I actually thought I was demi until I worked out the difference between sexual and romantic attraction. It was then that I realized I was asexual, but definitely experienced romantic attraction, and wasn't averse to engaging in sexual acts with someone I was romantically attracted to. Demisexuality is definitely a real and valid sexuality, but at some point it became clear to me that that wasn't what I was experiencing. It was actually pretty liberating to figure that out. If my comment helped you figure anything out, or helps you feel liberated in your identity, that is really cool and I'm glad I could help with that! July 01, 2021 at 12:03AM

Thought that was gonna get political lol I am pleased surprised also... what?? Why would they ban Vegemite that's so abstract? June 30, 2021 at 11:59PM

r/holup June 30, 2021 at 11:59PM

We do need a safety net. So we need social security and unemployment benefits and free public healthcare. Also I DON'T know if you know this but the FIRST law we need to repeal is the one pauses for an actual sob, eyes prickling with tears the Danish law banning Vegemite. I AM NOT GONNA LIVE IN ANY ACE COUNTRY THAT MAKES VEGEMITE ILLEGAL. NAW. June 30, 2021 at 11:57PM

r/AreTheAllosOk I'll decide to believe that this out of context and that the couple is playing, and it's completely consensual. June 30, 2021 at 11:57PM

Why can’t the world make ads like this: “garlic bread is the foundation of all happiness! Visit gloriousgarlicbread.com to get your own slice of happiness today!” June 30, 2021 at 11:55PM

Don't forget, ace includes demi and grey ace too. We are a diverse group of individuals! June 30, 2021 at 11:54PM

Oh for sure. They can care about it, and find it important. But it's sort of like thinking money will bring you happiness. Obtaining good sex rarely actually improves anyone's relationship or family life. June 30, 2021 at 11:49PM

I keep thinking about getting a ring but jewelry just isn't my thing. Id want a nice ring but I don't want to spend the money on something I'm not likely gonna wear. Idk June 30, 2021 at 11:49PM

I’m done with people saying ‘I’m so sorry for you :’(‘ whenever I tell them I’m ace. I’m not sorry. I’m me. Keep your pity. June 30, 2021 at 11:48PM

They're not, are they? Are they?? That's so hard to wrap my head around......I mean tell me what's attractive about a dick. Fucking wrinkly ass elongated flesh-toned rasin. What is appealing there. I could see maybe it triggers something instinctual in the brain that causes arousal, but legit attraction? (No offense to allos, I just find it funny. Like how) June 30, 2021 at 11:48PM

You might have helped me a lot with your comment. I think of sex in more of a romantic way that no one else seems to but it kinda doesn’t make sense when it comes out. It sounds like a Demi thing but based off of descriptions of sexual attraction, I have clearly never experienced that before. June 30, 2021 at 11:47PM

Yeah he's a trash character, I try to ignore him :/. June 30, 2021 at 11:47PM

Not having a celebrity celebrity crush, and if people ask, I'll say "I guess if I had to pick one, it'll be Frank Sinatra" or any other one of my favorite musician/artist. Doesn't help that I really like old music XD June 30, 2021 at 11:46PM

I'm closeted and hate myself, but I did get support online, so I guess it counts. June 30, 2021 at 11:46PM

Absolutely agree. Though you have to deal with Mineta, who’s the perviest perv of all. If you can deal with his presence though, it’s a great show! June 30, 2021 at 11:46PM

yup, I could write even more about trying to fit a hetero standard (while not really knowing anything or having any concrete ideas of what I wanted) than I did in my other comment. June 30, 2021 at 11:45PM

Waitaminut June 30, 2021 at 11:45PM

I'm not really a jewelry person June 30, 2021 at 11:43PM

It’s propaganda. “Stronger families”, as in the outcome of more sex would naturally lead to more members of the family, and that’s of course would make the “stronger”. They just want people to breed. June 30, 2021 at 11:42PM

