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How to deal with my bf's problems

I(22F) don't know what to do concerning things my boyfriend (24M) gets mad at. Many times, it does not make sense to me. One time, he accidentally got my car towed and I wasn't mad at him about it because he took responsibility and said he would pay for it. Then he made me scold him (even though I didn't want to) because he "deserved it." Another time, he got mad because I gave up too easily when he was trying to crack my back for school (OMM). Even when I try to explain to him that we could try again, he's mad at the act. Even with me trying to make things better (saying sorry & that he's right), it has escalated to him throwing me out or telling me to leave several times. I don't want to demean him but I can't help thinking that some of the things he's angered at don't matter (because we end up making up a few hours later) or he's overreacting. TLDR Bf gets mad at things I don't understand Submitted April 04, 2020 at 12:...

I (17m) struggle with my girlfriend(17)during quarantine

I(17) stuggle to keep a bond with my mostly girlfriend (17) due to the quarantine. So i live in France and there is a girl wich wich i am very close to everything before thé quarantine was going well. I think we talked to much to eachother, and used eachother as an escape for boredom and this lead to our bond weakening. One day she disapeared for a few days and when she came back she said she has no feelings and was stupid to think it would work . I was really confused because weeks earlier she still made plans for a common future. At that Time she would get really mad at me, and said she dissapeared for two days to show me and make me understand. We kinda talked a lot but it was more arguing because she clearly wasnt in her normal state. Despite her saying she had no feelings she wanted friendship with me wich she described as « same as before but without sexual stuff » wich to me was confusing because i felt like all those things where just extras and our intimacy was thé ...

Ladies, what should I (23M) include in a coupon booklet for my girlfriend (20F) of 1 yr?

I have lots planned already such as cute date ideas, fun activities to do together, massages, me doing/getting things for her (post sex snack, breakfast in bed, make the bed for a week etc). There are also a number of sexual ones such as quickie, long sesh, oral, strip tease, anal (we have already done this a few times but I think I'd be lucky if she redeems this one!), make a porno ( we have videoed stuff in the past but not too professionally if ygm), go shopping for a new toy. ​ My question is, what would you like your man to include in a coupon booklet. Sexual and non sexual. I am finding the sexual ones difficult to come up with since we have a very good sex life and normally if one of us wants something we don't need a coupon to get our way! ​ TL;DR What would you like to receive in a coupon booklet from your significant other Thanks Submitted April 04, 2020 at 12:07AM I have lots planned already such as cute date ideas, fun activities to do together, massages...

Uncomfortable / anxious around my father

Uncomfortable / anxious around my father I’m new to this, so I’m sorry for any formatting issues. For the past 4 years, my (20f) dad and i’s relationship has been extremely toxic. It started when I began to have political views vastly different than his and we began to argue every day. I tried to bring up other topics we could talk about, but it seems like whatever we talk about, he makes it about how I need to think differently. About a year ago, I borrowed his phone when he was not in the room and I saw a large amount of pictures of naked women sent in a chat with him and two friends. My dad has been married to my mom for 20+ years and though they argue all the time, I don’t think he would cheat on her. Ever since then, I’ve felt anger towards him that I can’t move past. When I come out of the bathroom and I’m just wearing a towel and I walk past him I feel vastly uncomfortable. When I mentioned to my mom out loud I wanted to buy another pair of high-waisted jeans, my dad said h...

I [17F] cut off a close toxic friend [17F] but she wonders if we're still friends and I'm not sure

So I've been friends with her since we've started middle school. We've been through a lot and I've helped her many times. She's a great person at heart, but she can be quite abuse, controlling, and rude. Though she did have problems of her own, she did not know any limits. It was because of this that I've questioned about cutting her off. During the summer before my junior year, I decided to cut her off after being unable to handle the negativity she brings. It had increasingly grown and I didn't know if I could help her anymore as it was affecting me. She didn't get the help she needed when we tried to and she wanted to. I felt really bad leaving her like that, but our friendship has grown toxic over the years. She knew what she was doing but didn't care. I helped her the best I could by providing comfort and advice. Like I said, she was controlling as well. My entire friendship with her before cutting her off consisted of her trying to do what s...

