I (34F) started going out with a guy (33M) from my Bible study. We've been on a couple in person dates having lunch and doing outdoor activities. He just told me he's going out of town for work so unfortunately we won't be meeting in person for a while. He did bring up zoom dates so we could keep meeting and such. However my question is WHAT DO YOU EVEN DO ON ZOOM WHEN YOU'RE DATING EARLY ON? The end of the last date got a little "interview-y" when he started asking a barrage of questions and asking "why" / "can you give me an example" / "how so" for almost everything I answered. It kinda killed the vibe, but I do want to give him another chance since it's early on and we're both nervous. He's also told me he's had trouble in the past making connections with people outside his family. I want to get to know him and have fun (cause dates are supposed to be fun, right?). I'm willing to give anyone a chance, bu

I don't mean to sound pessimistic but almost every single person I've talked to has unironically told me that I might have a harder time than the average person when it comes to finding someone compatible for dating because of my lifestyle and I legitimately want to better myself (not in a "new year new me then gives up" way, I genuinely want to make the effort count). I am open to new ideas and want to end this on a positive note since having an optimistic mindset is pretty important too. What do you suggest? Submitted January 02, 2024 at 12:15AM I don't mean to sound pessimistic but almost every single person I've talked to has unironically told me that I might have a harder time than the average person when it comes to finding someone compatible for dating because of my lifestyle and I legitimately want to better myself (not in a "new year new me then gives up" way, I genuinely want to make the effort count). I am open to new ideas and want