Yeh so the usual I have a large labia minora, although its large i do still find it pretty in it's own way! I mean I've had a discussion with my friends and aside from one they all have a perfect porn star pussy!! Barely.visible inner lips. Although it's only been.mentioned.nastily to.me.once or twice by my ex, I've never had anyone say anything about it but the thing is when I'm having g sex I go to all lengths so they wont look directly at my vagina So men, in all honestly PLEASE! Do you prefer larger, smaller or no preference? What are your experiences with girls with larger labia?? I see a lot of memes about "two types of.girls" and although its based on a FALSE notion that women with larger labia minors have had more sex I cant help feeling a lot of boys will be disgusted by it?? Submitted September 11, 2019 at 11:32PM Yeh so the usual I have a large labia minora, although its large i do still find it pretty in it's own way! I mean I'v...

I know that it differs depending on the person, but I can't help but wonder if I'm depriving her of something she may not even know about by stopping when she clenches her legs together. I know it gets sensitive down there when she cums. I'm just curious because I frequently see people saying things like "don't stop till her soul leaves her body" etc. What would happen if I kept going? Would it become unbearable the same way it does for men? Would it lead to another orgasm? What would happen? I normally jump straight into PIV when she cums, and sometimes I'll go back down for seconds mid-PIV and all is good. So I know there is an apparent "cool down period" where she's good to go again. But I'm curious about what may happen if I just kept going when she tries to clench her legs. Submitted September 11, 2019 at 11:37PM I know that it differs depending on the person, but I can't help but wonder if I'm depriving her of someth...

Soo, I am a virgin basically and I just started using a fleshlight. I know real sex is still far different but I have a concern since using the fleshlight takes me over 30 minutes to reach my climax. I was also watching porn too. I don't think this is normal at all. I'm able to stay hard the whole time, and towards the end the base of my penis hurts. Like I said I am a virgin so I'm a little worried this might be bad when it comes to the real thing. I masturbate once a day and normally I just use something very very soft like a fleece sweater or something. It feels soo much better than the flesh light, maybe masterbating this way has cause nerve damage or something so something like a fleshlight (or sex) might not be enough to satisfy me? Even when I cum using the fleshlight I have to mentally try really hard to ejaculate, and when i do it's not that satisfying. :(Once went to Vegas and got a hand job, but it was over 30 minutes ( I expected this would happen) so th...

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So I [30m] am having a bit of a bedroom problem with my [28f] girlfriend. She is a very smart, beautiful individual, but very awkward and quiet. We've been dating for about 9 months now and things are great outside of the bedroom. But inside, things feel fragile. It feels like there is a lack of connection on my part. For starters, she doesn't make much sound so I don't know if she is actually enjoying herself. I also like rougher stuff but have been doing less and less over time because I get no response and I don't know if she likes it, to the point where sex has become kind of vanilla and dry. We've talked about making sound and communicating during sex, and she actually made a comment the other night about how she misses when I would get rough with her [slapping, tossing, etc]. The problem is, it doesn't feel enjoyable to me. And this is something that I have always enjoyed. It doesn't feel right to do that with her. It's like there is no passion. ...

I (F24) experienced my first heartbreak in early July. We broke up after 8 months of dating. He (M25) was the first man I ever loved and the first man I didn’t didn’t break up with after just a few months. He had also become my best friend. I have gone through many stages of grief; shock, denial, anger, extreme sadness. It has now been over two months and I feel like I’m getting used to being single again. However I still cry almost daily—when I’m at work, driving, going to sleep, etc. At this point I feel like I will always love him & wonder how my life could have went if we had just chosen to stay together. I just want my feelings for him to die. TL/DR: Any ideas how long my sadness will last? Any suggestions on how to move on more quickly? (I’ve tried dating/hookups but I just compare everyone to him & I don’t want anyone else). Submitted September 11, 2019 at 10:59PM I (F24) experienced my first heartbreak in early July. We broke up after 8 months of dating. He (M25...