Why is MMF threesome so taboo? Especially around POC.

I’m(f20) an african female and I’ve had casual conversations about how it would be really interesting to have a threesome with two males and one female. And it seems guys just think it’s the worst thing a female can ever say and that females who want that are ones to stay away from. I just think it’s very annoying for the double standard because if it’s two straight women and one guy it’s seen as okay. Edit: POC= People of colour. Anyway can comment though, just wanted to outline how it is in my social circle (in which I’ve had this conversation) which are predominantly black. Edit: please stop sending me personal messages asking if I want to have a threesome with you. Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:11PM I’m(f20) an african female and I’ve had casual conversations about how it would be really interesting to have a threesome with two males and one female. And it seems guys just think it’s the worst thing a female can ever say and that females who want that are ones to stay awa...

A positive social shift regarding the sexiness of redheaded women!

I remember a decade or so ago when I was DEFINITELY in the minority, having a thing for redheads! They were the butt of every joke and everyone raised their eyebrows when I said how hot they were. Now it seems like the answer to every sexiness question is “Redheads! Redheads! Redheads!” As a straight male I can’t speculate on whether the perceived sexiness of redheaded men has changed over time. All I can say is, Viva la revolución! Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:13PM I remember a decade or so ago when I was DEFINITELY in the minority, having a thing for redheads! They were the butt of every joke and everyone raised their eyebrows when I said how hot they were.Now it seems like the answer to every sexiness question is “Redheads! Redheads! Redheads!”As a straight male I can’t speculate on whether the perceived sexiness of redheaded men has changed over time.All I can say is, Viva la revolución!

How do you combine Virtual Reality (Oculus) and sex in fun and kinky ways?

I want to give him head while he's watching or playing something in VR. Not porn, I would hate that, but something else. What would be a great idea in this space? If you have experience in this, what should I look out for and what are pitfalls to avoid? Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:13PM I want to give him head while he's watching or playing something in VR. Not porn, I would hate that, but something else. What would be a great idea in this space? If you have experience in this, what should I look out for and what are pitfalls to avoid?

Do you care for it or no?

Guys, do you really want/care whether women wear lingerie or the sexier bralet/panty sets for play time or do you really not give a shit one way or the other? Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:17PM Guys, do you really want/care whether women wear lingerie or the sexier bralet/panty sets for play time or do you really not give a shit one way or the other?

Girlfriend's finds clitoris stimulation painful and not pleasurable.

My girlfriend told me that she has never found clitoris stimulation to be pleasurable. She says that stroking the clitoris hard causes pain afterwards when peeing. She thinks her clitoris doesn't exist as she cannot feel pleasure from it. She hasn't had a clitoral orgasms. What are somethings that I can try to make her enjoy clitoral simulations. What are the different techniques so that her clitoris won't hurt and I can make her feel good? Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:17PM My girlfriend told me that she has never found clitoris stimulation to be pleasurable. She says that stroking the clitoris hard causes pain afterwards when peeing. She thinks her clitoris doesn't exist as she cannot feel pleasure from it. She hasn't had a clitoral orgasms.What are somethings that I can try to make her enjoy clitoral simulations. What are the different techniques so that her clitoris won't hurt and I can make her feel good?

Ladies, what should I include in a coupon booklet for my girlfriend of 1 yr?

I have lots planned already such as cute date ideas, fun activities to do together, massages, me doing/getting things for her (post sex snack, breakfast in bed, make the bed for a week etc). There are also a number of sexual ones such as quickie, long sesh, oral, strip tease, anal (we have already done this a few times but I think I'd be lucky if she redeems this one!), make a porno ( we have videoed stuff in the past but not too professionally if ygm), go shopping for a new toy. My question is, what would you like your man to include in a coupon booklet. Sexual and non sexual. I am finding the sexual ones difficult to come up with since we have a very good sex life and normally if one of us wants something we don't need a coupon to get our way! Thanks Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:22PM I have lots planned already such as cute date ideas, fun activities to do together, massages, me doing/getting things for her (post sex snack, breakfast in bed, make the bed for a week...

