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/u/Gladiator_Fembot on what kind of attraction(s) do you experience?

As someone who appreciates the gym. I do like me some thicc fit people. They're so pretty. August 24, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/scrambledeggsroyale on Reading this image makes me think I might be asexual I've done all the stuff on the bottom, but in reflection I've never felt the top one. I'm also completely ok with never having any sexual intimacy in a relationship.

be me, recently come to terms that I am demisexual see this post has never seen a person and had the urge to have sex with them, only had a willingness in the hypothetical situation that someone I was already dating asked am now confused August 24, 2021 at 11:47PM

/u/Vervayda on As kids, did you guys ever play "house"? And if so what did play as?

I have 11 cousins on my mom's side, we played house ALL the time! I was definitely one of the kids and never wanted to be a parent! August 24, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/01000010011001011100 on What is your opinion / How do you deal with sexual songs?

But I do pay attention to the lyrics August 24, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/ral365 on As kids, did you guys ever play "house"? And if so what did play as?

Oh I think all little kids have played house at some point. I used to play it with my sisters and cousins. We’d take turns between being the “mommy” and the “baby.” We also used our baby dolls and American Girl dolls as kids sometimes. August 24, 2021 at 11:40PM

/u/ablueowl on *Cries as a sex-averse heteroromantic ace woman* (Disclaimer: I am NOT mocking allosexual men for having these VERY VALID needs)

Yeah I recently read the article and it was nice to see that not all the gestures of desire mentioned were necessarily sexual. And I'm always open to more studies (as long as they're peer-reviewed and intellectually solid), it was sad to read that men's sexual desire has usually been ignored in research. I definitely don't agree with the traditional dynamic mentioned in the article, with men mainly expressing and performing gestures of desire in a relationship. I would definitely want a more equal dynamic in my relationship and would have no personal issues with expressing and showing love for a male partner. I agree with your issues with the study though, and I'd like to see non-heterosexual relationships (including aces' relationships) studied as well. I also understand what you meant about broader cultural issues being a factor, I don't think gendered norms and expectations are healthy and certainly not in interpersonal relationships (like someone havin...

/u/ratwithareddit on As kids, did you guys ever play "house"? And if so what did play as?

We would constantly mix-match shit. It was house+three random shows/movies/whatever we liked at the time. I usually ended up being the random mage/Jedi/centaur?? that was just there. Nobody knew why, I was just part of the family. Very fun lol. August 24, 2021 at 11:39PM

/u/fuzzyybrain on Yes

fuuck yes..too bad I’m stuck in my bed starving bc my wisdom teeth were removed today 😭 August 24, 2021 at 11:37PM

/u/HolleighLujah on Yes

Please use the NSFW flare if you're going to post porn August 24, 2021 at 11:36PM

/u/maddr_lurker on Yes

Will people stop posting such beautiful pictures of garlic bread!?!?!? I’m getting so hungry… Update: I just ordered garlic bread on delivery. August 24, 2021 at 11:29PM

Orgasms aren’t the same?

I’m an 18YO Male, I ejaculate atleast 5/6 times a week on average from various methods, I edge, I abstain somewhat regularly for a week or two however my orgasms only seem to last a few seconds. For example I’ve just spent an hour edging, and the orgasm lasted maybe 5 seconds? The second it stops pumping out I go back to not feeling anything, as if I’ve not just spent an hour edging. Any tips? Ps. I’m not comfortable with bum stuff so anything other than that is good Submitted August 24, 2021 at 11:03PM I’m an 18YO Male, I ejaculate atleast 5/6 times a week on average from various methods, I edge, I abstain somewhat regularly for a week or two however my orgasms only seem to last a few seconds. For example I’ve just spent an hour edging, and the orgasm lasted maybe 5 seconds? The second it stops pumping out I go back to not feeling anything, as if I’ve not just spent an hour edging. Any tips? Ps. I’m not comfortable with bum stuff so anything other than that is good

Period in EVERY 2 WEEKS ! (After the first sex)

I lost my virginity 3 months ago, i had a light spotting after the first sex and i had sex again the other day. I haven't had sex after that 2 attempts but two days after the second sex, i got my period (at the beginning it looked like an actual bleeding but then it became a period, i think). After that i'm having my period in every two weeks (with the usual cramps and everything i had before having sex). I've also noticed some brown discharge while having bath. I haven't had any other symptoms or troubles, I've even done a pregnancy test despite my periods, and it was negative. So the main problem is my period which, for some reason, comes in every 2 weeks! What may be the reason of that? Has anyone had this kind of experience? Any thoughts? (I couldn't make an appointment to doctor till now , but I definitely will, just curious of any of your thoughts and advices..) Submitted August 24, 2021 at 11:03PM I lost my virginity 3 months ago, i had a light s...

