For context, I(F19) am going on a second date with a guy(M21). The first date went well, we went to the mall and we hugged each other at the end. For the second date, we will eat breakfast somewhere and then go watch a movie at a theater. He has expressed over text twice that he would like to hold my hands. So I thought maybe I'd initiate it myself to show I'm okay with that. If you were in this situation, when do you think would be a good time to hold hands? While we eat breakfast, or during the movie? Submitted February 11, 2023 at 01:14AM For context, I(F19) am going on a second date with a guy(M21). The first date went well, we went to the mall and we hugged each other at the end. For the second date, we will eat breakfast somewhere and then go watch a movie at a theater.He has expressed over text twice that he would like to hold my hands. So I thought maybe I'd initiate it myself to show I'm okay with that.If you were in this situation, when do you think w

Or does it work the other way? For reference, I’m 23 F and I have 2 dates lined up with guys, one who’s 31 and another who’s 39. They’re way more attractive than any guys my own age who I’ve gone out with by a mile and I just want to manage my expectations. Submitted February 11, 2023 at 12:12AM Or does it work the other way? For reference, I’m 23 F and I have 2 dates lined up with guys, one who’s 31 and another who’s 39. They’re way more attractive than any guys my own age who I’ve gone out with by a mile and I just want to manage my expectations.

I(22m, introvert, never had a gf) met this girl(20f) at work and after talking couple of times and finding out we have a lot in common, I started having feelings for her, so I asked her on a date and she agreed. We went out twice a week and always somewhere new and it was nice for 2 months, also texted each other every other day . Even if we haven't had a kiss for that 2 months, I asked her if our relationship with this dates is going in the direction of "more than friends", and she said she wanted to ask me the same and said that she is glad were on a same page. I was happy I was able to do something in my dating life, but everything turned upside down. Went couple of times out after that and I wanted to arrange another date, but she said she had some projects for uni before exams and didn't have time. I was ok with that and I told her to call me when she had time because I didn't want to bother her at that time. Still continued to text her to keep connection,

If you are attracted to someone upon meeting them, that wouldn’t be asexuality. If it takes a long time to start to feel attraction, that would be demisexual. I can’t tell you what your sexuality is, since I’m not you. The best thing you can do is look into demisexual experiences, and see if you relate to them. However based just on what you said, I don’t think you’re ace-spec. February 10, 2023 at 11:49PM

I didn’t mean all ace people but I get what you’re saying February 10, 2023 at 11:45PM

Chase Acely February 10, 2023 at 11:44PM