Well I have a girlfriend and we've been dating for a while and I want to "sleep" with her but neither of us have any experience and I have no idea of how to "propose" it. Any ideas? (Sorry for the bad English) Submitted October 09, 2019 at 12:06AM Well I have a girlfriend and we've been dating for a while and I want to "sleep" with her but neither of us have any experience and I have no idea of how to "propose" it. Any ideas?(Sorry for the bad English)

Hello guys and girls, this is my first post here but i need some advice. Im seeing a friend (f) of mine again after we didnt talk ect. to each other after 3 years. She suddenly textet me out of nowhere and we start meeting up. In the last week we met each other on 4 days and go to a bar an talk about anything. ( she is 40 minutes away by car) She says that she feels secure and comfy around me. I like her very much but i dont know if she likes me. I think i feel somthing coming from her but i dont know how to ask her/ make sure i dont imagining thinks. Sry for my bad english Eddit: im 24 shes 25 both of us only had one relationship Submitted October 09, 2019 at 12:13AM Hello guys and girls, this is my first post here but i need some advice. Im seeing a friend (f) of mine again after we didnt talk ect. to each other after 3 years. She suddenly textet me out of nowhere and we start meeting up. In the last week we met each other on 4 days and go to a bar an talk about anything. ( s...

Since I (35F) started dating in high school, past crushes and exes almost always try to come back into my life. The only one that hasn’t was my ex fiancé of 7 years that cheated on me so he knows I will never take him back. A lot of them didn’t like me back or one of us broke things off for whatever reason. Then within a couple months to a couple years, they always pop back into my life wanting to date again. Once I am over someone, especially someone that hurt me, there is really no going back for me. I am baffled that it happens so often. I can’t understand why they don’t value me until I am gone. Then they realize they had something really good and try to get me back. I realize the cliche of you don’t know what you have until it’s gone is very true but jeez...it seems to happen with every guy I date! I almost expect it now when things don’t work out and it never seems to fail. I feel this, along with other things, seals my fate as a spinster. Why?! Submitted October 08, 2019...

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This might be common sense to some of you, but long story short, I'm (38F) dating someone (37M) new (4 months) and we have a really great, active sex life. We occasionally send nude photos & gifs to one another when he's away for work. I've never been that sexual or interested in men's bodies, but this guy Does It for me. I'm finding myself incredibly turned on watching clips of him stroking himself, especially the two I have of him finishing. What I want is a full-length video of him (face included and sound on) jacking off. I want to see his hands, his face, his stomach muscles clenching, hear him groaning and saying "ah fuuuuck." The most either of us has sent until now are 10-second gifs (silent by nature). I sent him a couple photos yesterday morning and he sent me two back, one looking down toward his legs with his hard dick in his hand and one later of him from his thighs upward having finished on his stomach with a half-smile on his face. I...

I hear jokes all the time about how men ‘cant feel it’ when they’re wearing a rubber but to what extent is it true? I know men must feel it because they finish but how much less pleasurable is sex with one? Like if sex without a rubber is 10, what would you rate sex with a rubber? Submitted October 08, 2019 at 11:48PM I hear jokes all the time about how men ‘cant feel it’ when they’re wearing a rubber but to what extent is it true? I know men must feel it because they finish but how much less pleasurable is sex with one? Like if sex without a rubber is 10, what would you rate sex with a rubber?

How do you have sex?? Blind or?? Do you like to see the person’s facial reaction or is that just a bonus? Submitted October 08, 2019 at 11:49PM How do you have sex?? Blind or?? Do you like to see the person’s facial reaction or is that just a bonus?

(21F) who has slept with around 20 people. I know that it might be kind of high for someone barley in there 20s and I don’t know how I got to this point but here I am. I am scared that my future husband or boyfriend are going to be completely disheveled over this information and not find me desirable anymore. But I personally don’t necessarily see my high number as a bad thing. I’m clean, safe, and pretty quiet about it. If I dated a guy with a high number of partners it really wouldn’t bother me that much, it just means he’s that much better in bed. But, friends and societal standards make me feel disgusting for my high number at a young age and it really kinda messes with my head and self esteem sometimes. It almost feels like I have “whore” written with glow in the dark marker on my forehead. So I’m wondering do guys care or even want to know about past partners or just avoid that topic all together? Submitted October 08, 2019 at 11:50PM (21F) who has slept with around 20 pe...

When I go down on a woman, with most of them(especially if the room is dark) I can literally see little light bursts, kind of like mini explosions of energy and know when I have someone close to cumming. Like a build up or something. I believe it happens with my eyes closed as well. It gives me a really good idea of what pace to continue with to make sure my partner is satisfied. Then at the end there is a bigger burst of energy at the point of the orgasm. I got on this train of thought after having a woman stay the night yesterday and this is the first time I've had the idea to put this out there and verbalize it to others. Anyone else? Submitted October 08, 2019 at 11:51PM When I go down on a woman, with most of them(especially if the room is dark) I can literally see little light bursts, kind of like mini explosions of energy and know when I have someone close to cumming. Like a build up or something. I believe it happens with my eyes closed as well. It gives me a reall...

