Got to the point where I was trying to exchange contact info with one of my matches. She seemed really interested and was the one to bring up exchanging contact info - I then said “sure” what’s your username” and the convo then immediately dried up. Now I’m overthinking and feel like I fucked up the tension by framing it as a question and I should’ve said “Sure send me your username”instead. Does something small like that really matter enough to drive someone away who seemed interested initially? It seems weird to me that something so small would drive someone away, are women usually fickle about the phrasing like that? Submitted December 13, 2023 at 12:16AM Got to the point where I was trying to exchange contact info with one of my matches. She seemed really interested and was the one to bring up exchanging contact info - I then said “sure” what’s your username” and the convo then immediately dried up. Now I’m overthinking and feel like I fucked up the tension by framing it as