She looks amazing and the outfit is neat! ​ Reading the hellish comments on Twitter was a horrific experience. So we're not ace if we want to dress "sexy" for any reason? People are empowered by how they express themselves, ace people included. ​ The only time I've ever felt attractive was when I was in cosplay (since I was "someone else" mentally). I'm still asexual, and my outfit is still valid. Same for her and everyone else! :D November 02, 2021 at 12:37AM

Some women actually experience higher sex drive during their periods. Even those who don’t may still masturbate to relieve pain from cramps or just because, so it’s not necessarily “easier.” November 02, 2021 at 12:32AM

Same for me it’s before my period. It’s weird and I’m always like why and then when I remember, I’m like oh, yeah, that’s why lol November 02, 2021 at 12:32AM

I read this thread the first time it appeared on here: the model is very well-spoken about ace issues and I am happy to have someone like her representing the community. Reading some of the ignorant comments is frankly upsetting November 02, 2021 at 12:31AM

people can want to feel sexy without wanting sex-- like, I enjoy sexual content, but I'm indifferent to the thought of actually having sex. so I dont really get the "ace people arent allowed to feel sexy or wear lingerie" thing. I love to look good, but it's for myself. not for anyone else. November 02, 2021 at 12:27AM

Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years , sex was great and amazing and it still is for me but I feel like my boyfriend doesn’t like it anymore .. I can’t ride because my legs start hurting and I’ve tried to do leg work outs to help but I feel like his dick just feels to good it makes my legs go weak .. sex always results in me giving him head to finish… he also has suggested a threesome which I’m iffy on for many reasons but I feel like he wants more wants to feel another girls insides and I’m an over thinker so it could be just that but I don’t know … just feel like sex with me doesn’t please him anymore someone help and give me advice Submitted November 02, 2021 at 12:54AM Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years , sex was great and amazing and it still is for me but I feel like my boyfriend doesn’t like it anymore .. I can’t ride because my legs start hurting and I’ve tried to do leg work outs to help but I feel like his dick just feels to good i...

I have very mild anal fissures, but very much want to have anal with my partner. Any tips for how to make it more comfortable and not cause more damage? Submitted November 02, 2021 at 12:54AM I have very mild anal fissures, but very much want to have anal with my partner. Any tips for how to make it more comfortable and not cause more damage?

23M: I'm extremely selfconcious about my size (only 4") and am worried it won't be enough to please my girlfriend. To make matters worse I was heavily addicted to porn over summer and after our first time making out for about 20 mins and having her naked on top of me, I STILL couldn't get hard even though physically she's my ideal 10/10. Decided to quit porn then and there and haven't watched it since but now I still struggle to get hard with her after that first experience. Any advice? Submitted November 02, 2021 at 12:55AM 23M: I'm extremely selfconcious about my size (only 4") and am worried it won't be enough to please my girlfriend. To make matters worse I was heavily addicted to porn over summer and after our first time making out for about 20 mins and having her naked on top of me, I STILL couldn't get hard even though physically she's my ideal 10/10. Decided to quit porn then and there and haven't watched it since but now...

So I had intercourse a few weeks back started a pack on JUNEL FE a few days after because it got prescribed then, pre ejaculate in tip of condolence got put back in me, waited about two weeks took a test still have not had my period but I am cramping like I feel it coming. The test came back negative but I am still worried. The egg should shed because I did not take the pill before the egg was produced so it should and needs to shed. What should I do? Submitted November 02, 2021 at 12:55AM So I had intercourse a few weeks back started a pack on JUNEL FE a few days after because it got prescribed then, pre ejaculate in tip of condolence got put back in me, waited about two weeks took a test still have not had my period but I am cramping like I feel it coming. The test came back negative but I am still worried. The egg should shed because I did not take the pill before the egg was produced so it should and needs to shed. What should I do?