Want to know if partner was genuine and honest after sex.

Hello, I’d like to first start off by saying I don’t enjoy talking about subjects such as sex, financial income, you know things people typically like to talk (brag) about in society. It’s meaningless blabber. I don’t feel like talking to anyone in person about it because it feels as if you’re bragging. But I feel as if taking it to this space I’ll receive more genuine feedback. Anyways, I’m here to get some honest feedback on a subject. I recently had sex with my second “partner.” My main goal during sex is honestly to please the other person. I commonly last for a decent amount of time 30 minutes or longer. I’ve had a good amount of times where I don’t even finish. But this time I was about 30 minutes into the session and they told me they couldn’t go anymore. They said my dick was “too big” and it’s been a while so they are too tight and it started to hurt. I completely respected the situation and proceeded to lay down next to them. They go on to ask something along the lines of g...

I’m struggling with vaginismus

I’m (22F) have been struggling with this since 2019, when I first lost my virginity. When I’m doing things myself, I’m fine but when I try to have sex with a guy, it hurts so bad. And it sucks because I want a relationship and I try to become more comfortable with someone, but then it ends and I’m back to square one. I hate this condition Submitted August 24, 2021 at 11:11PM I’m (22F) have been struggling with this since 2019, when I first lost my virginity. When I’m doing things myself, I’m fine but when I try to have sex with a guy, it hurts so bad. And it sucks because I want a relationship and I try to become more comfortable with someone, but then it ends and I’m back to square one. I hate this condition

A question for the couples. Do you plan on when you are going to have sex or does it happen spontaneously?

I read a article recently that said if you pre plan when you will have sex that it spices up your love life. Submitted August 24, 2021 at 11:12PM I read a article recently that said if you pre plan when you will have sex that it spices up your love life.

Slow sex life with my girlfriend

We are both in our twenties and I feel like our sexlife is being kinda slow lately. We have been together for more than 6 years already and it's always been difficult to have time alone (since we don't live together) but this summer there have been many occasions when we have had the house to ourselves but nothing happened. We went on a trip alone for 5 days and nothing happened either. We are open and like to talk about most things, but I have always had more libido than her so I don't want to pressure her about it. I have asked a bit about it but she says it's nothing, but I don't know what to think anymore since it's not like other times (with hard times or other difficulties). Has anyone been in this situation? Thanks in advance :) Submitted August 24, 2021 at 11:12PM We are both in our twenties and I feel like our sexlife is being kinda slow lately. We have been together for more than 6 years already and it's always been difficult to have time ...

How can I broach the subject of a cockwarming kink with fwb?

I’ve (21f) been hooking up with a friend of mine (24m) for the past couple months, and things are going great. We have a lot of mutual trust and respect, and he’s very eager to please. I’ve had a fantasy of doing oral cockwarming with someone for a while (basically just laying on the couch chilling and watching tv together with his cock in my mouth). This isn’t the wildest kink in the world, but my fwb is pretty vanilla for the most part, and I’m not sure how to even bring up a topic like “hey would you let me just suck your dick like a pacifier for an hour”. We do a lot of cuddling and movie watching together so there’s plenty of opportunities, but I’d definitely want to ask what he thought first before just doing it. Advice on how to bring up this kind of thing? Submitted August 24, 2021 at 11:15PM I’ve (21f) been hooking up with a friend of mine (24m) for the past couple months, and things are going great. We have a lot of mutual trust and respect, and he’s very eager to ple...

Am I meant to use a condom for oral?