A former friend of mine once told me he was demi and explained it, and I asked the stupid question every demi person has heard way too often: "Wait, that isn't the case for everyone?" I don't currently want to label myself as anything more concrete than ace, because I lack experience in almost every aspect. Might be demi, but I never had a relationship so how would I know. Might be a-, or bi-, or heteroromantic, but have no concrete evidence beyond having met people on my life, of different genders, who I'd have wanted to cuddle me. I try to focus on other, easier to navigate aspects of my life as much as I can June 30, 2021 at 11:40PM

And a big penis, remember last year when Batman showed his penis in a totally nonsexual way (he was getting out of his Batsuit in the semi-dark, totally tasteful even to this ace) and everyone was screaming that he had a tiny dick (it was average and flaccid) or that he had a huge dick (same point as above). Like...the man is having a vulnerable moment, can you creatures not focus on the size of his organ? Besides, some men grow a lot with arousal, flaccid size doesn't mean erect size, if that matters so much! People. June 30, 2021 at 11:40PM

Personally I found Chapters 182/214 and possibly 161.5 textual evidence against Saiki being Aro June 30, 2021 at 11:40PM

Nope, asexuality is about sexual attraction. You sound like a sex-repulsed allo June 30, 2021 at 12:06AM

My husband is actually one of the only people I’ve ever felt sexual attraction for. I have strong feelings for him that way. But I’ve only felt it briefly once before. I more “came out” to him as a way for both of us to open a conversation about our sexualities. He’s quite literally the opposite of me in the sense that he would enjoy an open sexual relationship, but doesn’t want to do it unless I would also like to participate (and I wouldn’t). But now I understand that I’m not interested because of my sexuality, and not because I think it’s morally wrong or something. It’s helped us understand each other a little better, even if we are total opposites. June 30, 2021 at 12:02AM

You absolutely don't have to try anything you're uncomfortable with, but I just have to mention that the odds of getting TSS are extremely rare: about 0.003%. It pretty much only occurs in cases where people have managed to forget the tampon is in there for a couple of weeks. June 30, 2021 at 12:01AM

And i June 30, 2021 at 12:01AM

Yeah, that is the same as the version I read then. Cupid/Eros shot them because Apollo had made a joke about how he was just a foolish boy and shouldn't have arrows. ​ But Daphne is her Greek name, it translates to Laurel but that name is Greek. June 30, 2021 at 12:00AM

Uh yeah, that’s illegal. You guys are minors, in the court of law she’s an adult. You can press charges for this, I don’t know what charge exactly. I think it’s sexual assault, child endangerment, explicit something, or just somewhere on the lines of pedophilia. June 30, 2021 at 12:00AM

I Am June 30, 2021 at 12:00AM

I'm not "female bodied" but I highly prefer using birth control to not have a period. Second to that, I prefer tampons. They honestly never bothered my sex or touch repulsion at all. Just way less messy (especially at night - I move around a lot in my sleep) and way easier and nicer since I work out a lot and pads tend to get sweaty and not stick as well. Plus, I was in competitive gymnastics - there's very little room to hide anything with a leotard. If I'd known about them before I went on bc, I would've tried period panties. Also seems useful. Pads are pretty much bottom of the list for me, though. Don't like the feeling, find them uncomfortable, and always having to worry about leakage and how I'm situated. June 29, 2021 at 11:59PM

Thank you :) June 29, 2021 at 11:59PM

Thank you :) June 29, 2021 at 11:59PM

I am sex repulsed too! :) June 29, 2021 at 11:58PM

same here June 29, 2021 at 11:57PM

felt June 29, 2021 at 11:57PM

Pads bc I had primary vaginismus. I got treatment for it, so now I can use tampons sometimes, which makes me happy because I can use them to swim on my periods now! Also “female” doctor appointments hurt less now :). I did do pelvic floor and dilator therapy but tbh I never felt it was… sexual? It’s just like. A body part. That hurt sometimes, so I did exercise for it. I would listen to podcasts during my PT a lot, (don’t think most would find the magnus archives and sawbones at all steamy tbh, it was no more painful or “exciting” than moderate yoga tbh.) June 29, 2021 at 11:56PM

as someone that knows my mom wouldn’t approve of me, i am extremely happy for you!! you are so lucky to have parents that support you and you should be proud!! June 29, 2021 at 11:56PM

