After reading so many amazing reviews about the Satisfyer, I decided to purchase one myself. I was super excited to get it in the mail that when it finally came, I used it immediately. I have to say I’m .... underwhelmed. I can’t seem to get a good spot with it. I feel like I have to constantly readjust it. I was getting so frustrated that I eventually just stopped and used my hands instead. What am I doing wrong? Please send me your tips! Submitted October 16, 2019 at 11:52PM After reading so many amazing reviews about the Satisfyer, I decided to purchase one myself. I was super excited to get it in the mail that when it finally came, I used it immediately. I have to say I’m .... underwhelmed. I can’t seem to get a good spot with it. I feel like I have to constantly readjust it. I was getting so frustrated that I eventually just stopped and used my hands instead. What am I doing wrong? Please send me your tips!

(F,21) I’m currently not looking for a boyfriend but I still want to have sex, so hooking up with strangers sounds ideal for me. However this is a big thing for me as I’ve flirted with strangers before, but I’ve only ever had sex within a relationship. I find the whole thing exiting but I do have some concerns. For example, how do you know a stranger is not dodgy before going home with them? Submitted October 17, 2019 at 12:00AM (F,21) I’m currently not looking for a boyfriend but I still want to have sex, so hooking up with strangers sounds ideal for me. However this is a big thing for me as I’ve flirted with strangers before, but I’ve only ever had sex within a relationship. I find the whole thing exiting but I do have some concerns. For example, how do you know a stranger is not dodgy before going home with them?

Most of my experiences that involve exploring my sexuality involved a partner. I learned a lot about myself such as realizing I liked rough stuff when I used to think I was only into vanilla stuff. The first time I felt sexually attractive was when someone told me he found me sexy. Right now, I don't see myself being with anyone, casual or serious, but would still like to explore. I know porn and masturbating are some ways but maybe some of you out there can share others Submitted October 17, 2019 at 12:01AM Most of my experiences that involve exploring my sexuality involved a partner. I learned a lot about myself such as realizing I liked rough stuff when I used to think I was only into vanilla stuff. The first time I felt sexually attractive was when someone told me he found me sexy. Right now, I don't see myself being with anyone, casual or serious, but would still like to explore. I know porn and masturbating are some ways but maybe some of you out there can share ot...

Yep that's right, I've never had sex without a condom. My penis has never actually touched a vagina, In some cultures I'm still a virgin, I've never had 'real' sex yada-yada. This has all been my choice. I don't trust women with birth control (sorry not sorry) because of general paranoia but the huge amount of single moms out here out of wedlock proves my hypothesis. I'm obviously disappointed. I never really enjoyed penetrative sex that much after my late teens, it just feels, worse than masturbating. It's a literal barrier between your penis and the good stuff. It's like white rice with nothing else *shrugs* I still have sex (when I can lol) because why not, I don't complain about them to partners because that's rude. As far as they're concerned I lOoOve condoms... In even in relationships lasting years I never didn't use a condom. Some say I'm 'responsible' but who knew being responsible felt so, bland. I...

And it was pure bliss for 3 months. Then we stopped. But now other coworkers are starting to give me attention. I dont want to be an office slut.. I have a gf btw. Submitted October 17, 2019 at 12:06AM And it was pure bliss for 3 months. Then we stopped.But now other coworkers are starting to give me attention.I dont want to be an office slut..I have a gf btw.

Im 25 [M], i have moved here 2 years ago to pursue my education and live here by myself. Im having a hard time finding interested women for any encounters! I have been trying hard on dating apps and most of them are spammers who just need money any tips would greatly help to find a cougar under 35. Submitted October 17, 2019 at 12:07AM Im 25 [M], i have moved here 2 years ago to pursue my education and live here by myself. Im having a hard time finding interested women for any encounters! I have been trying hard on dating apps and most of them are spammers who just need money any tips would greatly help to find a cougar under 35.

Come to think of it I'm not entirely sure what this means...surely it just means licking someones asshole? If that's the case then, I don't get the appeal of it. I don't get why people would want to do this, obviously I've never had it done to me or tried it myself...please explain it to me rofl. Thanks :) Submitted October 17, 2019 at 12:11AM Come to think of it I'm not entirely sure what this means...surely it just means licking someones asshole? If that's the case then, I don't get the appeal of it. I don't get why people would want to do this, obviously I've never had it done to me or tried it myself...please explain it to me rofl. Thanks :)

I’ve been hearing that tantric sex is pretty awesome but when I looked into it it just seems like some mystical BS. Have you ever done tantric Sex and what do you think of it? Submitted October 17, 2019 at 12:12AM I’ve been hearing that tantric sex is pretty awesome but when I looked into it it just seems like some mystical BS.Have you ever done tantric Sex and what do you think of it?

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okay so I’m gonna be hooking up with this really hot guy sometime soon and he’s so attractive and I want to impress him. But I need tips? Does anyone know how I can give him a crazy good blowjob and great sex? I just need tips. Submitted October 17, 2019 at 12:15AM okay so I’m gonna be hooking up with this really hot guy sometime soon and he’s so attractive and I want to impress him. But I need tips? Does anyone know how I can give him a crazy good blowjob and great sex? I just need tips.

I am single and purposely abstained from sex for about two and a half years. I don't know if I regret it or not, but I'm just so horny all the time. I'm in med school and routinely pull 12 to 16 hour days of working/studying. I haven't been able to find anyone to date, and I am really nervous about hooking up. I have OCD tendencies and get really paranoid about catching an STD or getting someone pregnant. I know condoms prevent that but my anxiety isn't necessarily logical. I'm on track to have a great career and am actually relatively attractive. I sometimes go on tinder to see if I could hook up if I wanted to, and I regularly get about 300 matches within a week of making an account. I'm just too nervous to actually meet anyone on there. And masturbating always makes me not want to hook up at all - at least for a few hours. Like if I'm thinking of going on a date with someone and then masturbate, I'll delete my entire tinder account and go back...

