I'm a (25 f) and I've loved humping and/grinding on objects/people since like forever. I feel like since I have this fetish I am very in tune with even the little sexual arousal triggers of a man/women because over the years I've loved to learn the tickle, arousal spots of a man/woman even if non sexual places and play in a way that comes natural. Do any other humping gals feel this way, and what are some suggestions of things/parts to rub myself on. I love finding new ideas on what feels good. Even the most taboo is okay with me answer away! Submitted January 18, 2020 at 12:23AM I'm a (25 f) and I've loved humping and/grinding on objects/people since like forever. I feel like since I have this fetish I am very in tune with even the little sexual arousal triggers of a man/women because over the years I've loved to learn the tickle, arousal spots of a man/woman even if non sexual places and play in a way that comes natural. Do any other humping gals feel t...

The anterior fornix is an area towards the end of the vaginal canal. It’s past the cervix and forms a pocket like shape. It brings a ridiculous amount of pleasure for many women. The only issue is size, you can’t exactly hit the a-spot during intercourse if you’re below a certain size. I’m not sure entirely what size it is. I know it depends on the woman but it’s usually above average in length. I know toys can be used, but it’s quite devastating that the only reason you’re using that toy is because you’re not big enough. It’s a hard pill to swallow. How do you deal with not being able to hit the a-spot due to size? It almost makes me feel selfish in a way. Any experiences, advice etc. Would be greatly appreciated. Submitted January 18, 2020 at 12:23AM The anterior fornix is an area towards the end of the vaginal canal. It’s past the cervix and forms a pocket like shape.It brings a ridiculous amount of pleasure for many women.The only issue is size, you can’t exactly hit th...

I'm usually not really looking for a potential match at work. I like my job and don't want to get entrenched in a workplace romance gone bad. There's this woman at work, single, who has been seeking my attention a lot. She's cute, funny and has a warm, caring personality. She's a bit more on the introverted side, but that's part of her charm.I noticed her but didn't think much of it because I try to block that stuff off at work. I always come in late and stay late at work. When everyone has gone home I get most of my work done without interruptions. I noticed she changed her schedule to match that.On 3 occasions over the last 2 weeks she's come over to my desk when we're all alone and we've had long talks. I vibe really well with her, more than I expected. She's very easy to talk to and she opened up a lot, even though we've only been working at the same workplace for 2 months. Different departments, no shared projects or hierarchy, ve...

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I have an enormous crush on a girl that works at my local Starbucks and I'm trying my hardest to form a friendship with her, which she's also expressed wanting. When I first met her we talked and talked about dyeing and bleaching hair because I have vivid pink hair. Not a romantic topic but I felt a lot of chemistry. Sadly I never exchanged any contact info with her because I was on a date with someone and couldn't spend too long talking to her. I kept going back to that Starbucks in hopes we'd meet and after several weeks we did. She was excited to see me and asked if I'd come back sometime soon. Again I had to go back to my date. That was my sign she liked me too at least in a friendship sort of way. I continued visiting the starbucks after that looking for her but no such luck. Yesterday I was told by her coworkers that she works closing shift. I apologized for being so interested in a girl I still hardly knew but they were kind and approving saying they had t...

I want true love a soulmate I know he’s out there, fate just needs to bring us together that’s all. Some people say true love doesn’t exists I hope that’s not true cause love is the only hope I have that could save me from my depression. Submitted January 17, 2020 at 11:35PM I want true love a soulmate I know he’s out there, fate just needs to bring us together that’s all. Some people say true love doesn’t exists I hope that’s not true cause love is the only hope I have that could save me from my depression.

A friend of mine started dating a girl who fell in love with him. The thing is that her life is pretty fucked up, her dad was abusive, now she usually doesn't have a place to sleep, is suicidal and depressive. My friend started dating her for pure compassion, he doesn't like her, but can't break up with her because he's afraid she would suicide. He is really tired of this relationship and wants to end it. Submitted January 18, 2020 at 12:07AM A friend of mine started dating a girl who fell in love with him. The thing is that her life is pretty fucked up, her dad was abusive, now she usually doesn't have a place to sleep, is suicidal and depressive. My friend started dating her for pure compassion, he doesn't like her, but can't break up with her because he's afraid she would suicide. He is really tired of this relationship and wants to end it.

I (f) am an introvert and don’t really go to parties / bars / clubs. So what are the best ways for me to meet a guy in day-to-day life without using dating apps? Submitted January 18, 2020 at 12:09AM I (f) am an introvert and don’t really go to parties / bars / clubs. So what are the best ways for me to meet a guy in day-to-day life without using dating apps?

I (27F) met him (late 40s) in a work context. He's definitely funny and interesting, definitely friendship potential as well (more than relationship even), but I didn't have many opportunities to interact with him. I think I messed up, I didn't sufficiently capitalize on the few opportunities I did have to build rapport properly. From his point of view, he knows very little about me and that's probably a problem because he can't know whether he likes my personality or not. Now the short work relationship is ended, the coast is clear for a move - but I won't see him in person again. He's been very friendly in emails, lots of emotes, but with him it's hard to say whether it's just good "customer service sense" (which he applies to everyone, including non-clients) or genuine interest and enjoyment in interactions. I'm running out of excuses for emails, so move has to happen now. It's feeling dead in the water to me, but I might as w...

I walk around the streets of San Francisco and what do I see around me - a bunch of zombies deeply and irreversibly buried in their smartphones. I know people use smartphones all over the world. I know that the Instagram epidemic is also a global phenomenon, but I hear that it's much worse here than anywhere else. Everyone is permanently glued to their phones day and night. No one ever looks up. Eye contact?! What's that? No one looks at anyone and no one notices anyone. This very primal gesture of looking at each other and assessing each for attraction, threat or due to simply curiosity has been taken out of the equation. People have given up, but then again - the younger ones don't know any better because they have never had a chance to experience live during better times. I know, I know - it's none of my business what other people do and where they are looking at, but still - it so damn disturbing. Will it ever get better or will it get much worse? A friend from ...

