I’m (F25) met someone in a dating app (F24), we dated for a few weeks until she said she doesn’t want anything serious. She wants to either be friends or friends with benefits. I only want to keep good people in my life. Not sure if I should be friends with her since we’re not dating anymore. And she recently started responding to my texts late and it upset me. When I told her she said I’m overthinking and she doesn’t care. Maybe I was too confrontational? I don’t know, if I should check up on her or just move on? Here are some of her red flags: Lies about meaningless things. For example, pretending to have wanted to go to an art museum just because I like it. Or telling me she read my favorite book when she didn’t. Parties every weekend and texts me while drunk. Doesn’t have other hobbies. Came over to my apartment, didn’t eat the food I got her but drank a whole bottle of wine. Cheats in her university classes. She quit her job because she hates all of her coworkers and used

TLDR: I (27 M) am about to start seriously looking for someone and wanted ask what I can do to be the best me that I can be. Personal Backstory: I haven't really tried to be with anyone since high school. I was always working on something else or enjoying my time with my friends. Meeting a nice woman wasn't at the top of my list of concerns. After graduating college and working as a programmer for 2 years at John Deere in a rinky dink little town, I realized I didn't have a goal in life anymore. My job was good, and paid decent enough for my first real job out of college but I felt kind of of alone out there. So I put in my two weeks and left. Moved in with a male friend of mine in January, and I have spent the last 9 months figuring shit out. I discovered I like being around and living with other people It's nice to share my hobbies with people in person (I've spent probably to much time on discord) I want to be attracted to someone completely I want to be