some days ago i was waiting in the bus stop and saw this girl across the street who i thought had a cool style, she was with some friends, then a few minutes later she and one friend came to the same bus stop i was, they were talking and were looking back at me, we made a lot of eye contact, after some minutes i stepped back because i thought it was weird to look at each other, i saw them looking for me and then they walked to another bus stop where busses were emptier, so i just waited for my bus for like 10 minutes and when i enter the bus they were there and i got nervous and choose to sit in the back. When i left the bus they left too and as i was walking to my home one of them came and asked for my number, i was literally shaking, but she didn't notice because it was cold, she saw my first name and said her second name was the same, then we walked the same way and she asked where my house was. while i was having lunch she texted me, basically asked me where i study, we laughe...

Depends where and how intense April 26, 2022 at 12:32AM

So I have been texting this guy for like a week now, we are “planning to meet” this weekend. But everytime we talk is like 8hrs+ 🥲, well atleast for him to reply back to me. I don’t want to sound desperate or anything, it’s just kinda frustating to be interested in someone… few days he just replied after one full day. And I totally understand that people have different style of texting and are busy in their daily life. He did apologize one time and we kinda flirted as well during the time we talk, so I don’t know should I continue the convo and meet up..? Thank you so much for reading!! Submitted April 26, 2022 at 12:07AM So I have been texting this guy for like a week now, we are “planning to meet” this weekend. But everytime we talk is like 8hrs+ 🥲, well atleast for him to reply back to me. I don’t want to sound desperate or anything, it’s just kinda frustating to be interested in someone… few days he just replied after one full day. And I totally understand that people have...

I (f/22) just started talking to a guy on hinge and he asked for my number first, which I appreciate, but I’m slow to give out my number nowadays until I know him better. Which is a better option social media wise to give a guy to keep the conversations going, Instagram or Snapchat? Submitted April 26, 2022 at 12:09AM I (f/22) just started talking to a guy on hinge and he asked for my number first, which I appreciate, but I’m slow to give out my number nowadays until I know him better. Which is a better option social media wise to give a guy to keep the conversations going, Instagram or Snapchat?

I am 21F and I just started dating my ace girlfriend. She has told me about how she experiences being ace and a lot of what she talks about makes a lot of sense to me. I have had sex with my other girlfriends but it never really felt right. I experience sexual attraction but when I am having sex all I want is for it to end. I haven’t had sex in 4 years because I never considered I might be grey ace. I still am not really sure if I am grey ace or if I just don’t enjoy sex. Do I count as grey ace? Is it something else? I really just feel like I don’t really fit anywhere. April 25, 2022 at 11:41PM

Feeling a bit alienated by common allosexual behaviour is something many asexuals experience, while I would assume that it's uncommon for allos. And yes, it appears that "I kinda want to bang the person I just saw for the first time" is a common allo experience. From what information you gave us, I do not believe your experiences with that guy could give you a fear from relationships so deep that it would explain the lack of crushes and attraction. I'd assume that even if a bad experience caused a kind of fear of relationships, it wouldn't change your ability to feel attraction. Meanwhile, the scenario, that you had a bad experience, because you didn't have the feelings nor knowledge to handle the situation due to not feeling the way others do, seems quite logical in my opinion. Masturbating and appeciating sexual content can be part of an asexual experience. Actually it's probably what many aegosexuals experience ( Glossary , if you need). Not every fo...