Context: (Went out with a girl - didn’t kiss her because I think it leaves something to be desired) She texted me “what are u doing Friday night.” I joke around a lot, so for someone I really know I would typically answer this with “you.” Obviously i barely know this girl so I am playing it safe, but it got me thinking. How would u take it if a guy u don’t really know responded to you like that. If you are someone who likes taking it slow would it be a turnoff and make u think he’s an f boy. OR would u appreciate the sense of humor. Submitted March 10, 2022 at 11:56PM Context: (Went out with a girl - didn’t kiss her because I think it leaves something to be desired)She texted me “what are u doing Friday night.” I joke around a lot, so for someone I really know I would typically answer this with “you.” Obviously i barely know this girl so I am playing it safe, but it got me thinking.How would u take it if a guy u don’t really know responded to you like that. If you are someone ...

How to give hik the green light? Submitted March 10, 2022 at 11:57PM How to give hik the green light?

Hi, Im 25M. Honestly never tried to date before. I completely wasted my early 20s, and I am just starting to get my life back on track. I feel like I am in a position to start thinking about dating, but I honestly have no clue where to even start. I think I am quite average looking, not fat but not super fit either. I do have quite a bad stutter, which I think is why in my younger years I never bothered with dating. I am not joking when i say that I have 0 idea where to begin, this in an alien concept to me. Any pointers will be helpful Submitted March 10, 2022 at 11:58PM Hi, Im 25M. Honestly never tried to date before. I completely wasted my early 20s, and I am just starting to get my life back on track. I feel like I am in a position to start thinking about dating, but I honestly have no clue where to even start.I think I am quite average looking, not fat but not super fit either. I do have quite a bad stutter, which I think is why in my younger years I never bothered with d...

So there’s this girl that I like, we know of each other and are friendly. One day we were talking and I told her that we should get together one day, she seemed receptive, but said to ask her next time earlier in the week so she can plan. I ran into her spontaneously a different week and asked what she was doing over the weekend. Said she was going out of town. I recently asked her again earlier in the week, but she said her relatives were in town, and she didn’t propose another day/time to meet up. Do you think it’s worth asking one more time, or should I just cut my losses and move on? Submitted March 10, 2022 at 11:59PM So there’s this girl that I like, we know of each other and are friendly. One day we were talking and I told her that we should get together one day, she seemed receptive, but said to ask her next time earlier in the week so she can plan.I ran into her spontaneously a different week and asked what she was doing over the weekend. Said she was going out of to...

The guy I’ve been dating for 2 months became official with me, but I feel sad and distant. I was the one who initiated a cute date and asked what he thinks of us dating for 2 months. He can be shy sometimes, so he said it’s good. I nudged again asking how he’s feeling about us and how he would describe us. He said well we’re definitely dating, and he likes where it’s going. I asked if we’re exclusive, and we confirmed we’ve both been exclusive this whole time. He sensed that I wanted more to be said, and he asked “are you ready to be official already?” I said yes are you? He said he would’ve asked me to be his gf sometime during the next few weeks and that while I haven’t met his friends yet, it’s heading the direction of a relationship and said “did you want to be my gf?” I asked if that’s really what he wants, he said “sure” jokingly and then “Yes” when I reacted to that. I prefer the guy to take the lead but wanted some clear answers as it was on my mind for a while. Now I feel lik...

Which do you think is more appropriate for the first date? And let's say you're not asking, you just go for it. arm around while sitting at a bench? Or is that overdoing it? Submitted March 11, 2022 at 12:12AM Which do you think is more appropriate for the first date? And let's say you're not asking, you just go for it.arm around while sitting at a bench? Or is that overdoing it?

You might have insecurities. Are you dissatisfied with yourself in any way? Are you dissatisfied with the way you look and what you already have? You probably liked the idea of being desired and when that person desired you, you realized you weren’t really interested to begin with. I guess you need to do some more soul searching. You can find queer therapists on psychology today that would help you find your real identify. Some therapists are clueless when it comes to asexuality and aromanticism, even if they say they are lgbt + friendly. Make sure the therapist really believes asexuality (and aromanticism) are real things and they understand the concepts well. Also check to see if you have any sexual dysfunction symptoms going on. March 10, 2022 at 11:13PM

No gold? :( March 10, 2022 at 11:13PM