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/u/parfait-parfait on Do you cuddle with your best friend?

My best friend and I are so cuddly we’re always snuggling under blankets me and him. I watch him play video game on his switch while I scroll through my phone. I have a lot of fond memories of this before I moved. (Will be visiting him in July though!!!!!) December 06, 2022 at 01:15AM

/u/parfait-parfait on does writing smut make me sexual?

Thank you! That makes sense December 06, 2022 at 01:14AM

Help me understand this situation

I had been dating this guy for around 3-4 months. Mainly pursued by him. I was not that interested to begin with but he really grinded and eventually won me over. About half way into dating his work gets super stressful and he was just not in a place to really date yet still tried to. I said to him I thought it was not the time for him but still he did not step back. Last week it all came to a blow because the quality of the time we were spending together was awful. We agreed to take some time to think about how to move forward. I have just seen him today, and instead of suggesting a plan of moving forward, a way to work through it together, or anything like that, he's just ended everything, saying it is not the right time nor will it be in the future. He said he needs time to work on his work and that will be ongoing for years. I am completely blindsided. I totally get it was not the right time but I was always willing to maybe come back to it in the future / have more room for g

She’s not in the right head space. But I care about her.

Me and this woman hit it off pretty well a month back. The flirting and vibes where great. Two weeks in we had a miscommunication to where we were supposed to meet up, I asked her on a Thursday if she would like to meet on a Saturday, but the next day she told me she could meet me tonight. That Friday night we were supposed to meet up at 11:00pm, but she didn’t show up and I thought she ghosted me, but then I went to friends house and got her messages on Snapchat. I was more confused than anything, but we stopped talking for a week and she hit me up again, we talked again and things where doing good again. So last week, we had naughty conversation over Snapchat- the next day we talked but she was being dry with me- then just left on read. I was busy for two days so I just let it be, I hit her up too see how she was and I asked her what she wanted to do here? Text exchange: She said “I’m not in the right headspace, to meet anyone at the minute” I replied “ that’s fair enough” He

/u/Training_Barber4543 on We need a name for "fully" asexual people

Np, that's exactly what I was thinking haha December 06, 2022 at 12:32AM

/u/AuntChelle11 on We need a name for "fully" asexual people

Sorry, I missed the others with this reply. I guess my post just confirms it's a regularly used term. December 06, 2022 at 12:31AM