ME TOO. I still think I might have small parts of asexuality but after realising I’m lesbian, I’m starting to come into myself a bit more and I’m a bit more comfortable with myself in this respect. I think I’m just a none-existent libido Lesbian 😂 October 28, 2021 at 12:36AM

Yes omg. I already am having a hard time being gay, let alone telling girls I’m also asexual so now I just don’t mention it October 28, 2021 at 12:33AM

anytime October 28, 2021 at 12:32AM

Thanks October 28, 2021 at 12:31AM

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TLDR i think intimacy (trust, closeness) is more sexually exciting than novelty, but i feel like an outlier in a dating culture that puts so much emphasis on the courtship phase, & little focus on building/sustaining a real bond. wondering if any folks feel similarly & can offer me insight or advice! to preface, i am a very sexual person, & my sexuality is an important part of my emotional & spiritual identity. i don’t necessarily identify as demisexual, because i do experience attraction to people i don’t know well, but the type of sex i want a lot of is very intimate & emotional. i want to feel like i am touching on something deep, real, & true within myself & another person when we’re f*cking. as additional context, i identify as socially monogamous, but i’m pretty ambivalent about sexual monogamy as long as i’m having lots of passionate sex with my primary partner, i feel like i can trust them, & i’m confident our relationship/bond takes precedenc...

Looking for advice on how to take really fucking hot nudes. I never have before but the guy I’m with asked me why I don’t, and honestly I just never wanted to send them and him be out in public and be taken back by it or just not expect it and react weirdly bc I just sent them randomly. He recently asked me why I don’t and I told him that. He’s okay with not getting them obviously but I want to do this for him to show him I’m thinking about him and want him, and also bc it seems fun. So any advice on how to send fantastic nudes would be great. We’re kinda long distant rn also so I love it when we build up the tension until we finally see each other. Also girls if something has worked for you in the past feel free to share. Submitted October 28, 2021 at 12:38AM Looking for advice on how to take really fucking hot nudes. I never have before but the guy I’m with asked me why I don’t, and honestly I just never wanted to send them and him be out in public and be taken back by it or j...

hi! first time posting on here— i’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months now. our sex life has been good so far, and this question will sound silly— but do men really care about breast size? honest answers. i know men have preferences of their own. my breasts are very small for my age, and the smallest size he’s had compared to his exes :( he still sucks on them occasionally, but i’m too scared to ask if he’s actually into it or if he feels forced to because i’m his girlfriend haha Submitted October 28, 2021 at 12:50AM hi! first time posting on here— i’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months now. our sex life has been good so far, and this question will sound silly— but do men really care about breast size? honest answers. i know men have preferences of their own. my breasts are very small for my age, and the smallest size he’s had compared to his exes :( he still sucks on them occasionally, but i’m too scared to ask if he’s actually into it or if he feels forced ...

Basically me and my fwb are trying to give each other an idea of what we like, so I’m looking for porn to show her. I guess what I’m looking for are those videos where it looks like the people forgot there was a camera because they couldn’t get enough of each other. If you want an idea of what I’m thinking look up “ricky jonson Emily willis” in pornhub. I want some more examples tho so if anyone knows any drop em in the comments. Submitted October 28, 2021 at 12:54AM Basically me and my fwb are trying to give each other an idea of what we like, so I’m looking for porn to show her. I guess what I’m looking for are those videos where it looks like the people forgot there was a camera because they couldn’t get enough of each other. If you want an idea of what I’m thinking look up “ricky jonson Emily willis” in pornhub. I want some more examples tho so if anyone knows any drop em in the comments.

After quite the dry spell was broken today, I remembered that it was really nice to be close and connected again. I also realized that I want to try being dominated. I (30f) have been with my bf (38m) for almost 5 years. We've been having communication issues lately, where he expects me to be VERY clear in what I am saying. I am already nervous about this, as I have never done this with anyone else, and I just want to say it and be sure he understands. I want the commanding, rough-type, yes sir stuff. Plus the aftercare. I don't know why I'm so nervous, please give me your tips. I guess because it's unlike me. Outside the bedroom, I am the dominant one. Submitted October 28, 2021 at 12:55AM After quite the dry spell was broken today, I remembered that it was really nice to be close and connected again. I also realized that I want to try being dominated.I (30f) have been with my bf (38m) for almost 5 years. We've been having communication issues lately, wher...

