I was seeing this guy since November & we had been texting non stop every day. We went on another date on Thursday & now he dumped me via text at 9pm on New Years Eve. I feel like shit. Why did he wait until now to tell me? He could have been honest on Friday instead of telling me that he enjoyed our last date as well. It just felt like a slap in the face. Great way to start the new year. Submitted January 01, 2023 at 01:15AM I was seeing this guy since November & we had been texting non stop every day. We went on another date on Thursday & now he dumped me via text at 9pm on New Years Eve. I feel like shit. Why did he wait until now to tell me? He could have been honest on Friday instead of telling me that he enjoyed our last date as well. It just felt like a slap in the face. Great way to start the new year.

As a straight guy I agree with this post a lot. I've always wished I was a sex-repulsed asexual. January 01, 2023 at 12:25AM

Dude im pretty sure you are on the wrong sub. January 01, 2023 at 12:24AM

I (19M) have been at uni since late September this year. When I got there, me and one of my 10 housemates (19F), call her M, seemed to hit it off nicely. We would play video games in the kitchen, sometimes just us late at night. We would lie side by side on the couch and do personality quizzes at the same time for fun (I'm an INFP, she's INTP, if that means anything). A month or so in she invited me to her room (not instigated by me) to watch her play games. Within the first few weeks she also talked to me a bit about how she finds in-person interaction difficult and how she is often emotionally detached from even people she cares about. About 2 weeks in we started watching Netflix on her laptop in her room (most nights a week). We'd watch for about an hour to three hours, depending how late it was. By this point I had realised I was interested in her romantically, and would (probably not as subtly as I thought) adjust myself so that our heads were close together. One tim...

to be fair i'm guilty of this. before i figured out i was ace i would think maybe if i lost weight and became really thin then someone would come along and love me and my life would be like all the other girs my age so i wouldn't be so behind and feel so out of place. this then developed into a full blown ed and even when i lost weight and was underweight my life was still the same. my weight was never the problem to begin with, no ones ever commented on it as ive always been a healthy weight. it's really sad looking back, i remember my reasons to lose weight being "get a boyfriend" "get invited to parties" "have loads of friends" "people finally being happy to see me" "not being seen as annoying anymore" etc etc but i think its all made sense now. ive never wanted to be in a relationship or have sex, i dont see the point and the whole friends thing, well i have social anxiety so thats my own problem i need to fix Dec...

It says I'm a sword ace. I do fencing, and own multiple historical swords. How does it know me so well? December 31, 2022 at 11:11PM