I need some feedback!! Window fun!!

my girlfriend and I have a window in our shower that faces the neighbors house and they always have thier windows open as do we. My girlfriend and I always have sex in the shower I press her boobs up against the window and it really turns us on thinking they might be watching us fuck in the shower! My question is here do you think they like watching us/ possibly join? They have never said anything so im curious if they think we are weird or they like it. Comment your thoughts and share your stories! Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:26PM my girlfriend and I have a window in our shower that faces the neighbors house and they always have thier windows open as do we. My girlfriend and I always have sex in the shower I press her boobs up against the window and it really turns us on thinking they might be watching us fuck in the shower! My question is here do you think they like watching us/ possibly join? They have never said anything so im curious if they think we are weird or they li...

⚠️ STATUTORY LAW IN NEW JERSEY?!?!?!!

Hi guys! I have a friend 18 (F) who is dating a boy who is 15. Their relationship isn’t all that weird to me because she’s so much shorter than him and he honestly looks and acts much older than his age. What I’m worried about though is the fact SHE is 18. I can tell they love each other but I don’t want the fact she is 18 to make her go to jail or something. 😟 I tried to look up the laws, but it’s so confusing! Is this even legal? I know she’s not using him for sex because they’ve been dating for 7 months and they’re always so happy together. I’m just worried about the law? It’s just so confusing. 16 is the age of consent, but it’s like “a four year age difference is okay” what Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:28PM Hi guys! I have a friend 18 (F) who is dating a boy who is 15. Their relationship isn’t all that weird to me because she’s so much shorter than him and he honestly looks and acts much older than his age.What I’m worried about though is the fact SHE is 18. I can t...

Is sexual tension always mutual?

I have a huge crush on this man whos 32, (10 years older than me.) I originally thought it was one sided, but the more I talk to him the more I pick up a sexual or odd vibe from him. Just like with any sexual tension, how any small touch or eye contact is almost electric. We share a lot of the same interests and laugh at the same stuff. He’s always laughing at my stupid jokes, and occasionally ill see him looking over at my area??? I swear his face is flushed a lot of the time that we are talking too. Sometimes when we have conversations, he looks deeply in my eyes and we will have a strong like 5-10 seconds of eye contact. At this point even looking at him turns me on. I can’t help but think about sexual thoughts when me and him are talking. Do you think hes picking up the same sexual energy or tension???? This has went on for 2-3 months and he hasnt gotten my number or asked to hangout etc. Does he not feel the sexual tension?? Any advice or thoughts? Submitted April 03, 2020 a...

Did you had to choose.

So while I was out I had a thought. If you had your choice between a 22 year old Absolute SMOKE or a 22 year old nerdy chick glasses and the whole shit but could be sneaky hot. Just a thought Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:35PM So while I was out I had a thought. If you had your choice between a 22 year old Absolute SMOKE or a 22 year old nerdy chick glasses and the whole shit but could be sneaky hot. Just a thought

Good positions and techniques for [F] fingering?

I’m working on getting more comfortable with having things inside me so I can one day take my boyfriend all in. I have a clit vibrator that I absolutely LOVE, only issue is I lay flat on my back to masturbate. I’ve found isn’t really ideal for fingering and typically makes my wrist hurt because I’m bending it down so far (but the fingering itself does feel nice). I’d like to know some good positions to where I can use my vibrator and my fingers, although I’m cool with good positions for just fingering as I’m getting used to that. Also any good techniques for g-spot stimulation? TIA! :) Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:41PM I’m working on getting more comfortable with having things inside me so I can one day take my boyfriend all in.I have a clit vibrator that I absolutely LOVE, only issue is I lay flat on my back to masturbate. I’ve found isn’t really ideal for fingering and typically makes my wrist hurt because I’m bending it down so far (but the fingering itself does feel nic...