Hey.. so I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years we used to have great sex with toys included and now we don’t do anything at all.. he’s admitted to masturbating while I’m at work but he always says he’s not horny or never in the mood for sex whenever I give hints that I want it.. I’m really thinking he’s not attracted to me anymore whatsoever.. he’s cheated in the past and I’ve stayed and we currently live together and are going through some issues with his mum and money.. (yes I posted earlier on) but I just don’t know what to think of it Submitted October 17, 2019 at 12:20AM Hey.. so I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years we used to have great sex with toys included and now we don’t do anything at all.. he’s admitted to masturbating while I’m at work but he always says he’s not horny or never in the mood for sex whenever I give hints that I want it.. I’m really thinking he’s not attracted to me anymore whatsoever.. he’s cheated in the past and I’ve stayed and w...

Long story short, I met a girl and I really liked her, like more than I have anyone for a really long time. We hung out a few times and talked everday for about 3 weeks. Then our conversations slowed to a trickle until she just stopped replying. Of course I feel hurt and it's fucked up and all that. Ive been pretty torn up. But I've come to the conclusion that I deserve better than that. I've always subscribed to the idea that no one owes anyone anything or is under any obligation, and that's still true. But if they can go from being all up in with you day in and day out, then to treating you like you don't matter at all, you don't have to stand for that. I have my fair share of self esteem issues and fears of being alone sometimes, so this realization hit me pretty strongly and I'm glad it did. She might seem nice, but the truth is if she ignores you, she sucks. Most people believe they're good people, but that doesn't mean that they are up to you...

I have been in a relationship for about month and half. When we first started talking we would hangout every night and go on dates for about month. She was always excited to see me and I was the same way. Before we started dating she was not ready because she just left a pretty bad relationship. I told her I could wait and she loved that and said “I think the one will wait for me”We would do sexual things about every week or less or multiple times a week. We would talk dirty to each other and just play around. Almost every night she would hold me from leaving and start kissing me so I would not leave. After one night I noticed she changed a little bit over a couple weeks. She was not talking as much and wasn’t as touchy as before. I would try to talk dirty sometimes but had no effect. When I leave now sometimes we kiss but she ask me stay longer. She says she is just tired but she is tired all the time now as before we would stay up till 3 am sometimes. I asked if everything was ok an...

So I'm new to bumble and dating in general. After talking for only 30 mins, someone asked me to meet up in a couple hours for a walk. I find that a bit weird but is that the norm with Bumble? Submitted October 17, 2019 at 12:11AM So I'm new to bumble and dating in general. After talking for only 30 mins, someone asked me to meet up in a couple hours for a walk. I find that a bit weird but is that the norm with Bumble?

I feel like my communication with my partner is so limited and confined and every time I bring it up he makes me feel like I’m just bitching and complaining while he does everything under the sun for me. He can go on and on, and on and on, about any subject that he cares about. It’s usually music, sports, or his school work (went back to college a year ago). I always want to make him feel heard and appreciated, so I always try to be an active listener and respond to his stories, encourage him, and ask him questions to further along the conversation. But when it comes to something I’m passionate about or would just like to simply discuss, he gives me the silent treatment. No, he flat out ignores me and will continue to occupy himself with whatever. He doesn’t so much as flinch to acknowledge that I’ve just spent 5 minutes pouring my heart out about my day. I’ve tried to express to him how important it is for me to feel heard, but he doesn’t seem to care. Like today— I was just told r...

That’s what he said to me a week ago, We’re both shy souls, we find solace in each other when life becomes overbearing. We’ve been engaged nearly a year, and our families keep asking us when we’ll tie the knot but today we’ve finally decided. We’re not going to tell anyone, we’re going to get a babysitter, and a hotel room somewhere far away and get married. Just the two of us, and I’ve been smiling constantly since we’ve made that decision. He keeps asking me if I’ll be disappointed that I’m not getting the big traditional wedding, and no. I never wanted that, and this just fits us so well, it’s perfect. He’s perfect. I love him. Submitted October 16, 2019 at 11:52PM That’s what he said to me a week ago,We’re both shy souls, we find solace in each other when life becomes overbearing. We’ve been engaged nearly a year, and our families keep asking us when we’ll tie the knot but today we’ve finally decided.We’re not going to tell anyone, we’re going to get a babysitter, and a ...

Not sure how to sau thats but bisexual but dont wamt to fuck etc biro i think. October 17, 2019 at 12:01AM

I have, and they're helping, thank you my fellow ace! October 16, 2019 at 11:57PM

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I don't. I've seen trailers for it online and it doesn't seem to be appealing to me. The whole concept grosses me out. I don't like things that discusses sex, body parts and all that stuff. I'm a very squeamish and sensitive person. I have body acceptance issues, too, so that's another reason why. I guarantee you I'll be triggered if I watched it. Besides, there's a lot of stuff in it I don't understand and I'm an older person. So I find that demeaning on a personal level. I have a fear of nudity and sex which explains a lot. I also suffer from really bad period anxiety as well. Overall, I don't feel comfortable with my periods and body. I worry about myself more when I'm on my period. Its a feeling that's hard for me to describe. I feel gross, embarrassed and ashamed of it. I don't like talking about my period, obviously. Or hearing about someone else's. In general, periods are really for my anxiety. I can't accept myse...