What do you guys think of this type of dirty talk "I love your big black dick". Basically any talk that mentions race or being prejudice. I'm not someone who gets put off anything easily but what do you think about the underlying message/what it says about a person or anyone who mentions race in that context. All I can think of is when I was seeing this girl 1 year ago and she was talking about how it's racist to fetish a certain race. Submitted October 08, 2019 at 11:54PM What do you guys think of this type of dirty talk "I love your big black dick". Basically any talk that mentions race or being prejudice.I'm not someone who gets put off anything easily but what do you think about the underlying message/what it says about a person or anyone who mentions race in that context.All I can think of is when I was seeing this girl 1 year ago and she was talking about how it's racist to fetish a certain race.

Just want to vent about this anonymously on Reddit... I (24f) am going through an abnormally long "dry spell". It has been nine whole months! I decided, after several years participating in regular casual sex, that I needed to stop for the sake of my mental health. While there's nothing inherently wrong with casual sex, for me, it became emotionally damaging and I was using it as a source of pure validation. But Christ, I'm horny. I long to be touched by another human (consensually, obviously). The next time I have sex, however, I'd really like it to be within the context of meaningful dating/heading towards a serious relationship. I've never had a real romantic relationship, but would like to experience one. In the meantime, yes, I have hands, and can use my imagination, or watch material online... but it's not the same. Submitted October 08, 2019 at 11:55PM Just want to vent about this anonymously on Reddit...I (24f) am going through an abnorm...

Hey guys first time posting on this sub! I’ve tried googling stuff on this issue but not really found any good advise on how to deal with this. Basically during sex I end up lasting around 50 minutes usually before my gf has to stop us because she’s getting too tired. Sometimes tbf I do finish. A lot of the time it’s when she’s on top and her tits are in my face so I get super turned on by that. I feel like the main problem might be that my dick isn’t too sensitive so during sex I’m not fighting off an orgasm or anything like that a lot of the time. Basically I was looking for advice on how to fix this issue? Like if there’s a way to make my dick more sensitive to sex and/ or if there are ways to last less time? I’m kind of terrified about my gf thinking it’s about her and her thinking I’m possibly not finding her attractive enough because that couldn’t be farther from the truth. Thanks guys any help would be really appreciated! Submitted October 08, 2019 at 11:59PM Hey guys fir...

I remember in college hearing from friends that they liked to peek into roommates in the dorms hooking up with a guy and maybe think about it later why masturbating. Lately it seems that a ton of erotica I read involves a moment where the main character watches others hook up and has no reservations about masturbating to it. This morning a close friend of mine mentioned that she'd rather watch two people hook up than just watch a man dance around naked at a strip club. Is this a fantasy that a lot of women have/enjoy or are writers getting repetitive with this? Submitted October 09, 2019 at 12:02AM I remember in college hearing from friends that they liked to peek into roommates in the dorms hooking up with a guy and maybe think about it later why masturbating.Lately it seems that a ton of erotica I read involves a moment where the main character watches others hook up and has no reservations about masturbating to it.This morning a close friend of mine mentioned that she...

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Yeah my father was very homophobic, and by that i mean all different communities. After my first girlfreind stated she was bi he never let her in the house again. So if i hadnt already gotten disowned i would be now that i have found out im ace. I cant say it gets easier, but if you have a pretty good relationship with him and he is understanding and an actual good parent, hopefully it wont last forever and he will just accept you. October 09, 2019 at 12:09AM

I can relate to this so much. I was molested and I don’t find sex appealing at all, I’m actually sex repulsed. But I would go through sex if that meant having a child, which do want to have some day. To me it’s a cursed transaction that brings blessings. October 09, 2019 at 12:07AM

Thank you for the response. It's very hard to get feedback/thoughts like that from my friends because they don't understand it (or how harmful it has been) & their only frame of reference is their own experience & society's expectations. October 09, 2019 at 12:05AM

Thank you for sharing that, that helps me to think about for myself! October 09, 2019 at 12:04AM

Pretty good October 09, 2019 at 12:02AM

Only for girls, for guys it's pathetic and can be used as an insult. (From what I've observed) Also, gender is stupid October 09, 2019 at 12:02AM

Good for you! Glad you were able to lend a hand in someone’s time of need October 09, 2019 at 12:01AM

You are not alone. This is me in my group of friends. A couple of them will debate who has the hotter girlfriend and I’m just like ....? October 09, 2019 at 12:00AM

Hey everyone, I’m currently trying to find out how one could make the lives of men a lot easier ;) Which is why I have two very simple questions: As single men, what are the 2 biggest issues you’re dealing with? Regarding dating, what would you wish for more than anything else? Thanks so much in advance - looking forward to reading your answers! Submitted October 08, 2019 at 11:42PM Hey everyone, I’m currently trying to find out how one could make the lives of men a lot easier ;)Which is why I have two very simple questions:As single men, what are the 2 biggest issues you’re dealing with?Regarding dating, what would you wish for more than anything else?Thanks so much in advance - looking forward to reading your answers!