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why ask someone out and set up a 2nd date if you dont intend on going?

Probably should've deleted the person that did this to me a long time ago. I actually predicted in the moment she wouldn't actually go on a 2nd. It's been months and months I'm even talking to 2 other girls but I just wish she like idk deleted me or gave me a real explanation idk. Submitted July 17, 2022 at 12:58AM Probably should've deleted the person that did this to me a long time ago. I actually predicted in the moment she wouldn't actually go on a 2nd. It's been months and months I'm even talking to 2 other girls but I just wish she like idk deleted me or gave me a real explanation idk.

Is there any way to flirt with my friend and see if she’s interested without making her uncomfortable/potential damaging the friendship?

I broke up with my girlfriend 3 months ago. I have a friend of 2 years who was previously (2 months ago) very physical with me. She would put her thighs on my lap when we’re watching a movie, lay her head on my chest ect. She then went on a two month vacation to visit her family in Europe , where we flirted a little bit over snapchat (though admittedly the conversation kinda died out after about a month). However when a mutual female friend asked her if she had any interest in me she very clearly said no. So now I’m not really sure if she actually likes me or if she just thinks its fun to flirt with me and is just doing this stuff because she likes the attention. We’re now back in the same city for the next two weeks, and I’m not sure how to flirt with someone I’m already so physical with… I was thinking about something like “can I put my arm around you” when we’re watching a movie since thats a little more direct than the playful physicality we have had previously. Does anyone hav...

/u/RedGamer3 on We all know the stereotype that all aces are sex repulsed, but is it actually more common?

I voted indifferent because I've never had it but have no objection to potentially having it nor any particularly strong desire to try it. July 17, 2022 at 12:41AM

/u/spinoluvr on We all know the stereotype that all aces are sex repulsed, but is it actually more common?

i’m aceflux, for me it’s 80% of the time repulsed and 20% favorable July 17, 2022 at 12:39AM

Am I "playing games" by waiting for him to text me first? (also posted on r/dating)

I don't doubt that in some contexts it could be, but I'm curious about people's thoughts on my situation. I gave a stranger my number and he ended up texting me! It was great! We went on a date on Tuesday and it was also great! He even asked me if I was interested in a second date before I could even get out of his car as he dropped me back home! So I have no reason to think he's not interested, but... The last guy I went on an awesome first date with, who insisted he was interested, flaked out on me so many times that I gave up. I tried to initiate things, make the first move, plan, and text first, but all in vain. I know men like it when the "woman" makes the first move, and I try to do that, I really do, but it gets tiring when it doesn't work out (I feel ya men). I went back through the texts with this new guy and I initiated the conversation seven times, and he has only done it twice, with one of those times being the initial text after I gave him...

When did you realize that you've fallen in love?

Hi all, I'm F/20 and I was wondering how y'all knew you actually have fallen in love with your partner. I'm currently dealing with lots of mixed feelings for a guy (M/20) and he is AMAZING. He makes me feel loved, we communicate and connect very well, he respects my family/friends and I. My family absolutely adores him (especially my dad, which is surprising since he's so strict) and he's respectful and nice towards my friends. I think I am falling for him but there are SO many uncertainties that I feel like are blocking me from making a final decision. Uncertainties: (all of these situations have happened before which is why I'm scared) I've been in traumatic situations before and because of that, I'm afraid that this is just a lie and everything will go away I don't want to be in the relationship and then realize that I've mistaken my feelings for him and that I just want to be friends I don't want to lose him at all, he's a part...

Does physical attraction come later or does it need to be there form the start and why don’t I feel anything for them

I went on one date with this girl I not really physically attracted to her. I enjoyed talking to her but realized that was about it. She seems really into me and I don’t know if I should try couple more dates or just end it. Just having a date is nice and helped my self confidence but I think that it would be kind of selfish to keep it going. This about the only dating experienced I have had. Should there be feelings ont he first date or first month of talking me 24m her 30f Submitted July 17, 2022 at 12:07AM I went on one date with this girl I not really physically attracted to her. I enjoyed talking to her but realized that was about it. She seems really into me and I don’t know if I should try couple more dates or just end it. Just having a date is nice and helped my self confidence but I think that it would be kind of selfish to keep it going. This about the only dating experienced I have had. Should there be feelings ont he first date or first month of talking me 24m her 30...