Any ring that you like that is black (or predominantly black) qualifies as an ace ring! It should fit your personal style. There are no wrong answers! The classic is an entirely black band worn on your middle finger. I have a thin steel ring that is dark grey and I wear it on my thumb. That’s my ace ring lol. I bought mine on Etsy! November 16, 2019 at 11:59PM

I'm 18M and I work in IT for my local council, and I met this girl who I found really attractive when I was in another building upgrading their monitors. I had to go back again the next day and I spoke to her again for about 10 minutes and I felt like I got some good vibes from her, like she might have found me attractive as well. However I have slight Asperger's and in the past I've misread situations like this so I'm anxious about whether I was reading it right or not, but I have become a lot less socially oblivious since then. Where I live there's not many places you can meet girls and she is one of the most attractive people I've seen for a while that I feel like I could have a chance with. Basically I'll be heading to her office for one last time on Monday and I was thinking about asking her if she wanted to go to lunch some time so I could get to know her better. I thought lunch would be best because it's just for a short time but we would get to...

So I’m (14m) I know this girl I texted her in December of last year and the way i got to know her was through replying to her insta storie and she responded ig and ever since then we have texted everyday and in june we were kinda flirting and she was like ily ik u love me just say it and right there and then I said it i was like I really love you and I said ik your joking tho cuz she makes these kind of jokes and she said ur right and she was like so you love me and j told her yes very much and she told me we are young we don’t know what love is and i told her your right and she told me I’m not refusing you I’m just saying if u rlly mean it than in the future when we grow older we might date and if that happens i want u to pull me close and kiss me for all that time i let you wait Now the problem is I’m afraid she might meet someone else in the time we still friends I’m rlly worried idk she has never loved anyone she says and it’s hard for her to love someone and She says it puts pre...

Any tips/advice? Submitted November 16, 2019 at 11:37PM Any tips/advice?

For the past month or so I (16M) have been talking to this girl (17F). We talked a lot and were having good conversations. I didn’t really make a move until recently because A) I wanna nervous and doubted myself and B) I don’t have much experience and didn’t know what to say. Anyway, this week was her birthday and she was going out for dinner. She sent me a picture of what she was wearing and I said she looked nice. She responded with a thanks, but ever since then she hasn’t talked as much and she’s ghosted me for the last 24 hrs (even posting things on her story but not talking to me). What does mean and what can I do to fix it? Submitted November 16, 2019 at 11:38PM For the past month or so I (16M) have been talking to this girl (17F). We talked a lot and were having good conversations. I didn’t really make a move until recently because A) I wanna nervous and doubted myself and B) I don’t have much experience and didn’t know what to say. Anyway, this week was her birthday and ...

I was seeing this guy for 6 months kind of on and off before he broke it off. We were really good friends in the time we weren’t dating as well and I miss him a lot. We don’t speak anymore because he ended things really badly and hurt me a lot. I’ve been speaking to other boys etc and been offered dates but none I want to go on because I still think about him. I still feel like crap all the time and think of him everyday. Is there a point in reaching out? I know he’s probably not changed his mind about being together but in the back of my head I always think what if. And I really do want to be friends but don’t know if now is the time for that. I don’t know if this is just in my head because for nearly the whole time we knew each other we were meant to spend yesterday together to play the new Pokemon game (nerdy I know) and I can’t help thinking if it even crossed his mind. We had this plan for 6 months even in the time we decided to be friends before and it really upset me we were...

I’m writing this while my mac n’ cheese w/ sliced hotdogs is cooking. M(32). I’ve been selling some furniture online. On Thursday, I sold a nice pair of chairs to a middle-aged woman. She came by my house to pick them up. Very nice, but she seemed a bit odd and I didn’t know why. I showed her the chairs and she did a quick inspection. We talked during this entire exchange. Toward the end we casually discussed a few life things. It had grown a bit more odd, not in a bad way, just unusual. It felt like she was reading me or studying me. But she paid for the chairs, we smiled and shook hands, and then she was on her way. ... Not more than a half hour later, I received a message from her thanking me and asking me if, as long as I’m not seeing anyone, I’d be open to a blind date. Pleasant surprise. I definitely wasn’t expecting that. I thought maybe SHE was interested in me or maybe she was about to sell me Amway or something. But I asked some basic questions and got some honest ...

Here it goes... I (M17) really like this girl (F18) from my high school. We both had marching band together this year. We grew close during the time we spent there. One day at school we were walking and our hands brushed and neither of us pulled back so we ended up holding pinkies down the hallway. We did that everyday for a couple of weeks but then it stopped. That was part of what pushed me to tell her that I like her (I didn’t want what we had to end). Marching band was about to end and we never hung out outside of band and school so I figured it was now or never and I told her. With her being one year ahead of me she told me that she didn’t want to peruse a relationship because she would be leaving for college. (Little backstory) about a year ago she dated someone that went away to college and dumped her. She told me that she didn’t want to “put me in an unfair situation” I don’t know what to do. All I know is that I really want to be with her. I want to go to the store with her i...