I (22F) have been in a exclusive casual relationship for the last 5 months and I tried to dtr with him (M23) . His reply was that he couldn’t be in a relationship because he didn’t know where he would be in a few months (he’s graduating), but said that he still wanted to continue hanging out with me. I agreed because part of me hopes he will change his mind, but I fear I’m just going to be more hurt. Am I making a bad decision by continuing this. Submitted January 18, 2020 at 12:13AM I (22F) have been in a exclusive casual relationship for the last 5 months and I tried to dtr with him (M23) . His reply was that he couldn’t be in a relationship because he didn’t know where he would be in a few months (he’s graduating), but said that he still wanted to continue hanging out with me.I agreed because part of me hopes he will change his mind, but I fear I’m just going to be more hurt. Am I making a bad decision by continuing this.

I (24m) started speaking to a girl (26f) on discord a couple of months ago. We found out we live only a few hours away from eachother but I'm currently out of the country for a few months. I've grown to really like her but wonder if I'm stupid for having let myself? She seems really into me, we speak on the phone most nights and send pictures daily. I suffer from anxiety and often talk myself down from things/ feel that I'm not good enough. I guess I'm scared she isn't interested in me in the same way and I don't know how to gauge that. Submitted January 18, 2020 at 12:17AM I (24m) started speaking to a girl (26f) on discord a couple of months ago. We found out we live only a few hours away from eachother but I'm currently out of the country for a few months. I've grown to really like her but wonder if I'm stupid for having let myself? She seems really into me, we speak on the phone most nights and send pictures daily. I suffer from anxiet...

Last night this dude I have been talking to the past few months asked me to go out to eat. A little background info, we have been on dates before and we have hooked up. He even told me he wanted me to have his children. Well back to last night. HE asked ME to go get dinner and I said okay, and he told me he had to go home and change. I replied okay, but never got a text back. I snap chatted him a picture of me, which he opened and did not reply. Then today he messaged me as if he didn’t ditch me last night. I thought, maybe he fell asleep but I posted something on my Snapchat story and He read it. If he didn’t actually want to go out, then why ask? So basically I am confused as to why he would ask me out, not reply, and then act like it didn’t happen. Should I talk to him about, or just forget about him and move on from his crazy mixed signals? Submitted January 18, 2020 at 12:20AM Last night this dude I have been talking to the past few months asked me to go out to eat. A littl...

Why doesn’t my man like when I slap his ass? Like what’s up. He says “stop that’s gay” but how I’m a woman 😅 Submitted January 18, 2020 at 12:22AM Why doesn’t my man like when I slap his ass? Like what’s up. He says “stop that’s gay” but how I’m a woman 😅

I know you guys are probably sick of countless of these posts but I'm actually clueless rn haha I (18m) have been talking to 18f for some months now (daily texting and stuff for 2 months now) I really want to ask her out but I'm kinda worried she'll just see me as a friend. I know that this is pretty cowardly from me but I got that fear that she'll stop hanging out w me because I might make her uncomfortable by asking her out and that wouldn't help my depressed state of mind rn So basically I am really afraid of f*ing it up but I also don't want to mess with her feelings. I should tell her but I really don't know how Some context : We went to school together, are both from the same country and most of my friends have told me we would be a perfect fit Also recently she started sharing a lot of my interests (started listening to the same music, liking the same fashion brands etc) I wanna ask her in a casual way and not via text Thanks for any suggestions ...

My first serious relationship ended really badly and gave me some unhealthy perspective on relationships. Took me a long time to work through it all and get over it, but I still find my self apprehensive to "let myself go" years later. As amazing as love can be, it has the potential to be pure hell. I had a recent experience where I met a lady and we immediately hit it off well. She came over the next day and we hung out and talked. She revealed to me that she was married, but was about to leave her current husband for another man. She pretty much told me everything and it was our second time ever seeing each other. I think she really didn't have anyone to talk to as she was living a double/triple lifestyle and couldn't share it with her husband/husband to be. She didn't have any real friends. I got honeydicked into being her emotional crutch for a few hours. I was so flooded with weird emotions and dissonance to why she was so revealing. I thought we were goin...

Has anyone noticed sometimes women on dating websites will send you a message and then never reply to your reply? It happens to me constantly. Am I out of the loop on this one? Are these a shit load of bots on tinder, bumble and okstupid? Submitted January 18, 2020 at 12:04AM Has anyone noticed sometimes women on dating websites will send you a message and then never reply to your reply? It happens to me constantly. Am I out of the loop on this one? Are these a shit load of bots on tinder, bumble and okstupid?

Details i keep a bit vague due to privacy reasons There is this woman who i keep seeing every now and then. And she used to say hi. But now when i walk by her does not want to make eye contact. Last time she walked by and pulles up her shirt a bit. And she had a nice behind so i did walked up to her asap and she did look down not at me but however with a smile on her face. And this time i saw her she even had on this hot tight pants wich i never saw her in before. She looked great. But she seemed to be so unapproachable at the same time. Later that evening she did a few times walked close pass me to some other people. Im so bad at talking to woman when other people are around. (Maybe someone can help me help me overcome that). The only thing i can think of is asking whats she is up to that weekend not a whole lot. I know in the past i tried talking to her before one on one and she kept mentioning her bf. But that was months ago. Maybe things changed. How can i pursue her to ...

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