virgin kink? Semi fwb help

Hi f 20 here I think I have a shy boy kink I never was like this before i am primarily a very submissive sexual partner. Only really once in a while do I get this aggressive dominant lewdness, but since I was dating (My ex that I still love that also is my best friend Which I have a dicey relationship but we're not Friends with benefits) I feel like ive developed a thing or a kink really for virgins. Like it turns me on that innocence and shyness. he has this modesty makes me just want to pounce on him. Hes sexy and manly but very virgin and shy. Whenever I look for porn I tend to focus on cute shy boys similar to him but its hard to find really. I don't know why but it turns me on so much. we've never had any actual sex just all the other works and the intimacy and shyness he had makes me geez, want him. Like a lot. but I want to preserve him at the same time because we're both conservative about that. Also we're in a shaky place of wanting to maybe restart the re...

Do I have a fear of sex?

I have a fear of being intimate with someone, and basically refuse to have casual sex, unless if I love the person, am I weird for being this way? Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:43PM I have a fear of being intimate with someone, and basically refuse to have casual sex, unless if I love the person, am I weird for being this way?

How can height affect the attractiveness of a man?

Do you consider 1.7m sexy for a male?We grew in a society where the ideal male should be above 1.8 so as soon as i realised that i will not grow any taller than 1.7 I started having doubts about my attractiveness considering my height.My close friends were also picking on me about my height so an insecurity was born.So my actual question is will the height of a man be a "barrier" for his attractiveness? Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:43PM Do you consider 1.7m sexy for a male?We grew in a society where the ideal male should be above 1.8 so as soon as i realised that i will not grow any taller than 1.7 I started having doubts about my attractiveness considering my height.My close friends were also picking on me about my height so an insecurity was born.So my actual question is will the height of a man be a "barrier" for his attractiveness?

Am I wrong to be bothered?

Hi everyone, the person I’m seeing won’t stop mentioning his past partners. In general he likes to talk so it could just be conversation material to him but it really bothers me and I have expressed my feelings on this matter before even to the point of covering his mouth to stop talking about them. It almost feels like its a compulsion he still needs to get out despite that though. What should I do? Should I put up with tales of his past females and grow thicker skin or should I remove him from my present? Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:54PM Hi everyone, the person I’m seeing won’t stop mentioning his past partners. In general he likes to talk so it could just be conversation material to him but it really bothers me and I have expressed my feelings on this matter before even to the point of covering his mouth to stop talking about them. It almost feels like its a compulsion he still needs to get out despite that though. What should I do? Should I put up with tales of his past f...

What does your preferred cuckhold session entail?

I am very curious what everyone's cuckold relationships involve before, during, and after sex. Do you ever prefer that the cuckold husband waits in the next room while the bull gets to enjoy the hotwife? Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:56PM I am very curious what everyone's cuckold relationships involve before, during, and after sex. Do you ever prefer that the cuckold husband waits in the next room while the bull gets to enjoy the hotwife?

White skin dark pussy

What is it called when specifically a white girl has a darker pussy or just what to search to see that Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:57PM What is it called when specifically a white girl has a darker pussy or just what to search to see that

Help! Met the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen in person, but she has genital herpes.

I hit it off with this woman, who is 21, a model, and literally the most beautiful blonde I’ve ever seen. I felt like a luck my little bastard! But come date #2 right before I was anout to enter her vagina, she tells me I should put a condom on, as she has genital herpes. I told her “I don’t care”, had sex anyway. Now it’s the day after, and I’m having regrets. Now that I think about it, she has all these pimples around her mouth, and now that I connect the zits, I’m thinking maybe those could be herpes sores as well??? Now she’s sprung, wants to come over again tonight. Now I have to make a decision. I absolutely love eating pussy. I love raw sex. If I pursue a relationship with her, she will probably end up giving me genital herpes, right? Also, could I get the genital herpes on my pretty face? tl;dr Met the most beautiful woman ever but she has genital herpes. I love eating out. Do I run? Submitted April 03, 2020 at 11:59PM I hit it off with this woman, who is 21, a mod...