So this guy who i was kinda on the fence about had been telling me he likes me for like a month and last week he kissed me (we were both drunk) and maybe it was not the best kiss i kinda forget because i was drunk but since then he has not texted me and when i asked if he wanted to get dinner he just said “yeah” which is the worst response ever and then we didn’t get dinner and did i fuck up???? i really like him which i realize NOW THAT HE WONT TALK TO ME i’m going crazy i need to chill first of all but ya so i guess what i’m asking is could a kiss be so bad that someone never wants to talk to you/ loses all interest ???? Submitted November 16, 2019 at 11:44PM So this guy who i was kinda on the fence about had been telling me he likes me for like a month and last week he kissed me (we were both drunk) and maybe it was not the best kiss i kinda forget because i was drunk but since then he has not texted me and when i asked if he wanted to get dinner he just said “yeah” which is ...

I (25M) met a girl (24 f) about 3 ish months ago and we kicked it off pretty great. For probably a month and a half I would see her every week multiple times a week sometimes. Had probably one of the strongest good vibes I've had with someone for a while. Anyways over the last 3 weeks or so we've had busier schedules and I haven't really been able to see her as much as I had previously. The weekend before she just got back from being out of town, and wanted to see if I was free on a night I worked. She seemed very eager to see me. Fast forward to last weekend we met up for some beers but it didn't turn into sex that night since she said she was going to be busy the next morning.. Then last night we met up again after talking about it last weekend so we could perhaps meet up for a funner night. Anyways we met up for drinks and then we seemingly had really good chemistry on this date going, but towards the end, she went to the bathroom for a bit and then came out and we ...

Last night my boyfriend (m21) and I (f21) broke up after I found out that he had been talking to another girl for the past few weeks on tinder and had plans to meet up with her later this weekend and hook up. I feel devastated and lost and nauseous. He was my first real love and I've never been through a real break up before. Literally 72hours ago he was telling me how much he loved me and then last night I found out it was all kinda bullshit to him, and he really was never as invested as I was. Does anyone have any advice or tips on how to make it suck less? Especially because we share a lot of friends and I don't know how this is gonna impact our relationships, I don't want to lose them too. I feel like I have whiplash. Submitted November 16, 2019 at 11:46PM Last night my boyfriend (m21) and I (f21) broke up after I found out that he had been talking to another girl for the past few weeks on tinder and had plans to meet up with her later this weekend and hook up. I...

I’m (18m) currently in a new long distance relationship with my gf (20f), and can only see her during my breaks. This is also the first relationship either of us have been in, so this whole dating game is new to me. I’m having trouble coming up with date ideas, even though I live in a big city (which is where we meet). One of my problems is that we’re both broke college students, and can’t spend that much money. Also, neither of us have a car or our own place, so hanging out at each other’s place is out of the question. Any advice on what to do? Submitted November 16, 2019 at 11:46PM I’m (18m) currently in a new long distance relationship with my gf (20f), and can only see her during my breaks. This is also the first relationship either of us have been in, so this whole dating game is new to me. I’m having trouble coming up with date ideas, even though I live in a big city (which is where we meet). One of my problems is that we’re both broke college students, and can’t spend tha...

I was in a relationship for the last 4 years. This was my first and only experience with dating someone else. To say the least I’m pretty lost right now as I’ve got no idea on how to approach other girls ans I imagine it isn’t like high school anymore. So I just started med school and there is that girl that I find very attractive and I would like to know her better. The thing is I’ve obviously never talked to her and the only classes we share right now are with 350 other students. Which makes it almost impossible to sit besides her or start a conversation. Furthermore It would be pretty awkward to get rejected and having to see her for the next 4 years. So I’m just kind of torn on how to best approach her and if it’s worth the possible awkwardness... Submitted November 16, 2019 at 11:50PM I was in a relationship for the last 4 years. This was my first and only experience with dating someone else. To say the least I’m pretty lost right now as I’ve got no idea on how to approach ...

I obsess about it over and over again. It drives me coo coo. Submitted November 16, 2019 at 11:53PM I obsess about it over and over again. It drives me coo coo.

