Hiya! Thanks so much for making these threads! It does feel like the most common misconception about aces (asexual = hates sex) tends to dominate this sub, and I sometimes feel weird posting my experiences because I don’t want to accidentally trigger any sex-repulsed folks. I would define myself at this point as a sex-favorable demi-romantic ace. Generally speaking, I find that I share more experiences with other aces - even sex-repulsed aces - than I do with allos. I’m currently married to my long-term allo partner and to be honest, the idea of dating terrifies me. I never had any interest in dating before I met my spouse, and I can’t even imagine navigating that scene. It’s very rare for me to develop romantic attraction and I don’t feel sexual attraction, so what else do I have to offer the unsuspecting allos out in the dating world? Nothing that they would understand and accept in a partner, that’s for sure. I might find someone I was romantically attracted to, but judging by my...