Asexuals can be curious, but this beyond curiosity. This disgusting and wrong, no matter if she’s ace or not. This is possibility a humiliation tactic to amuse herself, and she took your boyfriend’s friendship for it. Absolutely gross… June 29, 2021 at 11:56PM

I just came out today! Yessss I have this exact experience. Forced myself to have a hookup a year to keep up normal st8 girl appearance. I’m done denying it. I fucking hate sex. June 29, 2021 at 11:56PM

I think of it as the 'where do we draw the line' idea. Slippery Slope Fallacy??? In short, it's the misbelief that if an arbitrary line isn't consciously drawn somewhere and then enforced, people will genuinely start identifying as attack helicopters, and that it will be harmful.... for some reason / that if conscious effort isn't made, society will implode into degeneracy because people are incapable of self-regulation or something. It's the 'if we stop arresting people for being gay, then they'll want to get married, and if they can get married then they'll want children and if they can have children they'll-' panic but repackaged. It's Homophobia: Episode (I've lost track) Season Can We Stop Now Please? And we all know homophobia is repackaged misogyny so... There's also the added fear of ridicule by association. It's the same reason some gay and lesbian folk turn against bisexuals, why some binary trans people don't

LMAO I love this. This made my day June 29, 2021 at 11:55PM

pads as well, I feel the same way like I just haven’t worked the courage to try and insert one June 29, 2021 at 11:55PM

This situation is absolutely fucking disgusting June 29, 2021 at 11:54PM

Scandinavian here. I’ll let you all in, just knock! June 29, 2021 at 11:54PM

Caenis (female)/Caeneus (male). June 29, 2021 at 11:54PM

Oh it's terrible. That show is the worst. It doesn't reflect anything aside from what people are willing to do for fame. June 29, 2021 at 12:01AM

Yep! I identify as AAAAAAAAH! June 29, 2021 at 12:01AM

:D June 29, 2021 at 12:00AM

:D June 29, 2021 at 12:00AM

That’s gotta be scripted!! Normal allos would be like “sex? In THIS economy???” June 28, 2021 at 11:59PM

Dose this mean I can describe you as AAAAAAAAA?! June 28, 2021 at 11:59PM

(: June 28, 2021 at 11:58PM

Thanks for the info and support <3 June 28, 2021 at 11:58PM

You're welcome <3 I only discovered the terms for what I am over the last few years, and if I can help make shortcuts for people to discover themselves, it's all worth it. June 28, 2021 at 11:57PM

Well lucky for you it's undetectable in a drug test after just a few hours. Also most drug tests don't even look for it, it takes a specific test. I know this probably won't convince you to try it, but this stuff literally saved my life so I figured I'd put the info out there. Have a good one! 😁 June 28, 2021 at 11:56PM

I’ve come to realize I’m positive with a drive, and it’s odd cuz half the time I feel I’m not really ace when “browsing Reddit” on my phone, and then Im out and about in the real world/on dating apps and it’s like “oh yeah, I am ace, I just get horny” and it’s a repetitive cycle June 28, 2021 at 11:56PM

Just realized that this is what I am! I never knew there was a term! Thank you! June 28, 2021 at 11:56PM

Same! June 28, 2021 at 11:54PM

I'm a bus driver. Random drug tests are a thing and if I get caught with something I shouldn't in my system, it's pretty much career ending. June 28, 2021 at 11:50PM

Thankfully I don't get sensory overload, but yeah sometimes the colours can be pretty overwhelming. I've had times where I try to find stuff on a shelf and literally can't see it because the shelf is so busy I can't focus. Not sure if that's because of tetrachromacy or neurodiversity though. June 28, 2021 at 11:49PM

That vest is sick, always gotta rock the denim. June 28, 2021 at 11:49PM

Oh that's to bad, may I ask how come? June 28, 2021 at 11:47PM

Eayyee fellow tetrachromat! Grocery stores are a shopping nightmare! Someone to share my pain with. Lol June 28, 2021 at 11:47PM

