I'm not generally repulsed unless I'm involved, but when it's people I know talking explicitly about sex, I'm very much repulsed, too. It's really irritating, because most people aren't bothered, and I don't want to seem bothered, but ew. July 15, 2019 at 12:26AM

This may feel like some no duh stuff, but this is DOT, so maybe someone needs to hear this. ​ After thinking about some issues a member of this group has repeatedly brought up and hearing about the Bagel Boss incident, I realized something that should have been pretty obvious from the start. ​ For anyone dealing with an issue, usually but not limited to physical, that makes them feel like they're less desirable you have a very simple (though not easy) task in front of you. ​ Let's call the issue X. Your mission is that whomever is looking at your profile, meeting you for the first time, or on a first date with you, they will not leave that encounter defining you by X. You need to give them at least 2 or 3 positive things about yourself that if they think of you, or describe you to someone else, they're going to bring those positive traits/aspects up even before X enters their mind. If you fail to do this it's entirely on you that they define you as X because that...

I really like her and she’s said she likes me multiple times but I don’t want to lose her to another guy that might come up in that time before she turns 18 Submitted July 14, 2019 at 11:54PM I really like her and she’s said she likes me multiple times but I don’t want to lose her to another guy that might come up in that time before she turns 18

Ok so Friday I got a little wine drunk and ended up finding my ex bf from middle school on fb. (We are 31) he added me right away and we got to catching up. Both of us are single currently but in different states (not super far away). Well everything was going great but I haven’t heard from him since... we do have history as our families have know each other since we were little bit haven’t really seen them since high school maybe? So idk he seemed excited to catch up as was I so now I’m over thinking... damn wine!! Submitted July 14, 2019 at 11:54PM Ok so Friday I got a little wine drunk and ended up finding my ex bf from middle school on fb. (We are 31) he added me right away and we got to catching up. Both of us are single currently but in different states (not super far away). Well everything was going great but I haven’t heard from him since... we do have history as our families have know each other since we were little bit haven’t really seen them since high school maybe? ...

From my experience people usually turn up being just plain a plain no or being rude when turning someone down. You don’t have to say yes but be kind and thoughtful of how they’re felling. Submitted July 15, 2019 at 12:03AM From my experience people usually turn up being just plain a plain no or being rude when turning someone down. You don’t have to say yes but be kind and thoughtful of how they’re felling.

She doesn’t really have fenale friends. Most guys she interacts with on the regular are saved in her phone as nicknames. To be fair, her parents and her boss, who’s gay, are also saved as nicknames. Her mother and brother are super Nosey and Messy. She has given me fingerprint access to her phone, and my her phone pin. Should I be concerned that the nicknames thing is a big red flag? Or just a quirk? Other than this, I don’t feel she exhibits fuckgirl behavior but it does have me concerned. Submitted July 15, 2019 at 12:06AM She doesn’t really have fenale friends. Most guys she interacts with on the regular are saved in her phone as nicknames. To be fair, her parents and her boss, who’s gay, are also saved as nicknames. Her mother and brother are super Nosey and Messy. She has given me fingerprint access to her phone, and my her phone pin.Should I be concerned that the nicknames thing is a big red flag? Or just a quirk?Other than this, I don’t feel she exhibits fuckgirl behavi...

Here’s a quick way I found to cure dating anxiety and help with confidence building. It’s fun, simple and easy. Hope you develop a new perspective and get many opportunities! Submitted July 15, 2019 at 12:20AM Here’s a quick way I found to cure dating anxiety and help with confidence building. It’s fun, simple and easy. Hope you develop a new perspective and get many opportunities!

So around 2 weeks ago I met this girl on Tinder, and we seemed to hit it off really well. But then I found out that she was only visiting Houston to see some family and I was like “ohhh shit” but then we have been still talking throughout those past 2 weeks but today she asked me where things are going because we both live in different cities and she thought she already planned to come back to Houston in August but now she’s not sure if she’s actually gonna. I didn’t know what to tell her so I just simply told her that I needed some time to think about it and she let me. Before I met her, I met this other girl on Tinder who actually lives in Houston. But the thing is, we didn’t match, I followed her on instagram but I noticed that she already follows me so I’m not sure about all the details yet. She replied to one of my stories and we were talking for a bit and then she asked me if I could call her and I said sure and then we facetimed for literally 3 hours!! I asked her out as well! ...

