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/u/JenRos on Me (also happy pride month🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈💚💜)

Me when everyone tells me there are plenty of fish in the sea. June 02, 2020 at 12:01AM

/u/willgracefan on Happy pride month y’all :3

Love your shirt. Happy Pride June 02, 2020 at 12:00AM

/u/AceEngineer on Do you normally experience aesthetic attraction equally strong towards men and women?

Yeah, aesthetically, I find women tend to be significantly more attractive on average, but there are some men who are as attractive as women I find very attractive. Idk of that really answers the question, or is even coherent but yeah June 01, 2020 at 11:58PM

/u/ennenis on Do you normally experience aesthetic attraction equally strong towards men and women?

I have a strong preference for feminine appearances, so my aesthetic attraction is mainly towards women. June 01, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/Aggressive-Scarf on Happy pride! :) (they’re roommates)

The ace one is giving me serious welcome to nightvale vibes with her shirt and I’m living for it. June 01, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/JenRos on Heteroromantic aces, I just want you all to know that you are valid members of the LGBT+ community.

Heteroromantic aces are valid!! Any time I see someone being harmful to heteroromantic aces or asexuals in general I just remind them of how lesbians get trashed on for not being sexually attracted to men, gay men get trashed on for not being sexually attracted to women, bisexuals get trashed on by telling them 'they can't make up their minds', 'they're just gays who haven't come out of the closet' or 'they're straight people looking for attention'. Asexuals get harassed by both sides for not feeling little to no sexual attraction to anyone . Heteroromantic and aromantic aces especially because they're 'not gay' and it needs to stop. Heteroromantic and aromantic aces get bullied, harassed, and assaulted from both sides of the spectrum just as much as the rest of the asexual community does. LGBT+ is supposed to be an open, accepting, and safe space. Not an exclusive club. June 01, 2020 at 11:54PM

/u/ennyxy on I need help in clearing this up...

Thanks 💕 June 01, 2020 at 11:53PM

/u/fleshybread on What MBTI type are you?

A good baseline number for something like this would be 100 responses, but it's tough to get a bunch of them. I wish I had somewhere to boost this but I'm not a part of any other communities. Good luck! June 01, 2020 at 11:52PM

/u/fleshybread on I need help in clearing this up...

This is exactly the experience I've had, although I'm in America so the culture is probably a little different. I'm 19 and the few "crushes" I've had in the past were just me pretending to like the same person everyone else did. I identify as aroace, but ultimately it's up to you how you feel comfortable identifying. Good luck, I know dealing with family questions is always tough. Chin up! <3 June 01, 2020 at 11:51PM

/u/fleshybread on I need help in clearing this up...

This is exactly the experience I've had, although I'm in America so the culture is probably a little different. I'm 19 and the few "crushes" I've had in the past were just me pretending to like the same person everyone else did. I identify as aroace, but ultimately it's up to you how you feel comfortable identifying. Good luck, I know dealing with family questions is always tough. Chin up! <3 June 01, 2020 at 11:50PM

/u/Alice_Westfeild on What MBTI type are you?

Probably a few days. I’m not really sure but I want to get as many results as possible. Do you have any recommendations? I’ve never done something like this before. June 01, 2020 at 11:50PM

/u/PM_me_dunsparce on My Sister and I Are Both Asexual, So We Live Like a Couple

Ugh that sounds awful :/ I'm sorry they're making it your problem June 01, 2020 at 11:47PM

/u/DEMON212 on My mam wants to out me, not sure how I feel. Thoughts?

I get that, a lot. Why I'm fearful is I've even been told by other ACE's that some members of the LGBTQ dislike us so I'm now even fearful of people I thought were allies. Which breaks my heart as I've had so many come out to me as they knew I was different too so I'd get it. Which is why I've explained this and said this alone is fine but I am never to be used as an example. Even if it's in good intentions of helping someone who is bi, trans etc...To feel better talking to them at work. Not without my permission. I said "at no point do I wish to hear that you has been saying "oh, it's OK my son is ARO ACE" for that will upset me". I have mainly said ok because at least to me this is her showing me she accepts me for what and who I am, I'd rather she want to share the news than ask me to tell no one. June 01, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/fleshybread on What MBTI type are you?

This is really interesting as a study. How long are you gonna go before posting the results? Very curious, good job! June 01, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/onetrickponySona on Headcanon that one of my favorite video game characters is ace

Miles Edgeworth. June 01, 2020 at 11:45PM

/u/sillyme22 on Happy pride! :) (they’re roommates)

Hahahahaha and they were roommates! June 01, 2020 at 11:42PM

/u/SoggieWafflz on 6am here and rushed a drawing for Pride Month 💖🏳️‍🌈

Do you have any commission pages? Your art is so irresistibly adorable that my wallet cannot resist! June 01, 2020 at 11:41PM

/u/LeSteff1927 on Is anyone else asexual, but doesn't feel connected to the "asexual experience"?

I can relate to a lot of your experiences but at the same time my views differ from yours. My sexuality is not my personality - people who treat it like that often tend to be shallow. But it's still a part of my personality. I don't know if I would go to a pride parade since what you said about the LGTBQ+ community is true but there also are a lot of genuine and inclusive people. I guess the exclusionists are just a really loud minority. June 01, 2020 at 11:37PM

/u/snooterboop on Does this piss anyone else off?

I don’t know, the lesbian flag, for example, is so often forgotten and it can be disheartening and upsetting when the L is literally the first letter in the acronym yet people can’t bother to include it. I’m not saying that every graphic needs to have every single flag, but I do think people have a right to be upset about their flag not being included. We disagree, that’s ok. June 01, 2020 at 11:36PM

/u/jello-_-fish on My first day of pride month out as ace went a little like this...

ah some people are just stupid June 01, 2020 at 11:35PM

The wonderful people you meet on Reddit.

https://ift.tt/36PzGRc Submitted June 01, 2020 at 11:42PM https://ift.tt/36PzGRc

I know someone who dated a guy who was shorter than her for a solid year. My longest relationship wasn’t much taller than me. One of my friends has dated guys of all heights. You don’t need to be 5’10” or taller to get a girl.

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He kept going on about all the selfish "females" in his life smh

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