Happy Pride Month! June 04, 2023 at 01:06AM

I have been talking to someone for around 6 weeks. We hang out once a week and go on dates around town. It’s starting to feel like a lot and I’m kinda craving my solitary downtime to relax. I have mostly been in shorter relationships and it’s been a while since I’ve spent a lot of time with someone. Is this normal? I’m wondering if I have avoidant attachment style if I’m already feeling like I need more space when we just see each other once a week. Submitted June 04, 2023 at 01:16AM I have been talking to someone for around 6 weeks. We hang out once a week and go on dates around town. It’s starting to feel like a lot and I’m kinda craving my solitary downtime to relax. I have mostly been in shorter relationships and it’s been a while since I’ve spent a lot of time with someone. Is this normal? I’m wondering if I have avoidant attachment style if I’m already feeling like I need more space when we just see each other once a week.

Well I was never much of an athlete anyway June 04, 2023 at 12:06AM

I'm so glad you did that! There was a time I would endure pain if it meant being liked or desired. It's so liberating to know you have your own back and that you know what you're worth and what you want. Looking back I feel dumb for staying with some exes for way to long... but those were the teaching moments that brought me here, I guess. June 04, 2023 at 12:06AM

I don't want to give away too much info as I'm a little paranoid but regardless. I've been talking to this girl for a couple days now through a dating app (bumble) We both seem to be into each other and I don't know if it's appropriate to send a goodnight or goodmorning message ? I don't see the harm in doing so because you're just saying goodmorning/goodnight, it's nothing intimate but everyone seems to make it out to be a big thing as if you're saying " I love you " or something. Idk my hearts beating and this is the closest I've been to a relationship since I was in school. I have absolutely no idea what I'm doing, I'm just winging it and I'm nervous. She seems perfect and I'm not lol Submitted June 04, 2023 at 12:10AM I don't want to give away too much info as I'm a little paranoid but regardless.I've been talking to this girl for a couple days now through a dating app (bumble)We both seem to b...