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Did I do the right thing?

So basically I (19M) was in a relationship with my ex now (17F) for 2 months and I broke it up and I want to know if I did the right thing. Basically me and her were really close for a while like 1/2 years but we never really said anything and I didn’t want to ruin what we had so we just kept doing whatever we had going on like we cuddled and everything but idk why I didn’t ask her out. And then we one day finally we accepted it to each other and then she had to move with her family to the USA (I’m in canada). And she moved so far from me and we were actually only in a relationship for a week. After she moved we talked on call for a while but then she got caught of being in a relationship (she wasn’t allowed to be in one) so then we couldn’t really talk and so we always only texted and even when we video called we only typed and it was just so fucking depressing to one point cause like I couldn’t ever talk to her and me being in my first year of uni looking at people together with t

/u/CaughttheDarkness on Seeing aces at pride feels like a needle in a haystack

Honestly? As an ace guy who didn’t realize until I was nearly 30? I think there’s a lot of us - especially men - who just…don’t even know what all asexuality entails. And even when you do know, it’s kind of hard to accept it about yourself for multiple reasons. June 27, 2022 at 11:35PM

/u/that_raphaela on People have told me that my thinking might be a little too harsh

If you don't moisturize , you might be a wrinkly raisin by 45. June 27, 2022 at 11:34PM

For the guys:

What would your opinion be on the following: you just started dating a girl 3 months ago. The first two months all was fine. Met up once per week, started a sexual relationship, went out on dates. On the days that you don’t meet you would ask to (video)call and play a game together (at least 3 times in a week). Then the girl goes on holiday, you start communicating less (instead of max 3 / 4 hours, almost 8+ hours). She comes back and is worried and you tell her you are sick and got COVID two weeks ago. Then two weeks go by and you don’t ask to call anymore or hang out (but you do mention you’re still sick, even if you did go out with friends one week ago). You still however keep texting. Sometimes on time, sometimes late. When the girl distances herself you start texting her more… What do you think happened here? Am I overthinking? Also, he added his “toxic” ex back on social media. The one he couldn’t stop talking negatively about during the first month of dating 🙄 Submitted J

/u/bigyoinkandatallcoin on People have told me that my thinking might be a little too harsh

yeah fr, this just sounds like someone being bitter lol June 27, 2022 at 11:34PM