Wall-e is non-binary and asexual (robots don't have sex). He ain't aromantic but all Wall-e wants to do is hold hands. And Wall-e is one of my favs too :) June 28, 2021 at 11:44PM

I have a load of graphic novels and such. But I have books I really wish I could read but I just get bored so fast. June 28, 2021 at 11:41PM

DMT? The first thing that comes to mind is dimethyltryptamine and I can't take stuff like that. June 28, 2021 at 11:41PM

Yes i love fantasy book but i can only read ones that have movies or tv show adaptations. June 28, 2021 at 11:40PM

I find it difficult to read nonfiction because I cannot imagine the world that the book describes. It's just words to me :/ June 28, 2021 at 11:39PM

I married an ace girl. I don't need to have sex with her to love her. Plus I get a lot of garlic bread and she can turn into a dragon to burn our enemies so that's pretty neat June 28, 2021 at 12:27AM

This is fantastic. I love it. You can't choose asexuality, so why not see the positive sides of it? June 28, 2021 at 12:26AM

Aros are part of A-spec and agender is part of trans... ? I could list a thousand other sub groups like this and randomly accusing you of things about them, but that's not really related to the point of you actively trying to erase asexual people in favor of allies. It is extremely important for both representation and validation of a-spec people that the "A" stands for them. It's horribly dismissive and discriminatory to treat the entire ace/aro spectrum being included AT ALL as equal to a single very uncommon gender that's already included indirectly also getting a direct nod. Or worse, any random cis/het person who insist they would like the privileges of allyship. June 28, 2021 at 12:25AM

I appreciate you letting me know I’m not alone. That makes me feel a lot better. This is why I love this community because when I’m feeling like I’m the only one in the world going through this, kind folks like you stop in to let me know that’s not true. June 28, 2021 at 12:25AM

I do not believe there is any correlation between period changes and figuring out your sexual identity, but if you want to hear from someone who experienced something similar, my cycles changed completely in the same time frame that I learned I’m ace. Now to be fair, I’ve gone through a lot of major life changes, faced a lot of anxiety, and I’m also getting old enough to hit peri menopause, so the changes are probably due to the above. But it is funny that I suddenly started getting much heavier periods, with first ever PMS migraines, worsened PMS symptoms, less time between cycles (changed from every 31 days to 28. Sometimes 26), and shorter cycles (three to four days instead of six to eight. I do like having fewer days of diarrhea so that change is welcome. But the others… Eesh. I hated waking up to a murder scene in my bed. It was the first time I’ve had to change pad size since I was a teenager.) All of this started about three years ago, and I learned about Anegosexuality about t

my experience is there's a good amount of allosexual folk who don't know the meaning of asexual/aromantic OR they think their D/V is good enough to change it. June 28, 2021 at 12:22AM

I understand this completely, but I'm definitely missing the close friends part. Mostly because people are just difficult, myself included. June 28, 2021 at 12:22AM

Hey there! It seems a new thread opened up just for this a day or two ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/Acefriendships/ Good luck! June 28, 2021 at 12:22AM

ive realised that my sexual preferences change depending on how confident in my body i feel. i thought i was a lesbian for years but ive recently developed a crush on a guy. i was okay with it at first but today i was feeling really insecure and i cant stomach the thought of being with a guy. but being with a woman would still be fine. this is also evident in my porn watching habits as i hate watching straight porn 99% of the time and gay mlm porn is my comfort zone. i think this is because the women in porn are always good looking. even when watching amateur porn it makes me feel bad because i feel like they look better than me. also i hate shaving and the women are always at least partially shaved i think i just have a need to feel attractive especially to men and its really getting to me and getting in the way of relationships. any advice? Submitted June 27, 2021 at 11:31PM ive realised that my sexual preferences change depending on how confident in my body i feel. i thoug

Could someone explain to me why every time I give a blowjob I am perfectly able to reach the bottom, but when I have to deal with a toothbrush, as soon as it enters the middle of my throat, I feel like throwing up? Submitted June 27, 2021 at 11:40PM Could someone explain to me why every time I give a blowjob I am perfectly able to reach the bottom, but when I have to deal with a toothbrush, as soon as it enters the middle of my throat, I feel like throwing up?