So my ex (32F) broke things off with me (38M) a few months ago saying she "needed space." We still hung out a few times a week, still had sex, we just weren't in a relationship. A few days ago, she said she thinks we should start dating other people but wants to stay friends. I told her I don't want that. Then she hit me with "so if we aren't sleeping together then you want nothing to do with me?" and I don't really know how to respond to that. We get along really well, but I want more and don't want to feel like a back-up plan while she dates other guys. She thinks I should accept that we aren't getting back together and let those feelings go so we can be buddies, but I don't want to and don't know how to justify it. I mean, she's basically right, but the way she words it makes me feel like a jerk. Thoughts? Submitted November 16, 2019 at 11:53PM So my ex (32F) broke things off with me (38M) a few months ago saying she ...

I’m (20F) honestly a bit confused right now I’ve been seeing this guy (20M) and he reposted this video about relationships but now I’m just confused, what’s he mean? Does he want to be single? Also that video kind of makes no sense.. Video Submitted November 16, 2019 at 11:55PM I’m (20F) honestly a bit confused right now I’ve been seeing this guy (20M) and he reposted this video about relationships but now I’m just confused, what’s he mean? Does he want to be single? Also that video kind of makes no sense..Video

I am exclusive with this girl. I learned recently that she is still hurting for her ex of 4 months who moved away in August and that she wanted to do a long distance relationship but he didn't. She and her ex both knew that the relationship would end in a few months as he had a job offer in another country. She originally got over him in a month but last week received a phone call from him regarding his ex's father. The girl wants to be in a relationship with me but had second doubts when the EX's father died and she was invited to the funeral and attended today. She is very conflicted and says she doesn't know if I am a backup or the first choice. I believe her but at the same time I know that I could potentially be the "safe" second choice at home since she might be lying to herself. Is it worth it to be someone's second choice? Can a second choice ever be a first? They were only together for four months and he is forever gone in another country. Thi...

I [20M] am going on a brunch date tomorrow with this girl [20F] that I have been seeing for about 3 weeks now. Its been a super busy midterm season for the both of us so this is only our 3rd real date but we've studied together a couple of times. Wondering if I should ask her what she is looking for tomorrow because I am looking for a relationship and don't want to get too invested if thats not what she is looking for. I am bad at reading people and generally dating so I dont have much of a clue of what she might be wanting based off of noticing things alone. Submitted November 17, 2019 at 12:02AM I [20M] am going on a brunch date tomorrow with this girl [20F] that I have been seeing for about 3 weeks now. Its been a super busy midterm season for the both of us so this is only our 3rd real date but we've studied together a couple of times. Wondering if I should ask her what she is looking for tomorrow because I am looking for a relationship and don't want to get ...

M21 So I've been on tinder for a few days matched with a few people but conversations never seem to go anywhere keep not getting replies. Even though all I'm doing is showing I'm interested and commenting on matches profiles and asking questions and being myself. Submitted November 17, 2019 at 12:04AM M21 So I've been on tinder for a few days matched with a few people but conversations never seem to go anywhere keep not getting replies. Even though all I'm doing is showing I'm interested and commenting on matches profiles and asking questions and being myself.

Due to a complicated story of my situation, I just will shorten it. Essentially an ex of mine, who was my only good ex, and I fell out of our relationship. Part of this was my paranoia over her best friend who openly said he liked her, how he would only feel better out of a depression was for two people to break up and for one of them to fall in love with him and after all of this, his side was chosen to the point of a break and us just realizing this wouldn't work. I'm not a saint, I probably was a bad boyfriend here and there, some parts the anxiety, other parts a lack of wisdom and consideration I once had. I have never felt worse than today however, when I saw that they're going to a dance, she asked him in a cutesy way, and they're together. I just could use help on how to move on and ease myself. I know I shouldn't be upset but I just feel like this whole situation is wrong you know? The thing I feared always happened and...I just could use help Submitted...

Hi guy im just curios im 15 yeah i know im young but im kinda scared because i never have felt anything for anyone (sorry for the bad english) Submitted November 16, 2019 at 11:37PM Hi guy im just curios im 15 yeah i know im young but im kinda scared because i never have felt anything for anyone (sorry for the bad english)

I remember the first day we meet at our cousins and i had to sneak in the window and then i fell out of it. I was so nervous for that first kiss. I remember when we had are first kid and how nervous i was i didnt think i would be a good dad or could give yall what yall wanted. But i did my hest. We now have 2 kids well 3. You were my best friend and i loved you so much the day u left it broke me. Submitted November 16, 2019 at 11:56PM I remember the first day we meet at our cousins and i had to sneak in the window and then i fell out of it. I was so nervous for that first kiss. I remember when we had are first kid and how nervous i was i didnt think i would be a good dad or could give yall what yall wanted. But i did my hest. We now have 2 kids well 3. You were my best friend and i loved you so much the day u left it broke me.