I’ve been with my gf for 1 year and 4 months now and we have had our ups and downs as does every relationship. I have had thoughts of other women before in our relationship but it was only in the first couple weeks or so. I have fallen in love with my gf and I care for her deeply. But I met this one girl in class and I can’t stop thinking of her. I am a senior in college now and I am taking an elective class and I saw this one girl a week ago and she has been on my mind ever since. I’ve seen her now three times and every time I find myself staring at her (Ik it’s creepy) and I can’t help myself. I feel so many feelings for her and I haven’t even talked to her yet. All we have done is glanced at each other sometimes and that’s it. I feel terrible I feel like I am cheating every time I think of her. I just don’t know what to do about this situation if I should do anything at all. My gf and I just went through a really bad fight that almost cause us to break up and maybe I just have fe...

I have been dating this girl for around 5 years, we started dating in highschool and then through college. We were fortunate enough to both be accepted to the same college, we decided on going to the same university based on different merits. So the choice was completely organic, and of our own will, without the influence of the other person. We had decided from a very early phase in our relationship that we did not want to get married or start a family young and that we would want to establish ourselves in our careers first (as well as pay off that college debt). We fully knew that this could mean splitting up or trying a long distance relationship following graduation and with the acceptance of a first job. At the time we both agreed to try the LDR and see where things went. ​ I was fortunate enough to receive a fantastic job in my field about 2 months out of college, however it was a few states away roughly a 4.5 hr drive. She has not been so lucky and is still looking for a job....

Here's a bit of backstory on my friends and our relationship: My male friend, Dave, and I have known each other since middle school. We became close and were in the same friend group in high school, and hung out nearly daily junior and senior year. We continued being good friends, and I started dating my fiance when I was around 20. My fiance, Aaron, and my friend Dave, got along immediately. They had the same sense of humor and were almost even closer than Dave and I were, which was great because I had past relationships where my bf didn't get along with my friends. Dave went through a horrible breakup with a girl that cheated on him, lied about it all, and gave him an STD, and we spent a significant amount of time with him supporting him through the recovery process. This is where we got really close. We talked about life, and laughed a lot. We went on hikes and basically had a memorable summer like no other. This made us really close. A few years after this, he had an emer...

So I had been dating this girl for a little over a year. We met last summer and I left for school and we survived long distance the whole year and had an incredible summer. I love her so much and my heart aches at the thought of her w another. I trusted her more than I've ever trusted anyone else - thats what makes this so hard We went back to long distance (2.5 hours apart) as a i returned to school, she goes to our local CC. The first visit she was supposed to come on sunday and we were going to go to a concert on monday night. Due to circumstances that displeased me she didn't end up coming sunday and monday was the first time we had seen each other in 2 weeks. She immediately began crying and telling me how awful her mental health had been, I asked her if she needed time without me and she said probably yeah. At this point, I understood and while I felt extremely sad I was okay w it ending on good terms. However things turned south quickly. After we engaged in physical a...

Hi all, been a longtime lurker of Reddit and was hoping to keep it that way until, well, now. My SO and I have been together for a year and six months thus far, we were best friends, stopped talking for a few months due to crazy ex, and got together a few months after getting to know each other again, all while in high school. Our history has been... complicated, but we managed to work things out and have a strong relationship until about July, where things just began to fall out. Some background about me that lead to us breaking up: I have terrible mood swings, bouts of depression that get worse over the summer as I cut off contact with practically everyone I know (save for SO) and it, I feel, got us to the point where we are now. I've never been able to see a psychiatrist or get help despite asking and wanting to due to extremely strict parents. Back to July, my mood swings began to get really bad and certain things just... irked me and made me flip to the point where I'm...

I have a friend who I used to be close with, the friendship turned into a friends with benefits type thing (closest I can describe it). She's now with someone but during that time I developed feelings for her which I've told her about. I'm finding it hard to see her as just a friend. Plus she sometimes still says she loves me. I'm assuming she means as a friend but it's hard to not interpret that the wrong way. I think I should give her some space, so I can move on and so I don't interfere with her and her boyfriend. At the same time I still want her in my life. I've loved spending time with her, we've always had fun and if nothing else I'd like to go back to being friends. I'm just not sure the best way to go about it. Right now I need to stop thinking of her as more than a friend. I don't want to ruin the friendship by cutting her out completely and plus I don't want to cut her out completely. Part of me thinks going no contact would...

