recommend them enough for cleaning up after sex. Honestly they're great ...

I’ve (23F) always been on par with a 14 year boy. Birth control toned it down for about a year but it’s gotten more intense now that I’m single. I know some people have the opposite problem but this isn’t about them. I can’t sit in bed all day and masturbate so how do I even deal. Sometimes I drift off and get horny in class for no reason. Do I need to seek medical advice? Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:39PM I’ve (23F) always been on par with a 14 year boy. Birth control toned it down for about a year but it’s gotten more intense now that I’m single.I know some people have the opposite problem but this isn’t about them. I can’t sit in bed all day and masturbate so how do I even deal. Sometimes I drift off and get horny in class for no reason. Do I need to seek medical advice?

Hi, I don't know if this is the right subreddit to post this but here is the thing. Today I was having sex with my boyfriend, and all was good but when I was close (or I think, I'm not entirely sure) of a full orgasm he came. See, that not the issue, the issue came seconds after when I began having strong kinda period cramps, but I am not even near my period. He cuddled me and made sure I was warm, later the pain went away. It felt like my uterus was angry at something. Ladies, has this happened to any of you? Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:40PM Hi, I don't know if this is the right subreddit to post this but here is the thing. Today I was having sex with my boyfriend, and all was good but when I was close (or I think, I'm not entirely sure) of a full orgasm he came. See, that not the issue, the issue came seconds after when I began having strong kinda period cramps, but I am not even near my period. He cuddled me and made sure I was warm, later the pain wen...

I measured my junk comparing it to a iPhone 7Plus/8 Plus full height. (Display screen and the 2 black bars on each end). It came neck and neck. Is it small? I’m 15 and worried if it’s too small, or I’m just haunted by porn. Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:43PM I measured my junk comparing it to a iPhone 7Plus/8 Plus full height. (Display screen and the 2 black bars on each end). It came neck and neck. Is it small? I’m 15 and worried if it’s too small, or I’m just haunted by porn.

Mine(24f) was a few years back. Minor detail: I don’t shave my under arms, as they are very sensitive and I am uncomfortable with others even touching them. Anyway, in a heated and passionate hookup, dude went real deep and LICKED MY ARMPIT! Afterwards, I asked him why he did it. He replied “it was just so HOT, it was sexy, wasn’t it?” Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:46PM Mine(24f) was a few years back. Minor detail: I don’t shave my under arms, as they are very sensitive and I am uncomfortable with others even touching them. Anyway, in a heated and passionate hookup, dude went real deep and LICKED MY ARMPIT! Afterwards, I asked him why he did it. He replied “it was just so HOT, it was sexy, wasn’t it?”

I've been wondering what the proper way to go about asking for someone's sti test results are. Do you ask to see the results or do you just ask if they're clean? If its the latter, how do you know if they are telling the truth? Also, when do you typically ask someone? Before or after the first date(or subsequent dates)? If it's a hookup do you ask when you first start texting them? I'm pretty inexperienced when it comes to this stuff and I just dont want to make any dumb mistakes. Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:49PM I've been wondering what the proper way to go about asking for someone's sti test results are. Do you ask to see the results or do you just ask if they're clean? If its the latter, how do you know if they are telling the truth?Also, when do you typically ask someone? Before or after the first date(or subsequent dates)? If it's a hookup do you ask when you first start texting them?I'm pretty inexperienced when it comes to ...

My boyfriend (21F/21M) has recently expressed that he likes when I take control in bed. I’m wondering if anyone has any suggestions? I consider myself to be fairly confident in bed and open to trying new things. We’re both into rimming so he is comfortable with that, any suggestions? Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:52PM My boyfriend (21F/21M) has recently expressed that he likes when I take control in bed. I’m wondering if anyone has any suggestions? I consider myself to be fairly confident in bed and open to trying new things. We’re both into rimming so he is comfortable with that, any suggestions?

As a dude, female sexuality is something I'll always be in awe and really jealous of. I can barely comprehend what it must feel like with one guy, but I've read enough reddit stories at this point that I have sort of an abstract idea. But what about ...two? What does it feel like to have two cocks inside you at once? Or being spitroasted? What are your sensations like? What levels of arousal, excitement, lust, etc? Do you feel extra slutty, or more satisfied? I'm stupid curious. Hit me with your best stories! Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:53PM As a dude, female sexuality is something I'll always be in awe and really jealous of. I can barely comprehend what it must feel like with one guy, but I've read enough reddit stories at this point that I have sort of an abstract idea. But what about ...two? What does it feel like to have two cocks inside you at once? Or being spitroasted? What are your sensations like? What levels of arousal, excitement, lust, etc?...

We have sex and it feels great for both of us but he said he wouldn’t be able to cum from that , he can’t cum either from me giving him a blowjob and the only way he can do it is by him jerking off while we makeout or whatever Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:53PM We have sex and it feels great for both of us but he said he wouldn’t be able to cum from that , he can’t cum either from me giving him a blowjob and the only way he can do it is by him jerking off while we makeout or whatever

Met a girl through a mutual friend recently and we had a decent first date. But later I realized I am not really in a place where I want a relationship. We met through a mutual friend so I don't wanna cause a problem. Would telling her I wouldn't like to pursue things further over a text be ok? Or that better in person? Submitted September 03, 2019 at 11:39PM Met a girl through a mutual friend recently and we had a decent first date. But later I realized I am not really in a place where I want a relationship. We met through a mutual friend so I don't wanna cause a problem. Would telling her I wouldn't like to pursue things further over a text be ok? Or that better in person?

Have a guilty conscious and not sure what to do here. Part of me wants to send an anonymous message to this poor sap, the other part of me says it's none of my business and to leave it alone. Basically - my ex fiance who played me like a fiddle and cheated on me multiple times and caused a LOT of pain is now engaged to a friend of a friend that I do not personally know. My now wife had friends over this long Labor Day weekend and they were laughing about how she has already cheated on her latest fiance and they are set to get married in the next few months. Do I warn this dude? For background, I dated her 4 years, never once thought she would cheat on me. We got along great and I never once thought things were awry. On a camping trip with my best friends, my best friend (from elementary school onward) got me hammered and told me that she had cheated on me multiple times. I came back home and I ended it. While I was super embarrassed and pissed at my friend when he told me, I am ...

I am 24 (f) the guy that asked me for coffee is 25(m). My sister knows him too, we both know he has some kind of mental disability. We are both christians, I know he takes his faith seriously. I've known him for about two years. I honestly feel for him because of some hard stuff that I went through growing up. I went through something really hard that not a lot of people can understand. He probably goes through it every day. We hung out once and had fun, we just watched a lot of youtube videos. Whenever we run into eachother on the bus or at school, we always have good conversations. I had a really good friend growing up with autism too, and I honestly loved her to death. Submitted September 04, 2019 at 12:04AM I am 24 (f) the guy that asked me for coffee is 25(m). My sister knows him too, we both know he has some kind of mental disability. We are both christians, I know he takes his faith seriously. I've known him for about two years. I honestly feel for him because of ...