ace enby, love all my ace brothers and my sisters and my sibs yall are awesome! <3 April 02, 2020 at 12:26AM

I’ve never heard of that, what is it? April 02, 2020 at 12:26AM

:) April 02, 2020 at 12:25AM

do aegosexual guys count? April 02, 2020 at 12:22AM

Demiromantic ace guy here! Flamboyancy is my best policy :3 April 02, 2020 at 12:17AM

It's alright! Since I posted this I just began accepting the fact that I might be aroace. But even now I still wonder if I'm just aro or just ace ahah. Sexuality is a complicated things tbh I'm happy you could relate to my post! if you want, we can talk more about it? :) April 02, 2020 at 12:13AM

This is how ppl typically describe sexual attraction. Have you ever felt something similar before? April 02, 2020 at 12:07AM

I fail to see the problem there April 02, 2020 at 12:06AM

Mood April 02, 2020 at 12:05AM

Does anyone else just feel like a piece of meat from time to time? Yeah but that's just this stupid corporeal fleshhusk I'm inhabiting rn Honestly tho, I found that doing some serious empathizing/sympathizing with allos helped me to understand the their perspective a bit more, and let me get away from my norm, which was to assume that sex was sorta just a physical activity for everyone. Since you do feel sexual attraction, remember that....that's his resting state, and he'll still see it in that light kinda no matter what. I'm ace so I don't really understand that feeling, but maybe remembering that it's always got that "extra" connection for him will help you feel a little less objectified? Also obligatory: if you don't wanna have sex, you're never required to. He should absolutely respect that. edit: a word April 02, 2020 at 12:03AM

Me five. April 02, 2020 at 12:03AM

Aro/Ace male saying hello! April 02, 2020 at 12:03AM

Hello am male here! April 02, 2020 at 12:01AM

That’s interesting! I didn’t know that, about the autism thing. I thought autistic people being asexual was just a stereotype brought on by an inability to display orthodox sexual appeal and interest. Well I’m some what confused still aha. I’m not sure exactly what you guys are trying to say but the knowledge of sensual vs sexual is something new to explore and makes lots of sense for my situation and what I desire from people I love romantically. April 01, 2020 at 11:55PM

I thought they were because I’ve met of a ton of asexual girls (on the internet, not irl) but I’ve only met maybe 2 asexual guys. But as you can see a least 100 guys say they’re asexual so it might be 50/50! But also 100 isn’t a whole lot so again, I’m not sure. Maybe there’s slightly less guys than girls. April 01, 2020 at 11:53PM

With it that it wasn’t counted as a disorder is what I mean April 01, 2020 at 11:49PM

:0 kinky.... April 01, 2020 at 11:49PM

Biro ace dude here with a bf~ ...it can be done! April 01, 2020 at 11:48PM

r/UnexpectedlyWholesome April 01, 2020 at 11:47PM

Sup Are asexual guys less common? I figured it was about a 50/50 between asexual guys and gals April 01, 2020 at 11:46PM

I honestly don’t even know. His arguments are incomprehensible. April 01, 2020 at 11:46PM

Okay so I’m in the midst of a heinous divorce (husband had 3 women on the side, verbally and sexually abusive, and also kinda racist) and in a temporary moment of freaking out because I’m 32 and getting a divorce I decided to experiment with Bumble and see what it was like. Talked to a few people, exchanged numbers with one, and then deleted the app once I saw what it was like and what sort of people were on it. I made it clear to the guy I exchanged numbers with that I wasn’t ready to date right now. Just looking for friends for now but am open to dating later. (I know I know... I shouldn’t be talking to anyone right now and this really isn’t healthy at all) So soon to be ex husband (divorce will be final in less than 2 weeks) comes over night before last to get some of his stuff. Goes through my phone. Finds messages. Ensue fight of the century. Lots of yelling and also a good slap to the face. I got so upset I blocked the guy and deleted his info just to satisfy angry ex. Now I’...

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