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/u/TD-dragon on What do you think of representation that is labeled as "not interested in sex" ?

depends on whos labeling it. a corporate that made content not by minority creators? probs filler rep. labeled that by fandom trying to scrounge up any rep, they can? go for it. cannon in content by minority creator? valid if it's consistent or explained in depth. January 08, 2023 at 01:25AM

Need advice on what to do after 'missing the sign'

So I (21m) was at a cafe w my friend and there was this waitress (21f) with whom we all had a really fun convo and I mentioned that I'm learning French and that as she is too, she suggested (whether seriously or not), sometime next week that me and her study some français together (we're both uni students but not the same place). I didn't see it as a sign but my friend later did not stop telling me that it was a sign that she was flirting/interested, and I didn't notice it as such (not very perceptive of stuff like this) I don't want to assume what she intended by any means but if I 'missed the sign' first time, what should I do? Should I go in another day and schedule it w her and offer my number in the process? Submitted January 08, 2023 at 01:14AM So I (21m) was at a cafe w my friend and there was this waitress (21f) with whom we all had a really fun convo and I mentioned that I'm learning French and that as she is too, she suggested (whether...

What do you do if a woman says she’s not into hookups but is giving you some signs saying otherwise?

There’s this girl at my school that I matched with on tinder and I’m not sure how to proceed. Submitted January 08, 2023 at 01:15AM There’s this girl at my school that I matched with on tinder and I’m not sure how to proceed.

/u/Amayai on I feel like I have to "expose" the latest comment to my post to you all.

The good ending January 08, 2023 at 12:41AM

/u/Raccoon_Walker on I feel like I have to "expose" the latest comment to my post to you all.

It’s a sub that excludes demisexuals and other microlabels that sometimes feel sexual attraction under specific circumstances. I think it’s dumb. January 08, 2023 at 12:37AM

I never followed through on 2 dates in a row with this girl now I'm regretting it and don't know how to ask for a 3rd chance.

So I invited this girl out on a date twice, never followed through on both the dates. First reason being I was hungover, second reason being my grandfather passed away. I never told her anything the day of the dates and she also never reached out. Now how do I ask her again for a 3rd time? She's going to think I'm a flake. Do I apologize or pretend nothing happend? I'm usually pretty decent with women but this situation I'm stumped. I'm 100% going to follow through this time and I'm very attracted to her. Thanks guys! Submitted January 08, 2023 at 12:16AM So I invited this girl out on a date twice, never followed through on both the dates. First reason being I was hungover, second reason being my grandfather passed away. I never told her anything the day of the dates and she also never reached out.Now how do I ask her again for a 3rd time? She's going to think I'm a flake. Do I apologize or pretend nothing happend? I'm usually pretty decent w...