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/u/Lena_Vi on Tongue piercing = sex thing???what

Back when I was about 14 I wanted to get a tongue ring because I thought it looked cool and my older brother told me that people do that to provide “greater stimulation during oral sex” and I was traumatized and immediately abandoned the idea of ever getting one! January 30, 2021 at 12:04AM

/u/DementedMK on Gatekeeping :(

If you get to the point where you’re posting on r/trueunpopularopinion , it might just be time to delete your account. January 30, 2021 at 12:02AM

/u/moonyowl on I tried to draw asexuality as a person, thoughts?

The look like Sam Manson from Danny Phantom. In a good way! January 30, 2021 at 12:00AM

/u/lseactuary on I am aromatic? Now what?

Anyone? January 29, 2021 at 11:55PM

/u/JumpyLiving on Tongue piercing = sex thing???what

Wait, people put piercings in their tongues? January 29, 2021 at 11:55PM

/u/nkkl on I'm ace and I have feelings for my aroace friend, any advice?

For sure! Being vulnerable is scary! We believe in you. January 29, 2021 at 11:55PM

/u/BabyMagnum13 on Gatekeeping :(

So they're saying that lgbt community is inclusive to everyone but ace and straight people that's the literal definition of discrimination that said I'm already neutral on the whole community thing but it's nice to know that there are others like me and I'm not alone January 29, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/HelpfulBacchus on My asexual feelings

You can make any man keep his shirt on if you have a staple gun nearby January 29, 2021 at 11:50PM

/u/Solstice143 on Triple rainbow

Enby ace solidarity!!! January 29, 2021 at 11:50PM

/u/Emotional_Studio_898 on Gatekeeping :(

Go downvote January 29, 2021 at 11:49PM

/u/BlunderFishes on Weekly thread for sex favourable and indifferent aces, grey-asexual, demisexual, lo and ace-spec folks!

Hiya! Thanks so much for making these threads! It does feel like the most common misconception about aces (asexual = hates sex) tends to dominate this sub, and I sometimes feel weird posting my experiences because I don’t want to accidentally trigger any sex-repulsed folks. I would define myself at this point as a sex-favorable demi-romantic ace. Generally speaking, I find that I share more experiences with other aces - even sex-repulsed aces - than I do with allos. I’m currently married to my long-term allo partner and to be honest, the idea of dating terrifies me. I never had any interest in dating before I met my spouse, and I can’t even imagine navigating that scene. It’s very rare for me to develop romantic attraction and I don’t feel sexual attraction, so what else do I have to offer the unsuspecting allos out in the dating world? Nothing that they would understand and accept in a partner, that’s for sure. I might find someone I was romantically attracted to, but judging by my

/u/wanderlust_21 on Gatekeeping :(

It's still considered a mental illness actually. Asexual people regularly get prescibed medicine to treat their "low libido". January 29, 2021 at 11:49PM

/u/kiwi_sunrise on Hello everyone, I just discovered the meaning of asexuality...

:0 thank you. I think that I'm more in the sexual attraction January 29, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/3297JackofBlades on all men are pigs! (this was for sure funnier in my head)

Oink January 29, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/Trans_Girl_Alice on Telling potential partners can be kinda nerve-wracking (っ•﹏•) [OC]

I promise you not all of us allos are shallow pricks hugs January 29, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/localsamiright on Gatekeeping :(

If I had an award to give, I’d give it to this comment. I struggle with finding the right words in arguments; I’m definitely using this next time something like this comes up. Cheers! January 29, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/some_strange_circus on Tongue piercing = sex thing???what

Well geez. I've never heard of that before, but then again I don't have a tongue piercing. To me that just seems like such a weird association to make. January 29, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/NorskPrince on Gatekeeping :(

Wait wait wait I need to just Why tables ? What a random choice. Like, I get the whole pan = hahahaha you fuck pans/various other cookware """""joke"""" but January 29, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/me-is-person2671 on Some comments I found.

I want to stab something after that last one January 29, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/NorskPrince on Gatekeeping :(

Omg this, but less... Intense. I'm out as pan(romantic) and trans and my family are are also like "uh cool I guess", but I feel like if I came out as ace my family would DEFINITELY be like "that's not a thing sit tf down" January 29, 2021 at 11:36PM

/u/mightymite88 on Gatekeeping :(

Aces make up the largest percentage of people in conversion therapy camps and we are subjected to corrective rape like many other queer groups January 29, 2021 at 11:36PM

/u/some_strange_circus on Gatekeeping :(

You are literally discriminating against us right now you dumb idiot God, what is with people January 29, 2021 at 11:35PM

/u/NorskPrince on Gatekeeping :(

Both of these stories are painfully similar to my own and I'm sorry. January 29, 2021 at 11:34PM