So I’m 15 and over the summer I’ve been having sex with my girlfriend, and we have obviously been using a condom for intercourse to stay safe and she has started taking birth control pills from the doctor. But where I live we can get free condoms with this app where we can go to a sexual health clinic and get a lesson on how to use condoms and once we do that lesson we get an activation code that allows us to use this machine that gives a pack of free condoms. But when I got my pack it came with 12 normal condoms, some lube and 12 flavoured ones? Am I meant to use these for oral? Neither of us have done sexual stuff with any other people so is there still a risk of getting anything if I don’t use them? And can I use them for intercourse or are they for oral only? Submitted August 24, 2021 at 11:29PM So I’m 15 and over the summer I’ve been having sex with my girlfriend, and we have obviously been using a condom for intercourse to stay safe and she has started taking birth contro...

Struggling to find ways to tease a girl subtly in public

I know about most of the common ones, like touching the thigh, waist, ass, body, light choking not that it’s subtle, and a few other things. Is there any other really steamy or sexy ideas anyone has for this? And no sadly we don’t have a Bluetooth toy :( To clarify I checked previous posts and was unfulfilled by a lot of the answers there, not enough responses usually. Submitted August 24, 2021 at 11:38PM I know about most of the common ones, like touching the thigh, waist, ass, body, light choking not that it’s subtle, and a few other things. Is there any other really steamy or sexy ideas anyone has for this? And no sadly we don’t have a Bluetooth toy :( To clarify I checked previous posts and was unfulfilled by a lot of the answers there, not enough responses usually.

Can someone explain to me why a guy would hold his shaft during sex?

So, I was having drunk sex the other night and it was great. I noticed a trick that I don't think I have ever seen before and would like some clarification. He was actually holding his shaft while thrusting inside of me. Before we got to the deed, he was hard but more half and half - and also on the smaller side (no hate, I love that). I am wondering if that is a trick that you a guy would do if he has whiskey dick or a smaller size? Hey man, I do not discriminate... I love all sizes 🤗 just asking because we also have all of our own tricks. Submitted August 24, 2021 at 11:42PM So, I was having drunk sex the other night and it was great. I noticed a trick that I don't think I have ever seen before and would like some clarification.He was actually holding his shaft while thrusting inside of me. Before we got to the deed, he was hard but more half and half - and also on the smaller side (no hate, I love that). I am wondering if that is a trick that you a guy would do if ...

Partner was looking into secretly hiring a nude maid service

I (24f) have been in a 2 year long distance relationship with my fiancé (24m). I went to use his tablet while he's at work to watch Netflix and came across a recent search as I went to type something into Google. He had been looking at nearby nude maid service providers and I had no clue. I know he's into that kind of stuff but I never thought he'd be tickling the thought of getting a service like that behind my back. Is this something you'd bring up or should I try talk about fetishes naturally and see if he brings it up? We're very open sexually and personally so I don't know why he'd keep this from me. Do you think it may have just been a horny curiousity and nothing would be acted on? To my knowledge, we've been monogamous the whole time and have discussed it and how we'd both feel if the other broke it. We've both been through some shit is all. Submitted August 24, 2021 at 11:51PM I (24f) have been in a 2 year long distance relationsh...

Made my boyfriend cry over sexual attraction

I am a virgin and have always wanted to wait till I'm married before having sex. I started dating my boyfriend earlier this year and I know he's not a virgin and he doesn't necessarily care to wait till marriage, but out of respect for me, he has agreed to wait for however long I want to. We've had a pretty innocent relationship and I know he's a very physical guy, but he has held back from even complimenting me physically because he just doesn't want me to be uncomfortable. Anyways, I never felt them before with anyone but I'm having a lot more urges and have even had sexual dreams about my partner. I am very very attracted to him too. I shared this with my boyfriend and he started crying, saying that he's so happy I see him in this way and that he is overcome with emotion right now. I guess my question is, did I do something wrong? The fact that he is crying over the fact that I am sexually attracted to him makes me feel worried. If it makes a diff...

Great bjs that aren’t sloppy?

Is it possible to give a really amazing bj without it being super sloppy or deepthroating? Cause that’s like two tips I keep seeing everywhere and I’m wondering if it can still be great without having to spit/drool on it/trigger gag reflex? Any tips appreciated.. thaaaanks Submitted August 24, 2021 at 11:59PM Is it possible to give a really amazing bj without it being super sloppy or deepthroating? Cause that’s like two tips I keep seeing everywhere and I’m wondering if it can still be great without having to spit/drool on it/trigger gag reflex? Any tips appreciated.. thaaaanks