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I’m both mad and happy that everyone already made the Ace puns I was going to make July 15, 2019 at 12:14AM

Why? Why do you say sorry? Are you sorry? Sorry for what? Why did you tell me you were crazy in love with me? Why did you tell me i made you so happy? If it was to make it so hard to be with you? So hard to read your messages? So hard to agree with you about anything? So f****** hard ? If you really were? Were you? Did you feel what you said? Or is it what you said to every guy you’ve been with? Do you think it is ok for me to read all i’ve red day after day? Is life easy for others ? Do other people not feel hunger, pain, exhaustion too ? Did you think about it? I said we shouldn’t keep any contact to make the recovery the least hard possible, you took me by my word, why can’t i stop thinking about you? I literally can’t, i can’t every single day, every night, alone or with friends, i can’t ,i’m trying but i can’t yet. You say it’s just how you are, your personnality, ´it is just how it is’ but how? How can you say you are trying? I saw how sweet and loving you can be, i felt it and ...

Have you ever had a connection with someone that was so strong that you can’t get it out of your head? All you want is to know what it is like to kiss, hug, cuddle with them. I have. But I am also in a serious relationship with someone else that I love dearly. But the passion isn’t as strong as I feel for this other person. Let’s call him J. J is a smart ass. He is hilarious. And I wish I knew what it’s like to kiss him. To feel his arms around me. His body on top of me. Should I even pursue this? Submitted July 15, 2019 at 12:00AM Have you ever had a connection with someone that was so strong that you can’t get it out of your head? All you want is to know what it is like to kiss, hug, cuddle with them. I have. But I am also in a serious relationship with someone else that I love dearly. But the passion isn’t as strong as I feel for this other person. Let’s call him J. J is a smart ass. He is hilarious. And I wish I knew what it’s like to kiss him. To feel his arms around me. H...

We are nothing and maybe this is all in my head. What I feel for you is strong and I felt that from how you act.. you did too...Then I would reciprocate and you would RUN. I made excuses for you.... I said I need to be patient he is shy he is insecure he has lived thru some shit ..Sadly all those excuses came down crashing last week when everything came out .. You are not shy or insecure or intimidated by me... YOU have someone. YOU have had someone for a while... . Thank you for telling my friends... at least you can talk to them without issue. it’s my fault I know I made the excuses. Now to rip you from my heart and from my head..... Submitted July 15, 2019 at 12:15AM We are nothing and maybe this is all in my head. What I feel for you is strong and I felt that from how you act.. you did too...Then I would reciprocate and you would RUN. I made excuses for you.... I said I need to be patient he is shy he is insecure he has lived thru some shit ..Sadly all those excuses came d...

Beautiful bracelet! I like also how you closed it off. Nice job! I need to make one like that. So cool! Looks great! July 15, 2019 at 12:04AM

definitely counts! It seems like you'd fit in the asexual spectrum. I'd define the erection you get as physical arousal, which can happen regardless of sexual attraction! July 15, 2019 at 12:03AM

Wow. This is the most close story I’ve seen in a long time that I relate to. Except I’m not Latino, however my parents are bothering me. July 15, 2019 at 12:02AM

Try to talk to him about it, and maybe you can work things out. If you don't want to be in an polyarmous relationship, you shouldn't force yourself, even if you said something else in the past. Hopefully he can understand that. If he does force you or doesn't respect your boundaries, maybe you aren't that compatible after all. Whishing you the best of luck. Stay strong <3 July 14, 2019 at 11:59PM

I prefer shipping to be healthy and free of any gross stuff that I've listed. I have no problem with dark history and conflict, in fact, I invite it. But there are certain lines characters can't cross for me to be invested. They're on opposite sides of a war, fight neck-to-neck, come to a truce, form a bond? All right. They have conflicting ideologies, butt heads often but ultimately respect each other? Cool. They've murdered thousands together without remorse just to preserve their bond and view of the world? Fine. Brutal back-and-forth banter and roasting each other just for fun (Aka friendly competition)? Yes, please. They'll kill or die for the other in a heartbeat? Yes, more of that, please. World domination together? Yes! Please! One of them abuses the other in any way (or mutually), ridiculous age gap, any legal or blood relation? Nope, kill it with fire. I've shipped plenty characters with dark backgrounds and extreme conflicts. I have no problem with ...

That purple loop is 👌👌 July 14, 2019 at 11:57PM

so, the title pretty much says it all. I started a new job a couple of weeks ago, and met another new hire who I am interested in getting to know better. We did a group project together, so we have interacted a bit. The thing is, it’s a big company and we work for different teams so I don’t know when I’ll see him again in person/have the opportunity to talk to him again. I added him on Facebook after our group project was over, and he accepted pretty quickly. I want to send him a message, essentially saying that he seems like a cool guy that I’m interested in getting to know better. This is where I need help. what should I message him so that he knows I’m interested, but also so it doesn’t come across as creepy (being that we’ve only interacted for a short time)? Submitted July 14, 2019 at 11:59PM so, the title pretty much says it all.I started a new job a couple of weeks ago, and met another new hire who I am interested in getting to know better. We did a group project toget...