I (30F) use a few different avenues for dating, including niche sites (reddit, fetlife etc) where face pics aren’t always shared up front. Usually face pics are shared after a bit of chatting (though I share mine early). I’m finding often, though we “click” I’m just fundamentally not attracted to them after the face pic is swapped; but I feel like an asshole just cutting it there. How do I approach this without being an ass? Submitted August 30, 2022 at 12:05AM I (30F) use a few different avenues for dating, including niche sites (reddit, fetlife etc) where face pics aren’t always shared up front.Usually face pics are shared after a bit of chatting (though I share mine early).I’m finding often, though we “click” I’m just fundamentally not attracted to them after the face pic is swapped; but I feel like an asshole just cutting it there. How do I approach this without being an ass?

First of all, I just wanted to say I've started dating only a few months ago so I'm not exactly an expert when it comes to this subject lmao So basically there's this girl I like and who comes off as quite shy (just like me), who accepted going on a second date with me next week. On our first date I invited her to an outdoor picnic and we ate and talked for around 2 and half hours. I felt really nervous at first but it got better eventually. Now for a second date I proposed that we could go watch a movie. I know it's not an ideal choice for a second date, but I thought we already talked a lot on our first date and as we both are rather introverted, I thought she would also prefer something which involves less talking. Just my opinion though. And my question is: Is there a way to still turn this into a somewhat intimate encounter taking in consideration that we would probably just stare at a screen for like, 2 hours? I'm not talking about doing anything that woul...

Yeah totally.. and probably even more fun, there are no spoilers haha August 29, 2022 at 11:33PM

Actually a lot of sex repulse aces can relate to this curiosity, myself included. My asexuality heavily influences my thoughts have one day having kids, and since I do not like to have sex adoption is a very real possibility. I think you’re reading into this too much, it’s just to see if there are like minded aces and to see if any of them have similar thoughts to OP. No one’s bashing bio kids or adopted kids August 29, 2022 at 11:33PM

This whole thread just made me realize I really am an Ace, so thanks for that! Also, welcome back? August 29, 2022 at 11:28PM

Smh August 29, 2022 at 11:26PM

How down bad does someone have to be to say shit like that? August 29, 2022 at 11:25PM