Every now and again I can do it but I can’t do facials with my gf cus of it:/ Submitted November 02, 2021 at 12:59AM Every now and again I can do it but I can’t do facials with my gf cus of it:/

Girl followed me on IG, liked my recent post. Want to dm slide but she hasn’t posted in a bit. She’s very clearly single, not much conversation wise to go off from her page. I don’t want to send a “hey” but I don’t have any good ideas right now. Help appreciated Submitted November 02, 2021 at 12:01AM Girl followed me on IG, liked my recent post. Want to dm slide but she hasn’t posted in a bit. She’s very clearly single, not much conversation wise to go off from her page. I don’t want to send a “hey” but I don’t have any good ideas right now. Help appreciated

Recently I’ve been talking to this guy and we’ve hung out about 3 times.He’s never had a girlfriend and said he’s only hooked up with 2 girls.We only hangout at his place and only at night which I know is a red flag.But we watch tv together netflix and games together.We cuddled last time but he said he’s never been personal with a girl and didn’t know how to show affection lol.He’s only kissed me the first time we hungout and hasn’t since.He tried having sex the first time too but I said no because I’m trying to hold it off till the right moment. I really like him but I can’t tell his intentions because he hides everything he feels. Submitted November 02, 2021 at 12:03AM Recently I’ve been talking to this guy and we’ve hung out about 3 times.He’s never had a girlfriend and said he’s only hooked up with 2 girls.We only hangout at his place and only at night which I know is a red flag.But we watch tv together netflix and games together.We cuddled last time but he said he’s never b...

I (23F) started dating this guy (25M) a couple of weeks ago. We matched on a dating app, and have been on 2 dates so far. The dates have gone extremely well! We talk for hours, and honestly he seems like the male version of me. He expressed interest in seeing me again, and we set up a 3rd date. Normally, I would think that everything is going great by now. But I have a few issues. The problem is that he's a really bad texter. He will go 9+ hours without responding to a text. I feel like if you were really interested in pursuing someone, you would make initiate contact more often. I know I do, and in the past, all the guys that have been really into me have. He is the first person I've encountered that doesn't text much. And it's making it difficult to tell if he's really into me. The second issue is that I know he's seeing other people. (After our first date he told me I was his "current favorite", but idk if that changed after our second date). I a...

Hi everyone, Just needed a place to vent about my story with online dating. I've been on Tinder for two years and I actually liked it... In fact, I met a lot of wonderful girls on Tinder and had a lot of fun dates. However... Unfortunately, I never had the luck of starting something serious with the girls I've met on Tinder. You probably can relate to these reasons: - The girls I was romantically interested in weren't romantically interested in me. - The girls I wasn't romantically interested in were romantically interested in me. This trend continued and after a while, I became very frustrated with dating. At first, I thought I was the problem... Maybe I wasn't muscular enough? Maybe I was too short? Maybe I didn't earn enough money? In other words, I was convinced that I wasn't worthy of love, so I began an unhealthy self-improvement process. To be honest, I'm glad I did because I became a lot fitter, got a promotion, and dressed a lot better afte...

So I (22M) was invited to a party that the girl (21F) I like was at. When I came in with my friends, who she didn’t know, she immediately went over to me and my group of friends and started talking to us. In the middle of the conversation, she took my beer and took a sip out of it and told me she hated beer, which is confusing because why would she take my beer when she doesn’t even like it. She was also very touchy with me and touched my arm and even put her hand on my chest. I also put my arm around her a lot and she let me do it while we were playing pong together. Finally, she said “fuck me” in reference to missing a shot in pong and I said “I’ll pass” while looking at her flirtatiously and she looked at me in disbelief and got closer to me and talked to me with her face really close to mine. Was she flirting or am I overthinking it? Submitted November 02, 2021 at 12:14AM So I (22M) was invited to a party that the girl (21F) I like was at. When I came in with my friends, who...

I feel like it's worth pointing out that most of the people losing their shit over this are TERFs and other generally queerphobic assholes so like their opinions never mattered anyway. November 01, 2021 at 11:34PM

Dude this post triggered something in me lol I relate so hard to this! I over analyze my surroundings constantly and I feel like I always get caught looking at someone and than they look back, and, well, you know the gist. And than I get so stressed out about what they’re thinking cause I’m not attracted to them … but everyone says looking at someone than looking away somehow = having a crush … anyways, I hate it, but it keeps happening to me too lol so no, you’re not alone November 01, 2021 at 11:33PM

To me, AC = Alternating current, or air conditioning. November 01, 2021 at 11:33PM

I have some issues with it because this is decidedly not what asexuality looks like. Some folks are allowed to look sexy if they want to and that’s okay. But others don’t. As commenters here have said, this community is very diverse, so saying “this is what asexuality looks like” isn’t accurate because it’s only what some asexuals look like. That said, she looks fucking brilliant. November 01, 2021 at 11:32PM

What if you do have asexual friends and don't even know it November 01, 2021 at 11:32PM