You're doing yoga outside without a matt and your feet get a lil dirty. You walk inside and see your man chilling on the couch reading a book. You stand there until he notices you looking at him. You click your fingers point at your feet and say "they're dirty clean them. " he drops his book as you sit down on the couch put your feet up and watch him worship you, humbling himself before you... Now excuse the erotic (possibly gross to some) scenario but I wanted to outline it and then relay my perspective. Originally this fantasy brought me a sense of shame. As a guy I want to feel powerful, strong and respectable. Of course this act doesn't lend itself to any such accolades. However my perspective has changed since- I now view this from a different angle. I feel that I retain my masculinity by simply still being the man in the relationship but a man who is willing to serve and submit ONLY to his woman. Outside of the bedroom he protects her and would put his bo

A couples of friends and I are thinking to start a kind of new idea where we do erotic records , we don't know if there are guys interested taking on account that guys are more visuals but we think maybe we can produce some audios and put maybe some pics to imagination . Do you think could be a good idea ? We are latinas and our English it's not good , that could be erotic? Submitted June 27, 2021 at 11:58PM A couples of friends and I are thinking to start a kind of new idea where we do erotic records , we don't know if there are guys interested taking on account that guys are more visuals but we think maybe we can produce some audios and put maybe some pics to imagination . Do you think could be a good idea ? We are latinas and our English it's not good , that could be erotic?

Went on a vacation with my friend and his wife this weekend. Been friends with both then quite awhile. We got a hotel room and bar hopped downtown. Eventually end back at the room and keep drinking. My friend and his wife get ready to go to bed around 3AM, I'm still up. My friend texts me from the next bed over: "Hey, odd question. Do you want your dick sucked? Wife is real horny. It'll be just between us." I was too drunk to notice my phone going off at first. I replied a few minutes later: "Everything good homie?" Friend says: "Yeah sorry about that big time man totally my bad, hopefully we can just forget about that." I tell him no worries and that I say stupid stuff while drunk all the time. Not gonna lie, I would've been down for it if he was serious. Not sure if he back tracked because he was drunk and embarrassed or didn't think I'd be for it. I didn't bring it up the next morning to either. Chances of this happening

Since my therapist refuse to talk about it I have to do it here. My therapist say that the subject is too horrible for her and that she don't want to hear about it anymore. So, a little trigger warning. Please don't remove this post because my therapist don't want to help me with it. Oh and please read all. First of all, I don't get turned on by real humans at all. Only cartoon characters turn me on but only characters who don't look too human like. Anime is too realistic and don't do it for me. I mean characters with big cartoon eyes, tall skinny bodies and stuff like that. That isn't the problem.... The problem is that I get turned on by characters who treat other characters like trash. Who kill, cut open other characters brains, cut out their eyes, take out their organs and are abusive to them. I get off to pictures of the character taking out brains, eyes and stuff. The thing is that I can only get off to it if it's a abusive relationship. If they

Ok so I’m really worried this started on Wednesday and I don’t know what to do or if there is anything I can do. I’ve been talking to this girl for a while now but on Wednesday it started to get a bit more intimate. First off I should probably explain that we only talk over text because of covid and just other reasons that get in the way. But what I mean by “more intimate” is that we’ve spoke about basically how we want to be together and go we both want to just sit down together and just hug for a while. Here’s the problem, I’m not horny or thinking about sex but for some reason just the mere thought of her or when I’m texting her I start leaking a little bit. I don’t know if there’s a medical problem or if this can be fixed but I’m really worried. Any help is appreciated thank you in advance. Submitted June 27, 2021 at 11:59PM Ok so I’m really worried this started on Wednesday and I don’t know what to do or if there is anything I can do. I’ve been talking to this girl for a wh