Hey guys. Would appreciate some thoughts on something which has consumed me for the past week. Ex and I broke up in July. She’s moving to Africa this week after having graduated from university and it simply would not have worked. We were together 1.5 years and she told me she loved me. She also told me she wished we weren’t breaking up, but we both knew we had to. I still am (and she was) in the UK. The week after we broke up she went to a 4-day festival in Sweden with a girlfriend. There, she met some guy. I noticed through social media they started following each other on all platforms immediately. Full suite: she even added him on Spotify. After this 4-day trip she came back to the UK where she would stay until the end of August. At the start of this month, she posted instagram stories with this guy in them. Also posted a photo. Clearly, they kept in touch from afar for 6 weeks and she flew all the way to Sweden to visit him for a couple of days. She did not post it to make me ...

We have been married for 7 years. The problem that I have been dealing with for almost a year now and it’s literally making me insane. My husband has supposedly been free of porn and adult content since June 2018 after being caught with a secret kik, Snapchat, Reddit account, and email... Before this I caught him masturbating to porn in our bed and that he had been paying for a premium porn subscription, he admitted that he had a problem and that explained why our relationship and sex life seemed almost none existent.. in June he only admitted to the kik but obviously it doesn’t save all of the conversations once you log out so all I got to see were the people he had exchanged messages, pictures, and videos with... I found out later on he had also used another email to post ads of me on a Reddit thread to trade pictures and videos of me with other people in exchange for their pics and vids of their wife/girlfriend. That’s how I found out about the Snapchat account and whatever else,...

This is all happening between two of my(23) very close friends; Amy(20f) and Jon (26m) and aquaitence Sam (24m). My other friend and I were really trying not to get involved but it's kind of aggravating. Last night I was texting Amy and I told her that she just needs to talk to John about what's going on and just clear things up. She agreed with me. And then she canceled on seeing him again. He called me and he was very upset and I didn't know what to tell him because I don't know what else I can do. Basically what happened is Amy and John got very close as friends and they ended up sleeping together and at one point they both confessed their love for each other. Amy was never really sure what John wanted from her but would get visibly upset if she heard he'd hung out platonically with a girl or anytime he treated her as a friend, "is that all this is to him?".Okay. anytime John has tried to define the relationship she has always stepped back and given ...

Ok so this girl happens to be my crush (it will end soon hopefully). I’ve liked her for a while now and she has given me some signs that she may be interested even at least on a platonic level. She makes sure to carry the conversation every time we talk, she smiles at me nonstop, she tries to find me in crowded places, gives regular glances from afar (they’re really obvious). Anyways I figured that if she is somewhat comfortable around me, she might not be too annoyed if I send her a friend request on fb. Well I did and she left it hanging, which is fair enough but then in real life when we talked she would act totally normal and give the same signs of interest. Hell, she even once indirectly asked me to come sit closer to her in class. I was confused...why on earth wouldn’t you try to keep contact at least over the summer when you felt comfortable (I guess) around me irl? I figured maybe she didn’t see the fb request so I sent her on instagram, again to no avail. I honestly got piss...

TL;DR - The leader of my department and I have differing personalities, which causes a lot of workplace conflict. She also scrutinizes my work and ability to offer helpful comments to others in our department. I feel undermined and owed an apology. My co-worker and I have always been on different pages. Our work personalities just don’t mesh together, and it’s created a lot of conflict. We have had many discussions about it with each other and (separately) with the manager to figure out how we can better work together. What makes matters worse is that she is the leader of my department, so I feel forced to just grin and bear it a lot of times. One thing she consistently does is repeats herself when trying to explain something. I have brought this up to her and explained that it’s unnecessary to say it more than once since I feel obligated to listen, when instead, I could be using that extra two minutes to be productive with the information she has just given me. Her defense is that ...

My ex-wife and I got divorced earlier this year after 5 years of marriage. Neither of us cheated (as far as I know). I'm not really sure what happened because I don't know her mind, but I didn't want things to be hard on her so I gave her an uncontested divorce when she asked for it. That said, I am upset because she kept my last name. She claimed she kept it because she established her professionally under it. We haven't lived with each other or even spoken to each other in over half a year. This is mainly because I told her that with the way she had behaved I felt like she damaged any trust I had in her and how she would treat me even as a friend. ​ ​ Since then, I've been doing all the things I should do for self-care. Exercising. Doing activities I enjoy. Seeing a therapist. Meeting new people and getting out of my comfort zone socially (This has been a little challenging because my ex kept us pretty isolated. She didn't want to do anything with new peop...