After finally getting my crush's number we started texting and it felt like everything was going well. I even set up a date with her and she seemed very receptive to the idea of going out with me. Our date was set up for a little over a week from now because she is going out of town for some business. Regardless we have been texting for a little and in a conversation we were talking about college to which she brought up a question asking how old I am. I responded “20 but I’m about to turn 21 in a month” and then asked her the same question back. She hasn’t responded to the text and it has been 2 days. I saw her on the day of sending that text at the gym. I didn’t say anything to her simply because she looked really into her workout and I didn’t wanna bother her. A mutual friend of mine who knows her told me that she just turned 22 a couple months ago. I’m kinda confused on what had happened, I have never been rejected for my age specifically. Any pointers on how I should proceed ...

Bear May 06, 2022 at 11:50PM

Yes, I'm sure who ever did this made an honest mistake, I hope it's joke May 06, 2022 at 11:50PM

Ah yes, the age-old argument. I think part of the problem is that people tend to remember stuff that they don't like more than stuff they do. So, sex-repulsed asexuals are annoyed because feels like everyone all the time is always saying "aces can also have sex", but they kinda forget that a lot of ace content is more suited towards sex-repulsed and sex-neutral aces. On the same vein, sex-positive aces feel like, again, because a lot of the content isn't really suited for them, that people assume that asexuality is one thing rather than a spectrum, so they get annoyed when they have to keep explaining that. There's not really a good way to address this, and it's impossible to make everyone happy. You could make specific subs for sex-repulsed, sex-neutral, and sex-positive, but that would just divide the community even more. May 06, 2022 at 11:49PM

Oh it's a joke. May 06, 2022 at 11:49PM

You are normal for not particularly wanting to do that stuff! Don’t talk yourself into doing things you don’t want to do. There’s a difference between being intimidated by something and wanting to try it anyway, and feeling like you have to do something you don’t want to do. Also, doing something once NEVER means that you have to continue doing it if you didn’t like it. You ALWAYS have the right to not do something, no matter how many times you’ve done it before. May 06, 2022 at 11:48PM

Huh? May 06, 2022 at 11:48PM

Hello fellow ace hunters May 06, 2022 at 11:48PM