F25. Like the title says, I never get wet naturally. No matter how much I am turned on or how long foreplay has been happening I just don’t seem to produce anything that you can feel outside of my vagina. I have always had this problem and was wondering if I could do anything to remedy it. As a side note that could be related, I am overweight and was wondering if that could be it? I also have pretty large labia minora and have always wondered if that could somehow be part of the “problem” too. Any insight would be appreciated. Submitted June 28, 2021 at 12:00AM F25. Like the title says, I never get wet naturally. No matter how much I am turned on or how long foreplay has been happening I just don’t seem to produce anything that you can feel outside of my vagina. I have always had this problem and was wondering if I could do anything to remedy it. As a side note that could be related, I am overweight and was wondering if that could be it? I also have pretty large labia minora and

Would you date/sleep with someone that has hsv 1 or 2? How much does it matter to you? Especially if it’s dormant Submitted June 28, 2021 at 12:02AM Would you date/sleep with someone that has hsv 1 or 2? How much does it matter to you? Especially if it’s dormant

So, this is weird. I know. My guy friend and I hooked up after years of being BFF’s. I know this sounds awful, and I know there are some judgy people out there but oh well. I need honesty. We are both involved w others too. So, I guess you could say we are each other’s “side pieces”. Well, after a planned day of just all day spending the day together and having sex and talking and etc. he got post nut syndrome. He’s been distant but we still talk everyday. He’s just not reciprocating the flirting, and initiating sex, etc... we are planning to see each other soon just to hang out and I really want to be with him again. To all the guys...how do I initiate...how do turn him on...what do I do? Do I dress up, flirt, touch him? I don’t want to make him uncomfortable, but I want him to know what he’s missing. He’s always been incredibly into me, for years and now I feel like he’s over it, even though he continues to tell me he’s still really attracted to me, yet he’s been distant. He claims

So we met three years ago at my former job. He said he’s had a crush on my for a while and he wanted to meet and do it for a while. Well I’m a virgin and nervous to do it with someone. Plus I have a crush on my high school crush (we don’t talk, it’s just a crush I can’t get over), and what I’m basically saying is idk if I have feelings for my colleague. I’m on the fence about losing my virginity to someone I’m 50/50 about, I keep putting it off about hanging out and when he compliments me. Plus he has two kids and I’m just not into that. I don’t mind kids, it’s just that I don’t want them, nor do I want to get involved with someone in that situation. I’ve never dated anybody either so I’ve been thinking about this for a while and I don’t know. Sometimes I get horny and flip flop but I know that I shouldn’t get into a relationship of any kind just for sex. Agh! Submitted June 28, 2021 at 12:07AM So we met three years ago at my former job. He said he’s had a crush on my for a whil

I am 7 months pregnant with my first baby. I am lactating already and my husband wants to do some things sexually with my milk. Has anyone ever done this and if so tips? Submitted June 28, 2021 at 12:13AM I am 7 months pregnant with my first baby. I am lactating already and my husband wants to do some things sexually with my milk. Has anyone ever done this and if so tips?

Hi. I’ve been thinking about it lately. I am not against being in a committed relationship, but I am wanting to have fun. Wanted some honest opinions. What are the best casual sex/hook up apps or websites? No scams, no bots, just genuine people? BTW I am a young guy in college. Submitted June 28, 2021 at 12:16AM Hi. I’ve been thinking about it lately. I am not against being in a committed relationship, but I am wanting to have fun. Wanted some honest opinions. What are the best casual sex/hook up apps or websites? No scams, no bots, just genuine people? BTW I am a young guy in college.

can sperm be transferred to a vagina causing pregnancy from taking off a used condom and then wiping the penis with a wet towel, then after all that using sanitizer to "kill" the remaining of the sperm on hand, then applying the new condom correctly? Submitted June 28, 2021 at 12:19AM can sperm be transferred to a vagina causing pregnancy from taking off a used condom and then wiping the penis with a wet towel, then after all that using sanitizer to "kill" the remaining of the sperm on hand, then applying the new condom correctly?

