/u/MemorySerumTube on How my ex reacted. How did your ex (if you have one) take it?
If I thought someone was genuinely interested in having sex, and they pretended "well", then I later learned they would have preferred not to and only acted to be interested on my behalf (through no coercion or pressure of my own) I 100% would feel guilty for no logical reason and struggle with thoughts I somehow pressured them without knowing. Please ace or not, sexual attraction or not, never tolerate anyone pretending to enjoy sex it is not fair to that partner that was under the belief it was enthusiastic consent. That all being said, I totally understand having to feign consent and tolerate sexual activity I wasn't interested in due to coercion and guilt tripping. In that case, obviously someone is taking advantage of someone and it doesn't matter if I was ace or not I wasn't interested. I was commenting on the way the TikTok was worded, it didn't include the context of "I pretended for survival" like we did.. October 29, 2023 at 10:59