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/u/capricious_sol on Got called “homophobic” by a cisgay white guy for posting this

Yeah kinda, it's just libido that tends to throw me off sometimes. But thank you for the explanation! It was greatly appreciated<3 May 26, 2022 at 12:18AM

Conversations never seem to get off the ground?

I've been using tinder and bumble recently, I've been able to get matches with people but feel like our conversations end super fast. I'm a guy trying to meet women so I get that it's expected I text first which I have been doing. I'll usually ask a question based off their profile or if they don't really fill their bio a picture or just a simple "hi! how has your day been going?" I'll usually get one or two replies then it's silence from then on out. I have just been trying to talk to them like an actual human instead of going for a cheesy pickup line or something like that. Being totally honest I don't really feel comfortable doing stuff like that and maybe just don't know how to flirt? How do you as a man matching with women keep a conversation flowing? Submitted May 25, 2022 at 11:46PM I've been using tinder and bumble recently, I've been able to get matches with people but feel like our conversations end super fast.

How can you tell a guy is very confident?

Whaat are ssome signs a guy is super confident! Submitted May 25, 2022 at 11:47PM Whaat are ssome signs a guy is super confident!

Does it mean?

What does it mean when a girl gives you hugs like she does to her girl/guy friends but she gives long tigger hugs? She does this to me and to very few people. Me and her met at a volunteer event at school and I think we like each other Submitted May 25, 2022 at 11:54PM What does it mean when a girl gives you hugs like she does to her girl/guy friends but she gives long tigger hugs? She does this to me and to very few people. Me and her met at a volunteer event at school and I think we like each other

Sign of Ghosting

This girl and I matched on Hinge and everything conversation wise was going very good and she wanted to meet up and after I mentioned I was not religious she mentioned that it's important to her and it defines her and she doesn't impose it on anybody and nothing to worry about as well as she has friends and people she knows around the word who aren't religious. The last three message after that she only replied by saying "liked or loved followed by copying and pasted what I said." I don't know if this is a sign of ghosting me or what is going on now, thoughts? Submitted May 26, 2022 at 12:00AM This girl and I matched on Hinge and everything conversation wise was going very good and she wanted to meet up and after I mentioned I was not religious she mentioned that it's important to her and it defines her and she doesn't impose it on anybody and nothing to worry about as well as she has friends and people she knows around the word who aren't

Would be appropriate to ask out customers?

I work at a retail job and that’s pretty much all I do. I have nothing else going on with my life. Would it be appropriate to ask out girls at work? I honestly don’t know where else to meet women. I have no luck in online dating. Submitted May 26, 2022 at 12:03AM I work at a retail job and that’s pretty much all I do. I have nothing else going on with my life. Would it be appropriate to ask out girls at work? I honestly don’t know where else to meet women. I have no luck in online dating.

At what point do I have a conversation about how difficult my lifestyle is with someone I’m dating

Hey guys! I seek advice on when to have a conversation about how shity my lifestyle is for being with someone. I have been dating a girl for some time now, and I know what I want. I can’t say that we will end up together just yet, we still need time but I just realised that there is something she doesn’t realise about me. Long story short, for at least next 10 years I’ll have to move around the world multiple times, I won’t be able to settle down and although we are not yet official, I started to feel like she deserves to know before investing more into us emotionally. When do You think is a good time to have that conversation? I just feel like she has to know and understand before going any further Submitted May 26, 2022 at 12:10AM Hey guys! I seek advice on when to have a conversation about how shity my lifestyle is for being with someone. I have been dating a girl for some time now, and I know what I want. I can’t say that we will end up together just yet, we still need time

How many dates would you recommend/give before you stop?

Talking exclusively about dates where you're not entirely sure how to feel about it at the end. Like the girl/guy is decently attractive to you, maybe a little boring, a little bit of a challenge to get the conversation flowing, but is not overall toxic. Would you give it another 1-2 dates to see how it unfolds? Or would you trust your gut and stop after the first date? Submitted May 26, 2022 at 12:14AM Talking exclusively about dates where you're not entirely sure how to feel about it at the end.Like the girl/guy is decently attractive to you, maybe a little boring, a little bit of a challenge to get the conversation flowing, but is not overall toxic.Would you give it another 1-2 dates to see how it unfolds? Or would you trust your gut and stop after the first date?