hey r/dating advice, i am coming here for some relief and advice. in summary, i had a rocky last few months with my ex. it turned out really toxic in the end on both sides and we were becoming resentful. when we were breaking up, he had told me we would “work it out” when i came back for school the next semester, but i ended up going virtual. he didn’t really check in on me. this was about 5/6 months ago. we would text every so often, and i think he admitted he was still in love with me. he’s been drunk texting me randomly as of recently late at night but mentions that he’s horny. i wouldn’t hear anything from him during the day, just at night. i texted him and told him i don’t think we should be in contact anymore because it’s not fair for him to text me like that. i’m also fearful as i don’t want him to reject me. i think we’ve both been working on being better people, and ultimately, i would want to be a better person to him and apologize for the past. is it worth reversing ...

So, a lot has happened since my last post. I don’t even know where to begin. Please refer to last post for context. This guy (23M) pursued me (24F) for the past eight months and we finally met in September. We went on several dates and we gradually clicked. I was very stand off ish at first, did not want to lead him on. We went on a road trip. We kissed. Passionately and a lot. He introduced me to his sibling. Came to see me every chance he could get. I started to truly appreciate and care for him. One weekend, he advised his parents would be away and I joked that we are moving to fast. He said nothing will happen. That weekend, we went to the movies. We truly enjoyed our time and finally decided to go to his place as it was late and I couldn’t get home alone. He told me he would drive me home. He took me to the apartment instead. The current was so strong between us and I could sense that something could happen. And before I could even realize, I was on him, he was under my Shirt a...

I’ve seen a few people here asking questions so I thought I’d type up a few things I learnt and answer some questions. Disclaimer: Everyone is different this is what I learnt from her, her friends and family. I was successful enough to marry her. Dated: 2 Ghanaians, 1 Nigerian, 1 Zim and 1 Zam Married: Ugandan Not sure ask? Ask. You don’t need to take everything as a red flag. For example she may have said she only has a brother but is talking about her sister now. Her family could of looked after her friend and she is like a sister. “Black Tax” - her term not mine. If your partner is an immigrant their often family sacrifices a lot to get them to this country she will support her family in term. Excitable When my partner wakes up to talk to her family or friends I wake up. I know her well enough I’ve turned it into a joke. It was good to hear you and wife yell at each other this morning, how’s life or something. Traditional My partner brought across a lot of her traditions wh...

I told a guy that I dont think things are working for me. He said he understands and that I can contact him if I change my mind. I feel regretful for saying that and I wish I waited until our first date to decide if things wouldn't work out. How should I text him to ask if we can try again? I feel horrible about myself. Submitted October 28, 2021 at 12:14AM I told a guy that I dont think things are working for me. He said he understands and that I can contact him if I change my mind. I feel regretful for saying that and I wish I waited until our first date to decide if things wouldn't work out. How should I text him to ask if we can try again? I feel horrible about myself.

I've been dating this girl for 6 days now. We had been friends for over a year & I asked her out last Thursday and she said yes. It's long distance dating, since we're in different states. So our primary source of communication has been Snapchat. [28 M and 22 F] I feel like my flirting suuuucks. Our dialogue today - ME - "By the way….. I tried something new today… [Sends pic of peanut butter & pickle sandwich. Something she told me she loves a couple months ago]. Pretty sure somebody recommended this to me not too long ago. 😉" HER - "OOOH YEAH!!!! Hehe yes sir! Isn’t it delicious??? You know what else is delicious??! ME - "It was pretty good! And what’s that?" HER - "I’m so glad you liked it haha pickles are so good. 🤤🤤 ME - "What else is delicious? 😮 HER - sends creepy Shrek filter selfie "Meeeee! This picture honestly made me scared of myself LOOOOL" ME : "Sweet Jesus lmaoooo" HER : "...

I just never understood the joke is all October 27, 2021 at 11:45PM

gahhahahhahahaha October 27, 2021 at 11:45PM

cose there's more of us then the Denmark army i think October 27, 2021 at 11:44PM

Quick question? Why are we invading Denmark October 27, 2021 at 11:42PM

Today in my work Slack everyone was bragging about the relationships & how long they’ve all lasted. I felt a bit left out. October 27, 2021 at 11:41PM