I'll do it but I won't like it? April 23, 2022 at 01:24AM

I had a partner for roughly a year and a half, which for what it's worth, it included having sex a bunch. Was it enjoyable? Barely. I enjoy my own company way better. Did I think I was sexually attracted to him? Yeah. Was I? No. Turns out I'm demisexual, and after a two year friend (and my breakup), I found out what sexual attraction is supposed to feel like. I'm tired of how little we're being taught about what sexual or romantic attraction. I thought wanting x and y to be my friend was a crush. I thought feeling comfortable around someone meant I liked them romantically. Can you blame me? When people hypersexualize babies for so little as stare at a person of the opposite sex, we're just teaching them and nearby children that liking how a person looks means you have a crush on them. I suffered for years bc I thought my emotions were those worthy of a relationship, while all they were was the comfort that I'm "normal". "This is what it's...

I’m in my twenties and I’m a regular average or slightly above average dude. I don’t got a six pack or anything, but I think I have a nice face and I’m graduating college with a degree in engineering. However, not once in my entire life, I’ve never had any “success” with any women. I have been on 3 first dates with women I’ve met on tinder. I have not met one person in real life who has been into me. All my social circles throughout my life have been filled with men, wether it be highschool friends or a college major where 80% are guys. Im generally well liked by everyone and maintain a good reputation. I’m very good at making friends, I have a lot of acquaintance type friends, but im talking about making REAL friends. I have no problems socializing with people. However even though I am able to make friends very easily with people (guys). I can NEVER form any type of relationship with a girl other than a mere acquaintance. You would think if I just talk to a lot of girls things w...

Same here - I think :) April 23, 2022 at 12:12AM

I’ve been dating this guy for about 3 months now. He’s in a boys trip and he sends me snips of his day and what not. Is this normal. It feels nice to be in the loop or is he trying to make me jealous. I feel like I’m overthinking this Submitted April 23, 2022 at 12:12AM I’ve been dating this guy for about 3 months now. He’s in a boys trip and he sends me snips of his day and what not. Is this normal. It feels nice to be in the loop or is he trying to make me jealous. I feel like I’m overthinking this