I was sitting on my boyfriends lap at the cinema and we kissed. I had my first kiss a week ago and kissed one more after that day. I was a mess. My boyfriend was so good but I wasn’t. I leaned the wrong way and was just painfully a mess. I almost cried from embarrassment and I am just as I type this. I pulled away from the kiss and immediately apologised and covered my face with my hands. My boyfriend reacted completely fine and understood. He did say we weren’t in the right position and there was people around. I’m just so embarrassed, how on earth did I mess up on my 3rd kiss. And to think I thought my first and second kiss was bad... After he offered to kiss when we were at a cafe afterwards but I was so embarrassed and said no because there’s people around. I’m scared to kiss again. I feel like I can never get it right. Please give me advice Submitted June 28, 2021 at 12:22AM I was sitting on my boyfriends lap at the cinema and we kissed. I had my first kiss a week ago an

Cuuuute! 😍 June 27, 2021 at 12:00AM

I want ace nails now but I don't like to do my nails and I'm closeted :< June 26, 2021 at 11:52PM

So cool! June 26, 2021 at 11:49PM

Thoes are so cool! June 26, 2021 at 11:49PM

Thanks for the award u/HealingTank ! June 26, 2021 at 11:48PM

Yes, we need to educate more people about this! June 26, 2021 at 11:48PM

god what a fucking twat!! June 26, 2021 at 11:47PM

As a fellow ace with dental problems, I feel this in my soul. June 26, 2021 at 11:46PM

Someone's ability to sense if someone is gay or not when it's not obvious. Q) What is your gaydar telling you about that waiter. A) It's pinging loudly hey. Urban dictionary never disappoints June 26, 2021 at 11:45PM

Hold up lemme get the urban dictionary June 26, 2021 at 11:43PM

I’m 13, and I’m in the same boat. Looking forward to 2025, guys! June 26, 2021 at 11:38PM

I really like this quote! Don't love the typography tho :c June 26, 2021 at 11:35PM

I definitely fuck with people's gaydar June 26, 2021 at 11:34PM

I totally understand that too. People I was in secondary school or college for example, plenty are either in long term relationships or married, or with kids. And like you, I had the same feelings of "Oh shit, there's everyone being adult and doing adult things like lots of sex and baby manufacturing!" But you know what? I'm OK with that now, cos I know who I am. I remember seeing the posters for "40 Year Old Virgin" when I was 17, and even then I knew I was "different" from everyone else around me, I just didn't know that something like asexuality existed. I went "Oh shit, that's going to me, I'm going to be the 40 Year Old Virgin!" But now I'm at the stage in my life where I understand my asexuality, and I don't feel shame anymore because I never had sex, and never will. I never had to go through what you're going through though, cos my family never badgered me about it. "Why don't you have a girlfrie

I need help figuring this out...Most of the time I have no libido and I've neved been sexually attracted to anyone but when that time of month comes around my libido skyrockets - its like a scratch I need to itch. I feel so guilty because I think I may be lying to myself and anyone I told. And I find people attractive, but its more of "oh that person is soo fine...but I don't want to sleep with them". Then I think that maybe its just because I'm a virgin and haven't experienced it yet, but I've had situations where I could have gone through with it, but had no desire to. Am I crazy? June 26, 2021 at 11:34PM

Have you seen that meme of the two astronauts in space where one says to another "always've been"?? This reminds me of it lol June 26, 2021 at 11:33PM

It is, and same June 26, 2021 at 11:33PM

Can someone explain to me what a Gaydar is? And what part we play in it? June 26, 2021 at 11:33PM

I'm a cis woman who can relate. It creeps me out. Probably should have been a clue for me much, much sooner. Like, I should have caught on in high school. June 26, 2021 at 11:30PM

I don’t think couples who are both pizza enthusiasts have less time for romance because of the time they spend enjoying pizza together, because they are going to have romantic pizza dates. Pretty sure sex works the same as pizza in this context. So, no. June 26, 2021 at 11:27PM